Spineless Dev, Selfish n Blind Ishwari, Stupid Sona note:pg 21 - Page 17

Originally posted by: 13thwish

@TM: Objectively, I both like n agree with your post. However, I feel like someone needs to play devil's advocate here cuz there hasn't been sufficient sensible debating of all of your valid arguments amid all this name calling and finger pointing. Because I'm not emotionally invested in the characters, I guess am gonna volunteer myself to do the honors. 😳

Before I begin, a disclaimer: I have never watched this show, and I don't plan to either. But I'm drawn to stories, interesting characters, and controversial debates. So I guess that's another reason why this post was inevitable. All my knowledge of these characters comes from this thread alone, so please feel free to correct me if I've misunderstood something.

I want to focus on Sona because from what I understand, Dev n Ishwari have stayed pretty much consistent with their character graphs and hers is the one that seems contradictory.

At some point in your post, you asked why only the leads have to be portrayed as good and not the parallel leads? They can be good too. I would like to ask a similar question. Why do only Dev and Ishwari get to have weak n selfish moments? Why not Sona too? Why can't she display moments of obsession where she leaves her engagement incomplete to drop her drunk ex-lover home? To me, it is actually behavior like this that rounds out her character and justifies why she would ever fall for a man like Dev. Because she is as indulgent of him as he is of his mother.

This doesn't make her stupid. Just not very objective in love. Pretty much exactly like Dev n Ishwari.

A different woman would've made different choices. Like having the courage to tell her parents she's not ready to move on even if it hurts them. Like telling her ex-lover she wants nothing to do with him and "NO" he cannot attend her engagement because that could ruin things for her. But you see, such a woman, she would never choose Dev either. Such a catch-22 for the writers.

Does this make her a hypocrite? Maybe, but then again, so is everyone. 😛

P.S.: Tag. You're it (you know who you are😉😛).

Originally posted by: 13thwish

@TM: Objectively, I both like n agree with your post. However, I feel like someone needs to play devil's advocate here cuz there hasn't been sufficient sensible debating of all of your valid arguments amid all this name calling and finger pointing. Because I'm not emotionally invested in the characters, I guess am gonna volunteer myself to do the honors. 😳

Before I begin, a disclaimer: I have never watched this show, and I don't plan to either. But I'm drawn to stories, interesting characters, and controversial debates. So I guess that's another reason why this post was inevitable. All my knowledge of these characters comes from this thread alone, so please feel free to correct me if I've misunderstood something.

I want to focus on Sona because from what I understand, Dev n Ishwari have stayed pretty much consistent with their character graphs and hers is the one that seems contradictory.

At some point in your post, you asked why only the leads have to be portrayed as good and not the parallel leads? They can be good too. I would like to ask a similar question. Why do only Dev and Ishwari get to have weak n selfish moments? Why not Sona too? Why can't she display moments of obsession where she leaves her engagement incomplete to drop her drunk ex-lover home? To me, it is actually behavior like this that rounds out her character and justifies why she would ever fall for a man like Dev. Because she is as indulgent of him as he is of his mother.

This doesn't make her stupid. Just not very objective in love. Pretty much exactly like Dev n Ishwari.

A different woman would've made different choices. Like having the courage to tell her parents she's not ready to move on even if it hurts them. Like telling her ex-lover she wants nothing to do with him and "NO" he cannot attend her engagement because that could ruin things for her. But you see, such a woman, she would never choose Dev either. Such a catch-22 for the writers.

Does this make her a hypocrite? Maybe, but then again, so is everyone. 😛

P.S.: Tag. You're it (you know who you are😉😛).

