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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: _RS_

You have described each n every thing so nicely 👏
N I completely agree with you
It has always been Sona handling Dev whenever he cries, whenever he has some problem or anything
But other than the accident thing, well that happened very long ago anyway and neither they were together so keeping that aside I don't remember a scene where Sona cries her heart out and Dev consoles her
It has always been the other way round
Nd if the infertility track focuses on Dev, what purpose would it serve to the story anyway?
Here if there is a difficulty with Sona, then atleast we can expect Dev being supportive towards Sona even if his mother says something or what, and isn't it what we want? Dev to stand by his lady? So I guess this whole track if properly shown would bring alot of changes in Dev(positive hopefully) between Dev and Sona's relationship. And that'll be the Dev Dixit that we want
And no, CVs aren't this stupid to show Dev not standing by Sona this time, they know that his galtiyo ki potli is already full. And no audience would acknowledge Dev not being supportive towards Sona in such a time

Initially when I heard abt this track , I wanted CVs to show the issue is with Dev , primarily because male infertility has a lot of misconceptions attached to it and most of the time , when ppl go thru it no one shares the truth. Female infertility is discussed with ease but not male infertility...so wanted to see how the CVs would handle " The Dev Dixit " having health issues related to fertility...

But now that you ppl mention that this could be one track where in we could see Dev's undivided support for his wife and love of his life, then its worth it...If this could bring back the trust and confidence into their relationship in front of both families it would be great ...this would also help to get Dev's image back as a knight in shining Armour!!

Having said this I hope this track also ends on a good note , where in they are able to conceive a child with medical assistance... it shouldnt be that they would never ever have a child...Or atleast they think of adopting a child later in their life...

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago

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rose4ever

@rose4ever

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

@ Bold - Just the thought of it is enough to spin my head

@bold:So true. MORE?!! is that even possible

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miniawake

@miniawake

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

As far as my view about this track is concerned. I too cannot believe the spoiler for now. I have seen many such spoilers which turn out to be false in the end. Till now, the writers have handled everything very carefully and maturely. Nothing has seemed over the top or fake. So, for now, for me atleast - this track does not seem right.

Till now, Dev, Sonakshi and Ishwari - these three are not at peace with each other. First they need to resolve all their differences and then only can the plot change to marriage and then things like having babies.

If really the plot goes to problems in conceiving so early - I would be surprised.

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lavanya

@dlavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Initially when I heard abt this track , I wanted CVs to show the issue is with Dev , primarily because male infertility has a lot of misconceptions attached to it and most of the time , when ppl go thru it no one shares the truth. Female infertility is discussed with ease but not male infertility...so wanted to see how the CVs would handle " The Dev Dixit " having health issues related to fertility...

But now that you ppl mention that this could be one track where in we could see Dev's undivided support for his wife and love of his life, then its worth it...If this could bring back the trust and confidence into their relationship in front of both families it would be great ...this would also help to get Dev's image back as a knight in shining Armour!!

Having said this I hope this track also ends on a good note , where in they are able to conceive a child with medical assistance... it shouldnt be that they would never ever have a child...Or atleast they think of adopting a child later in their life...

Absolutely . I am 100% sure that it will be a happy ending and not a melodramatic one.. Lets wait and watch.. Tv serial uldates tt handler said that even this track will be good and not ott dramatic with a good ending.. So lets just sit tight and enjoy

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: _RS_

You have described each n every thing so nicely👏
N I completely agree with you
It has always been Sona handling Dev whenever he cries, whenever he has some problem or anything
But other than the accident thing, well that happened very long ago anyway and neither they were together so keeping that aside I don't remember a scene where Sona cries her heart out and Dev consoles her
It has always been the other way round
Nd if the infertility track focuses on Dev, what purpose would it serve to the story anyway?
Here if there is a difficulty with Sona, then atleast we can expect Dev being supportive towards Sona even if his mother says something or what, and isn't it what we want? Dev to stand by his lady? So I guess this whole track if properly shown would bring alot of changes in Dev(positive hopefully) between Dev and Sona's relationship. And that'll be the Dev Dixit that we want
And no, CVs aren't this stupid to show Dev not standing by Sona this time, they know that his galtiyo ki potli is already full. And no audience would acknowledge Dev not being supportive towards Sona in such a time

