Ritwick vs Dev - Page 4

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

Welcome to the forum.

Amazing post. You have pointed out the exact things that some of us have been discussing for quite some time on the forum. Ritwik is definitely a better choice for Sona but we all know that Sona is not gonna end up with him :)

Originally posted by: Shilky88

Well said...to each his own
Dev,Sona,Ishwari are all adults and they really cannot blame each other for their own happiness..
ISHU did what she thinks is right for her,,call her selfish but she is the finder of her own happiness and so is Dev..
When it comes to Sona,she too is taking decision for herself to get married to Ritwik after break up.
If Dev cannot take stand for his love then it's his fault.he is to be blamed for his situation.
Yesterday I feel Ishwari has shown him the mirror by saying that he took the decision to break his relationship and he is to be blamed as Ishwari never asked him to do so neither she is ready to acknowledge this..

If you don't think about yourself then who else will??
Dev is not decisive when it comes to personal matters..if he will ask his Mumma ,she will want him to b virgin forever..
If he will ask Sona ,she will advise him to take a stand for his love.
One must have a mind of his own because if u go seek out other people's opinion in your matters then they will look for their own selfish sides first before telling you what is wrong,what is right.

The blame is not on your parents who won't give you certain level of freedom to take decision on your own but its your own fault if you are not able to do so specially being only male member and a bread earner for your family...Dev fails big time as a mature adult.he a still stuck in his 8 yrs FB ,,,urghhh

Originally posted by: meghapatel79

This is what i call perfect post 👏👏

Dev is spineless guy *end of the story*

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

well said and an awesome entry to the forum! Thank you!

Dev is a nice guy but he continues to take Sonakshi for granted. Things that happen to her are always of lower priority to him. Sonakshi should really think whether she wants a marriage with this kind of a man. Exactly. 👏Even when they were together she was never a priority.

However strongly he feels his love for you, he should also look out for your best interests. it's not about his feelings and what makes him happy, but whether he can keep YOU happy with him. Totally agree.

spoilers are claiming that Ritwik might turn grey, but I'm fervently hoping not. Dev needs to see a good example on how to behave like a gentleman. I want Ritiwick to stay positive so Sona has a friend.

Originally posted by: vibg

bang on post and welcome!

I don't care about anything else, but not once.. Dev has stood up for Sonakshi.. not before, not after. Unfortunately, this time he is not at fault, but he does have a history of using his power to get wants he wants... so it's understandable that Sonakshi and others think that. As for Ritvik, he is just doing what any normal persona would do when an ex is stalking and misbehaving. According to him, Dev crossed all limits of decency by giving that interview. and possibly ruined Sonakshi's reputation, given our society.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Welcome to the forum !! Thank you!!

For me both men are equally spineless in front of their parents..the only difference is that Dev openly accepts that his mom is every thing to him and Mr. R diplomatically plays the game. If Mr.R was such a gentleman to stand by the lady , then he wouldnt have bought his family to her house . He wouldnt have allowed his father to question her in front of every one. I agree but we don't actually know if R tried or not because CV's did not show us.

Let me tell you , Boss family is nothing great , they are equally flawed and we understand that today when they just watched upon their daughter being questioned by Mr.R father ...Who is his father to question her and speak to her in that manner ? They are not even engaged.I didnt like Boss family , they were playing the typical oh pls dont break the marriage alliance. In Such a situation parents should step in and say if you dont trust take a walk. I didnt like Mr.Rs family at all. I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen. I totally agree with you on this actually. I personally really like the Bose family but they should've defended her. I think in a bid to help Sona heal her heartbreak, the Bose's are in a race against time to find her companion.

Mr. R spoke because Sona said she had informed him abt it and thats when he pitched in. Did you notice his expression the moment she said that ??. When his father walked away saying they needed to rethink, and asked him to shut up ...he just followed like a cat 😡 See but this is still more than Dev. If Dev has even said something so little as this to Ishwari, I wouldn't have made this post. Support is support, little or big.

Here again we see a partial Boss family...dont they trust their daughter and their upbringing .They have a problem with Ishwari but not with Mr. R's father after he spoke like that to their daughter and that too in front of them !!?? IMO Ishwarii behaved much worse the other day.

Any day our Sona is the strong one . I love her the most ...Sona dear you are too good. I love the way she responded and kept calm . In fact she is the one who should have reacted the most . I know she called him and blasted him , but some where deep down in her heart she knows that he would not have done it as he has promised her. Her calling him was to release her anger and pain on some one she trusted the most as there was no end to the pain...but not like what we all think that she doubts him...she doesnt ...it was evident from her first expression and the one after the call. Hands down agree with you on this.

I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen. Because one thing is very clear Mr. R is no different from Dev...he might say ...but at his house only his dad's voice is heard... But we don't know this. We haven't seen a scene in Ritwick's house so I can't comment on that.

My dear girls ...its always best to marry a known devil than an unknown angel !! ( here Mr. R is unknown angel ) Personally I just want Sona to focus on her career for a while.

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Don't care about anything else - or you have nothing in defense to him?
Ritwick is normal - ya that's why I told he is also a man of flaws who equally doesn't know how to handle his problems- he didn't know the intensity of the love the duo shared and assumed it would b easy for him- he did not do anythingin defense for Sona as u all claim too..

Originally posted by: .Piyali.

Originally posted by: .Piyali.

@Bold I agree with you. But Dev too is a man with flaws and everyone accepts it. Why does the forum not accept Ritwick then with all his flaw?. Why is there so much hate for Ritwick among fans when you yourself are claiming Dev and Ritwick are the same?