Originally posted by: peeyara

I advice dont join this forum 😆 pagal hojaoge 2 din mai

Originally posted by: peeyara

NOTE:

Thank you to all the members who supported me and defended me 🤗

To those who thought my post was NEGATIVE,

It was not negative. I just stated what I felt and I guess Forum rules allows me to post my POV without crossing line and I certainly dont need permissions for doing so neither I have to be an ardent fan of show or a active member of forum

The main plot of show was how love wins over insecurity but sadly it was dealt with stupidity. This was the track that whole show is based on and it definitely needed to be handled with Sensitivity, maturity and care. Sadly, makers ruined it by rushing Sona in marrying to the first proposal, making Dev drunkard and stalker and turning Ishwari blind and crazy

CVS wud have let character evolve especially Dev and Ishwari(as Sona have hardly any part except supporting Dev and trusting him)

Dev cud have been shown trying to convince Ishwari and addressing her insecurities and Ishwari cud hv been shown as fidgeting between accepting sona as part of dev life and rejecting same idea. She cud hv been shown trap between her own insecurities and then feeling miserable by seeing her son in such a condition but alas

And let me clear, I hv not targetted anyone or any actor. I spoke n criticize characters. I might have come across as blunt n insensitive but I cannot sugar-coat. I knew die hard fans n fagirls will not like my post so i put the disclaimer

Lastly, I guess I wud never post on this forum(not sure though 🤔) going by what was shown in SBS today. Concept is totally ruined if SBS news is true

Originally posted by: bosskibiwi

ok thats y people were saying crap on my posts. i posted d same title. so i guess our views match. sona was my fave but now she has become a total doormat for lord sake.👎🏼 n i know she will get married to her dev who will always be a spineless n will never take stand for her. if she had to leave hrithvic then y she insulted him n his family. i dont like her anymore. she is worse than ishwari. match made in hell!

Originally posted by: 13thwish

@TM: Objectively, I both like n agree with your post. However, I feel like someone needs to play devil's advocate here cuz there hasn't been sufficient sensible debating of all of your valid arguments amid all this name calling and finger pointing. Because I'm not emotionally invested in the characters, I guess am gonna volunteer myself to do the honors. 😳

Before I begin, a disclaimer: I have never watched this show, and I don't plan to either. But I'm drawn to stories, interesting characters, and controversial debates. So I guess that's another reason why this post was inevitable. All my knowledge of these characters comes from this thread alone, so please feel free to correct me if I've misunderstood something.

I want to focus on Sona because from what I understand, Dev n Ishwari have stayed pretty much consistent with their character graphs and hers is the one that seems contradictory.

At some point in your post, you asked why only the leads have to be portrayed as good and not the parallel leads? They can be good too. I would like to ask a similar question. Why do only Dev and Ishwari get to have weak n selfish moments? Why not Sona too? Why can't she display moments of obsession where she leaves her engagement incomplete to drop her drunk ex-lover home? To me, it is actually behavior like this that rounds out her character and justifies why she would ever fall for a man like Dev. Because she is as indulgent of him as he is of his mother.

This doesn't make her stupid. Just not very objective in love. Pretty much exactly like Dev n Ishwari.

A different woman would've made different choices. Like having the courage to tell her parents she's not ready to move on even if it hurts them. Like telling her ex-lover she wants nothing to do with him and "NO" he cannot attend her engagement because that could ruin things for her. But you see, such a woman, she would never choose Dev either. Such a catch-22 for the writers.

Does this make her a hypocrite? Maybe, but then again, so is everyone. 😛

P.S.: Tag. You're it (you know who you are😉😛).

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I heard that they are going forward to Devakshi marriage and eventually pregnancy drama ?? 😳 So where does those initial promos fit in now ? Because Sona can't become pregnant, is Dev going to divorce her for Ishwari and then another separation would begin ? 😕 I am totally confused now !

Sona rejecting Dev's proposal and then agreeing to the same will happen in 2 episodes or what ? I just SO wanted it to be a 2 month long track where Dev and Ishwari have to pay the prices of their crimes but seems NO 😡 They are getting married so soon, and at least it takes 6-7 months to come to the conclusion that one is not able to conceive. Will the show take a leap ? Where does the original concept of dealing with MIL's insecurities and Son's trying to balance both relationship fit in here ? 🤔