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Posted: 8 years ago
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The most disturbing part was the clause that if any child, Sona has to bear the expenses all alone 😲
And she was a single mother ? She just ignored her son's feelings that how hurt he would be to have shitload of money but not being able to take care of his children !

Like Bijoy said, for her it's like No Dowry, No Alimony. Proper business deal ke kuch lena bhi nahi, kuch dena bhi nahi šŸ‘ Only if life worked this way ! Spouses are considered as better 'half'. They are not separate entity anymore dear Ishwari. This woman wants to change the definition of marriage. What did she mean when she said Dev has to take care of his family. His family includes Sona and his kids as well doesn't it !! 😳

Shame on her for ALL her actions today 😵
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: tia.o

Yesterday I wrote a post where I said how Bijoy should have been polite to his guests.

But when the guests are like Dixit family, I guess it's hard to maintain any sort of dignity. So I take it all back. You guys were right, I was wrong.

Today I have no complaint against Bijoy. He was right in every single thing he said.

Being a Bengali myself, one thing that will guaranteed piss off a Bong is the mention of dowry.

Ishwari thought she was being magnanimous, but for a Bengali family it's taken for granted that dowry won't even be mentioned, let alone given/taken or passed on.

I liked Mamaji today. In Dixit family, he is the only member who is genuinely trying to ensure Dev's happiness. Everyone else is showing fake happiness.

Ishwari today stooped to such a level that NOTHING can ever redeem her and today Bijoy was absolutely on point. This lady is more concerned with protecting her son's money than his heart.

Dev was right. When a relationship breaks, then the only people who think about money first are the people who have never loved.

Once money is gone, it can be earned again. But once a heart is broken, it takes years to mend if ever.

When Dev broke up with Sona, he was facing loss in his company. Even if he gets to keep his entire company, what makes her think he won't go bankrupt because he can't function with heartbreak?

The worst clause here was about the children. Ishwari keeps saying she was a single mother who worked hard to raise her kids and here she is asking another woman to sign a document where she will be in the same situation with her grandchildren. This lady is a first class witch with a capital B.

Dev should have never relied on his mother so much. But he will learn when he gets the worst betrayal yet.

After last betrayal she said, I did what you wanted. I wanted Sona to be happy even though she is not with you. She was all caring, loving and concerned image in front of him.

What would she say this time when the betrayal comes out? Which loving or caring image will she project? This is definitely not something Dev wanted nor she is doing it for Sona.

If Dev again goes, "Tune jo kiya achcha kiya", I would honestly kick his butt.

But today he was supportive, loving and for once, stood up for his love's dignity. The boy has learned his lesson. Welcome to becoming a man. Do maintain it when Radha and Vicky are their insulting self and Ishwari's two-face comes out.

The worst part is the scene where after getting the sign she thinks that her four children should get equal rights and everything should get divided equally.

What rights? If Sona has no right on Dev's property being his legally wedded wife and their children have no right in spite of being his flesh and blood, then why do YOUR daughters get their rights on HIS "hard work money" when they never even lifted their fingers for this?

Ishwari, this money is not your money nor your husband's money nor your dad's money that you are dividing among your children equally. This is Dev's money to divide among HIS children, not YOUR children.

If he gives them an inheritance, that's his choice. If he gives away everything, that's his choice too. He did his part by educating them. That's where a brother's duty ends. He is their brother, not their father. Who the hell are you to decide what he should do with his money?

Mamaji was on point when he caught Ishwari yet again involved in lies and deceit. This lady knows nothing else. Dev, your mother is not even a decent human being, let alone God. It's about time you took off the blind obedience glass from your eyes and see her true face.

She will forever go behind your back. Do you really want to live with someone who keeps betraying you? You can't trust her an inch.

She took your sign without your consent or knowledge. In legal terms it's called FRAUD. How do you know she won't take your signature on the divorce paper in the same way one day?

Today I was upset with Asha too. She is so desperate for Sona to get married that her brain is not working. Even after she found out that Ishwari sent pre-nup, she is advocating Sona should sign it. Sona might give up her rights. Why should she give up her children's rights?

I don't think they should have hidden this from Sona. They should have told her. Also, if Ishwari comes back with Dev's signature on pre-nup, they should ask Dev straight about it. If Dev and Sona have to co-exist with such a deceitful women, they need to see her true face. So that they never keep anything hidden from each other. She just the kind of woman who will take advantage of their silence. But it's hard to take advantage of honesty.

