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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

I don't even know how the doctor was able to say Sona cannot conceive when she is not even married and haven't tried to get pregnant😆. It is impossible to say that unless there is no uterus and other glands and tubes. But since he used the term inhospitable uterus that is not the case.The cause of inhospitable uterus varies. But all these conditions have treatments and the success rate varies from person to person.

Now if Sona is really having infertility issues she is the one who should be made aware of it first. The decision to inform the parents and in laws is very very personal. It is not Ishwari's or Sona's parents right but Sona and Dev's right to decide whether or not to tell and when to tell them.

Ishwari deserving to know since it is Dev's 'waris'- we don't know yet if Dev have any issues until he also tries. If he doesn't have any problems they can still get their waris. Medical science is advanced now. Lot of options are there.


Exactly my 2 cents any decent Dr will not reveal a patient's reports to any tom dick and harry-Future husband not withstandding(Dev wasnt evn engaged to sona at that point)Its a wrong precedence-No Dr will discuss without patient being there with anyone else-& in this age & time when people are so anxious for everything-Boses seem strange -Dev said normal& they believed-Sona;s father always distrusts dixits So now what-Blind trust on Dev ????very strange-Its going the typical Kekta way-I would have loved Dev telling everyone her condition & yet frim on marrying her-Then show all masala-Now dev's character is already butchered!!!
& whether IShwari knows or not is a different story-Sniff sniff-Im already hating Dev!!!He hid his love from his beloved mother,then simply threw away his love because of his mother's whim& then made whims to get his love back-& again he is lying-
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She absolutely does have the right to know. Dev is being selfish here by not telling Ishwari...how can he forget his mothers wishes who begged in front of boys family for rishta..Common in India even today no one begs for the rishta which Ishwari did as a Mom...Not happy with Dev this time
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No she doesnt need to need.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: india2050

Exactly my 2 cents any decent Dr will not reveal a patient's reports to any tom dick and harry-Future husband not withstandding(Dev wasnt evn engaged to sona at that point)Its a wrong precedence-No Dr will discuss without patient being there with anyone else-& in this age & time when people are so anxious for everything-Boses seem strange -Dev said normal& they believed-Sona;s father always distrusts dixits So now what-Blind trust on Dev ????very strange-Its going the typical Kekta way-I would have loved Dev telling everyone her condition & yet frim on marrying her-Then show all masala-Now dev's character is already butchered!!!
& whether IShwari knows or not is a different story-Sniff sniff-Im already hating Dev!!!He hid his love from his beloved mother,then simply threw away his love because of his mother's whim& then made whims to get his love back-& again he is lying-

Totally agree with you.Again and again I raised the question Why would Bijoy accept whatever Dev says since he has no faith in him? Even if he allowed Dev to take the reports he would still like to have Sona's reports with him but not with Dev.
Today the way Dev locked the reports in his drawer I couldn't believe someone would behave so wierd. Why can't he understand that he can not hide the truth forever?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi


Lakshmi, it was actually the doctors duty to inform Sona. She is a doctor and the other doctor should have respected that. Even if she is not it was utter negligence and highly insensitive on the doctors part to reveal a patients condition to an outsider. Dev is not Sona's husband yet. In that sense her parents should have been made aware instead of him.

CV's conveniently made Dev agree to collect her reports instead of her baba so the ball is in his court now. Sona might look into the matter if her discomfort reappeared or if there was any medicine prescribed or once everything settles. Now they are all busy with the marriage functions and Dev have already told them that her condition was stress induced. So why would she go asking about her reports now?

I still feel as a Doctor she would definitely want to know the reason for her stomach pain. Atleast after marriage Sona should go and meet the Doctor that looks natural. It is not about whose duty is it to inform first.Generally patient would go and interact with her Doctor.

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