Right? I dont want to watch a show where FL is mahan and ML is typical ass.. And female lead has to suffer and support no matter what.. I want to see a balance in problems from both ml snd fl sides and how they both support each other in life... That will be an awesome realistic approach... That is exactly how it is in real life

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gmgi

@gmgi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

If the spoilers are indeed true and we are going to get this track 1) Dev will support Sona and be her strength because he cannot fall any more low. He is in a deep trench already.2) Dev will know how far a parent should be allowed in their personal relationship.3) It is not a problem without solution. The science is far advanced now and they are financially well set. If they agree they can go for adoption. The important thing is they should be each other's strength and support in this phase.4) With Dev on Sonas side Ishwari will have a hard time not agreeing with the toy she got for her son. Sona will be clear because she had opposed this alliance and it was Ishwari who asked her to give her sons happiness back. GKB is another story.5) The trust that Dev lost he will earn it back in triplicates with the Bose family once they see him standing by their daughter.

By bringing Sona to IN Ishwari is digging her own hole. But it will be for the good of everyone including herself. Changes are inevitable. Are they really ready for the change in relationship dynamics once Sona enters the picture. Sona is coming back with more power. Where is GKB n Issue going to hide their issues 😆

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404_NotFound

@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Having infertility issues can change the equation between husband and wife and it's shown that it can even push them towards depression .It's a serious problem and in such situations only a supportive and loving partner will support the other in tough time .Hope they handle this track with sensitivity

This track will bring the much needed balance in the show ...here we will get to know that no one is perfect in this world and at any point in life people can face issues.Here we will see how a perfect marriage material person will have some medical issue which can change their married life but the so called not so eligible husband will stand by his wife and will show to the world that what true love is and no external problems like not having child can change their love towards each other .

Till now many people are made to feel that if one marries a guy with a possessive mother then it is some kind of favour done to the guy . A guy with family responsibilies is not considered as good marriage material because the wife has to deal with his family after marriage and it's unfair to the women as she has to compromise in life .

I would have preferred male infertility track but I don't know if Indian audiences are mature enough for a track where the ML lead will have issues having a kid and a difficult family .He will made to feel that he doesn't deserve to be married

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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@xsumi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

im okay with it if cvs handle it well

and its good if they do show it as in the real society some ppl can not get pregnant and hopefully they show dev support sona

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Just not interested in that track. CVs had already betrayed my trust by fooling me with the initial promos but not sticking to the original theme. The mother son and the third person entrance itself has so much depth that if tackled well that certainly makes an interesting watch.But the makers hardly did justice to the original theme by rushing up the events towards marriage.

superfluous I must say the way they showed the conflict of interests and emotions, among the three leads just touching the upper layer without exploring the inner issues.. Till now The leads did not prove their love for each other ,they just made a mockery of their relationship,Dev by breaking up abruptly and Sona by jumping into another relationship and walking out of it in the easiest way possible.Now within one week they may ring the wedding bells which is awkward,unconvincing and unreal .

. In real life it takes much time and effort to heal the ruptured wounds and move towards patch up. I know revered members will admonish me- This is a show it won't be possible to show all that so on and so forth. But I stick to my point. When the original theme itself has so much scope there is no need to jump towards infertility track.

I feel The co existence of the three main charecters will lead to much tension and unrest as there is lack of understanding,lack of trust and ego problems . It is not that easy to live life with this excessive baggage. Compared to this problem I consider infertility is much easier an issue to be handled. so many modern methods are available today and adoption is promoted even when the couple have children of their own . So I feel disinterested to watch the show if this issue takes centre stage .

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reachanupama

@reachanupama

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
I feel this is very unnecessary to show that a kid himself is ready to father another kid Sona is just 26.. Is not expected to take care of both a manchild and an actual child 🤔
Or are we going to see that Dev is learning to respect Sona and value her feelings and importance through his child ? That their kid is pointing out things to Dev and Dev is learning all these ?

Great going 👍🏼👏😳

For all you know Sona might want the kid so that Ishwari's focus is on another bachcha and Dev is all hers 👏