I almost got a dirty feeling watching her today. Yuck Thoo!!!


I hve read your post more than 3 times now. Feels SO good to have such composed flow of thoughts because my thoughts are just on the edge after finishing today's episode 😔

I can agree with Sona's clause, but never of their children's clause 🤢 This woman doesn't even consider Dev's family. She has imposed her entire family on Dev and now wants Dev to lifelong have only this much of family. No wife, no kids, just his sisters and mommy 🤢

I didn't get it which lawyer would make such insulting clause anyways ! I mean till Sona it was fine, who makes such clause about your client's children ? 😲 How did Ishwari approve for that part ? 😲 Her dialog that 'All of a sudden somebody will come and will have right on his company?' OMG ! Then what TF is marriage woman ? A person comes into your life and shares everything with you for ever šŸ˜• Then kids come even after 40 yrs of your life and that tiny piece of flesh becomes your universe Her shallow mentality of 'barsaati naala' and 'mausami rishta' are still there and honestly she hasn't changed one ounce, oops my bad, had gone worse. 🄱 For her, the only measuring criteria of the depth of any relationship is Time Period. If Dev has children in future, I doubt if Ishwari would feel jealous of the kid if Dev spends more time with it than Ishwari 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Bang on šŸ‘...completely agree wid u ,Tia
These days ,more than GKB , i am finding Ishwari irritating.She is behaving like an uneducated(oh ,she is actually an uneducated),shrewd,gross, insensible,low ,who has no class and list goes on n on.
And she says now she has 5children...how come?. She has not accepted Sonakshi as her dil yet. Watever She did was for her family's sake, for her own selfish reasons but not at all for Dev and Sona .
I loved Bijoy wen he called Ishwari a devil( shaitaan ka naam liya aur shaitaan haazir).Being a father Bijoy understands wat is good or bad for his daughter.He is right by calling this marriage a buss. deal.And everyone know ,a marriage based on an agreement or deal cant last long. This is Dev's hard earned money, y he will give his money to his sisters.Usne apni behno ki shadi kar di ,thats it.Ur point is valid .
secondly ,dont know why cv's want Dev and Sona to marry itni jaldi?W*F?
Thankfully Dev have started taking stand for himself and Sona as well as for her family ignoring his tikdami mother. Sometimes feel sorry for Dev. God ,spill the beans ,asap,and let Dev know abt the cunning nature of his mother.
Like we saw in yesterday's epi that Dev signed the prenup unknowingly ,all thanks to his great maa(C).Now Dev will come to know abt Sona's abdominal (watever)prob. but wont discuss it wid anyone as for now he only want to get married to Sonakshi. Only Dev believe that this marriage will work.Even Sona is lil confused .That's my pov.
But wen Sonakshi will come to know abt prenup and Dev's sign ,wat will happen? Will she stay wid him or leave him? Probably ,leave him.
But i guess, will come back to him if she ever come to know that Dev married/accepted her knowing everything abt her prob.(unable to conceive).
Finally, i dont want to watch saas bahu drama .Its a story of two lovebirds and let it be only.


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Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: tia.o

Sure. Go ahead and predict away. Aur jaate jaate meri prediction sunte jaana. I don't see anything but doomed relationships ahead because of ONE person - Ishwari.


Originally posted by: tia.o



The worst clause here was about the children. Ishwari keeps saying she was a single mother who worked hard to raise her kids and here she is asking another woman to sign a document where she will be in the same situation with her grandchildren. This lady is a first class witch with a capital B.

The worst part is the scene where after getting the sign she thinks that her four children should get equal rights and everything should get divided equally.

What rights? If Sona has no right on Dev's property being his legally wedded wife and their children have no right in spite of being his flesh and blood, then why do YOUR daughters get their rights on HIS "hard work money" when they never even lifted their fingers for this?

Ishwari, this money is not your money nor your husband's money nor your dad's money that you are dividing among your children equally. This is Dev's money to divide among HIS children, not YOUR children.

If he gives them an inheritance, that's his choice. If he gives away everything, that's his choice too. He did his part by educating them. That's where a brother's duty ends. He is their brother, not their father. Who the hell are you to decide what he should do with his money?


I almost got a dirty feeling watching her today. Yuck Thoo!!!


