Lesson for my day...

Want to give a big fat hug to the Bose family... 🤗

Baaba... 🤗taught me a good lesson.. As a parent what I think is happiness for my child may not be what my child wants.. In fact I should be proud that my child has a mind of her own and can choose a life for her own... Her choice could be a mistake.. I might see it.. But I can't make her live my life... I can't use her to fix all the mistakes that I think I should have taken care after going through them all by experience.. 😉 She deserves to choose her own life.. And she will find her own way through it all.. And if that was a mistake then I have to just be there for her when she comes looking for a support.. Not waiting to say "I said so... " then my child will only avoid me 😆. Sure I can be a guiding light showing lessons from my experience but it's upto her to learn the lesson from the same book or write a new book of her own.. Asha🤗.. rightly said so.. All is gonna be well.. Let bygones be bygones.. come let's hug as a family...🤗

Vicky... 😆 He has been used rightly at the right time👏.. I couldn't help but laugh at his talli-talli selfie trial🤣.. Temple problem or God problem😆... OMG.. This God thing gotta stop now.. There are already too many Gods around the world.. Another religion that's called "Ish"😆?!!!

Ishu.. Have you started thinking😲?! Ok.. good for you.. And for me too.. Getting Dev married?! Great... Let's call our favorite marriage broker... 😉😆

Baba is rightly angry and I do understand him..but he is again making same mistake .he is still not seeing point what ritwik said. Yesterday and today too.

He has streaks of ishwari in him.he still not coming to terms with reality.

He is doing to sona what ishwari did to dev..make kids guilty..bijoy you need to trust your daughter and your upbringing..she already feeling guilty because she has hurt so many people.you don't need to make her feel guilty more.this will again make her do what she does not want but would do for your happiness just as she decided to get engaged

You were right when you said how many times you asked her before going for engagement.yes you did..but the approach was indirect push to get a yes from her.you repeatedly told her she is strong and over relationship with dev..you repeatedly said how relieve you would be if yiu settle down a nice guy like ritwik.there was no way that she could say no to you because she knew she has already hurt you enough.

I hope you calm down ..I know you are soxiety perosn and worried and embarrassed about whole situation and honestly it's realstic but don't forget you have told your daughter that you are her friend too.

She is your upbringing ..she is your daughter..let her go through her ordeal ..let her follow her heart...this time too..talk to her..clear her inhibitions..support her to have confidence in her own decisions

And this you only can do to her...she gets confidence when she sees trust and pride in your eyes..that's makes her strong..your disappointment makes her sink..dont let her sink

Asha and saurav are my fav in bose family..because they talk less and listen more...they see less but observe more and that the reason they understand people most and are so calm.no wonder sona has got this quality form her mother and high esteem form her father.

I am so glad that first thing dev remembered was sona and consequences of his acts in her engagement.

I am glad he was feeling guilty of spoiling her engagement and being cause of halting her new journey.

Makers have been showing dev's redemption all along whole process.

Mamaji words were so bang on...and Vicky too said on things spot on...Mandir nahi hai ab ya bhagwan se vishwas uth gaya..

I know where this mess is getting us ...role reversal is on cards..

Sona as dev ..and baba as issue

Lets see how they play out..

I am hoping they don't drag it because I would be bored and it's enough of already available mess..needs to clear it first..thank God issue aunty has started clearing..

I feel personally that it should get over asap because it would look OTT if it gets dragged or overboard with bijoy drama and sona giving attitude specially aftef whatever happened at Dev house last night

PP 🤗

Bijoy is just a worried father. He once said that he felt bad that he couldn't protect his daughter enough & he felt that he failed as a farther. But today, couldn't he see that Sona was not happy. She wasn't happy to get engaged to R. If she had married R & if she was still unhappy...won't that be his failure as well??... that he didn't notice that his daughter was unhappy. He was just making sure that he was just fulfilling a father's duty & responsibility of getting his daughter married..that's all..He needed to be there & understand the pain that she was going through, which was not allowing her to move on... He needed to her friend now, more than a father.

Ahh Vicky for the first time actually has some very good lines to say:

'Yeh ghar mandir hai, aur meri ma bhgwan hai...you talli & I'm also...little talli! So let's take a selfie!' 🤣 🤪

'Pitashree rehne do...Aapke lamad latak, kamad latak...kamar latak!' 🤣

This episode was a breather. But yea there were lots of underlying currents. When Issue aunty was not going to be an issue.. others were hell-bent on being an issue now. I can only feel sad for Dev & Sona because they still have to sort out so many things. Ishwari for now might accept Sona, but her insecurities will never go away.. It'll definitely crop up. Right now she was only thinking about her son's happiness.

I wouldn't even compare Baaba with Ishhuuu.. Baaba isn't anywhere close to the blindness what Isshh has been showing.. Yes agree.. He's worried more dramatically than Asha 😉 and I would really see genuine love in it unlike the hyped lovee claimed by Ishuuu 🤪. Ishu too once appeared genuine before drama took over her.. Unless CVs want to prove otherwise and enjoy the viewers hatred forming for Baaba, hope they maintain the genuineness in this character.. 😆

I wouldn't blame Baaba yet as I strongly believe Sona was on her own and fully aware of what she was getting herself into.. It's not a blame on her as well.. In fact I was very much fine in her taking the decisions on her own for herself.. taking the support from her parents.. She need not have tried to be the voiceless person.. In fact she was very vocal about everything and in the process she was cheating herself.. She didn't give the 'me' time for her own self instead she carelessly gave it to her parents.. Making herself believe that she did it for them.. In fact it's her who make her parents feel guilty in all this.. And if not for Baaba's this anger the entire family will drown in guilty for putting their girl in such a situation.. Sona being guilty is part of the growing process.. If she genuinely wants to deal with her emotions she needs to deal with this as well.. And I will only want to see her focusing more on her inner self and be honest with her own feelings to be open about it to her parents... She needs to know her own values as well and her own worth.. If she had taken the time to care for her own, her family would have been automatically taken care of..

Yes, Baaba needs to be the friend and Sona needs to use her voice properly in her own house.. I really feel sad if she's making her own parents as her enemies and thinking that they're not understanding enough to express her feelings.. I am sure CVs want the sympathy for Sona too thus putting the blame on the parents in general... 😆

Ishuuu.. I don't know what to make out of her insecurities.. She is making refer to dictionary to find out what 'insecurity' really means.. 😆 And really she's gonna look out for her son's happiness or to retain the temple and God status for herself... ?!!! Oh whatever.. CVs will try and test this character as much as possible till they grow tired of it.. 😆

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Glad you made it here.. 🤗 and you wrote well in your sleep too.. 👏