Absolutely loved your posts, especially the paragraphs quoted above. So true and point on! šŸ‘ Whether or not I like the episodes, I'll try and make sure to come and drop by to read your views. I see nothing good in store for Dev and Sona ahead, doomed relationships, it is.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#45
Agree with each and every word of you Tia. Did Ishwari actually read the agreement? I mean does she know that even Dev's child will not have any stake in the business?? That part was not very clear to me. If Ishwari knows about it then she is pure evil. I can understand she does not consider Sona as her own although for dialogbazi she said she has 5 kids now! Or maybe she was referring to Vicky!!šŸ˜‰ But to think Dev's kid as not her own is way too much!
How are they planning to get Sona's signature on the agreement? I am sure Sona is not as dumb as Dev that she will get waylaid by Palak in dinner or some such thing! I am really having doubts as to how he has built his business?! I am sure a lot of credit for building the empire should go to Tina!šŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
#46
Thanks everyone.
The reason the pre-nup was so insulting because it talks about the do's and don'ts of expiry date of a marriage which should only be entered if the bride and groom vow to stay together until death do them apart.

As one of you rightly pointed out, Ishwari still believes that Dev and Sona's relationship is like "Barsaati Naala" which unexpectedly stretching a bit longer than expected. She is still treating Sona as a doll whom Dev will forget once he is tired of playing with her.

That is insulting and sign of a low mentality.

Let's consider a scenario. Ishwari is worried that her other kids won't get their "RIGHTS". Pre-nup is only applicable if a marriage breaks. But if Dev has no intention of giving them anything, how would you guarantee that if his marriage doesn't break?

If his marriage is successful and they have kids, his property will go to them. To kya tum bachhe paida hote hi unse contract sign karwaogi ke tum logon ka apne Dad ki property mein se kuch nehin milega. Kyunki tumhare bua ka haq tumse pehle hai?

If Sona's intention is to get 50% of Dev's property, then what is stopping her to spend his 100% property while being married to him or Dev from transferring his entire company to Sona while they are married? Woh tum kaise rokogi? Tab to pre-nup aur bhi khatarnak ho jayega.

Pre-nup always talks about the property you bring into the marriage and JOINTLY enjoy during your marriage. But if a husband or wife give gifts to each other, that's not taken back from them. For example, if a husband gives his wife a car which he registers in her name, even if they had a pre-nup, she still gets to keep the car and also any jewellery, clothes, property she gets as a gift during the marriage and vice versa.

And if they purchase anything after the marriage, for example property, shares etc. They are called Marital properties and they are divided equally. Pre-nup clauses don't apply to Post-nup assets.

Agar aisa hua, tab to rich Sona hogi. Uski khud ki income hai from her medical profession aur poori Dev ki property bhi. Tab agar shaadi toota, to Dev to kangal ho jayega aur uske saath tumhari poori family. Tab tum kya karogi?


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Posted: 8 years ago
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This Ishwari is just unreal. Whatever she did yesterday is a criminal offense.

And she did this despite Dev warning her that he will not sign such a contract. So she is not even worried about what will Dev feel whenever he comes to know that she deceitfully took his signatures on the papers. What will happen to her Godly image ??? So now Dev's money is more important to her than even her godly image ??

Is she the same Ishwari who time and again kept telling Dev that he can't provide anything to Neha, he should stop supporting Neha financially ... etc etc when Dev was VOLUNTARILY ready to help ???

And now she deceitfully takes his signatures for her daughters ?? Really ???

The question here is - Is she really doing this for her daughters ??? Or is she doing it because she does not want her daughter-in-law to have any power ??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Obviously Ishwari is doing this so she can drive the point that she and her daughters are Dev's only family and Sonakshi will always be an outsider. Even medical insurance consider husband and wife the primary family and mother/sister/brother/father etc. living with you are "DEPENDENT". not family. Lekin India mein to kuch aur hi chalta hai. Wife kitna bhi karle family ke liye, rehti hamesha outsider.

Originally posted by: SoniSoni12


This Ishwari is just unreal. Whatever she did yesterday is a criminal offense.

And she did this despite Dev warning her that he will not sign such a contract. So she is not even worried about what will Dev feel whenever he comes to know that she deceitfully took his signatures on the papers. What will happen to her Godly image ??? So now Dev's money is more important to her than even her godly image ??

Is she the same Ishwari who time and again kept telling Dev that he can't provide anything to Neha, he should stop supporting Neha financially ... etc etc when Dev was VOLUNTARILY ready to help ???

And now she deceitfully takes his signatures for her daughters ?? Really ???

The question here is - Is she really doing this for her daughters ??? Or is she doing it because she does not want her daughter-in-law to have any power ??

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