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Posted: 9 years ago
#11
Nice Post..

Sona n Rithwik r more compatible..Sona going in Dixit House is just not right because Dev is too Rotlu.I dont understand why he is crying so much..saw first male lead crying so much..though it was his decision of breakup..



Hope cvs will not turn Rithwik in grey character later.

Later if his Mom will start playing Saas- Bahu Games ..Dev type guys usually keep quite or ignore..


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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
Dev lost all respect and R got all the respect period. and agree with R that spineless person did not deserve any educated, independent strong girl😡 he deserve Mami kind of girl nothing else. I was fan of Devakshi and I know endgame is Devaskhi but as a lady I love if Sona weds R👍🏼 at list R understand her and respect her parents too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#13
Welcome to the forum !!
For me both men are equally spineless in front of their parents..the only difference is that Dev openly accepts that his mom is every thing to him and Mr. R diplomatically plays the game. If Mr.R was such a gentleman to stand by the lady , then he wouldnt have bought his family to her house . He wouldnt have allowed his father to question her in front of every one.

Let me tell you , Boss family is nothing great , they are equally flawed and we understand that today when they just watched upon their daughter being questioned by Mr.R father ...Who is his father to question her and speak to her in that manner ? They are not even engaged.I didnt like Boss family , they were playing the typical oh pls dont break the marriage alliance. In Such a situation parents should step in and say if you dont trust take a walk. I didnt like Mr.Rs family at all. I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen.

Mr. R spoke because Sona said she had informed him abt it and thats when he pitched in. Did you notice his expression the moment she said that ??. When his father walked away saying they needed to rethink, and asked him to shut up ...he just followed like a cat 😡

Here again we see a partial Boss family...dont they trust their daughter and their upbringing .They have a problem with Ishwari but not with Mr. R's father after he spoke like that to their daughter and that too in front of them !!??

Any day our Sona is the strong one . I love her the most ...Sona dear you are too good. I love the way she responded and kept calm . In fact she is the one who should have reacted the most . I know she called him and blasted him , but some where deep down in her heart she knows that he would not have done it as he has promised her. Her calling him was to release her anger and pain on some one she trusted the most as there was no end to the pain...but not like what we all think that she doubts him...she doesnt ...it was evident from her first expression and the one after the call.

I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen. Because one thing is very clear Mr. R is no different from Dev...he might say ...but at his house only his dad's voice is heard...

My dear girls ...its always best to marry a known devil than an unknown angel !! ( here Mr. R is unknown angel )
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#14
i totally agree with you all that Dev and Ritwick have their own flaws.

ritwick wit his annoying dialogue do log ke aadmi hote hain.
Teen ya chaar kyun nahi Ritwick bhai. sirf do kyun hotey hain.

I cant understand in a tycoon's cabin. how can anybody just enter the cabin? no etiquettes from Ritwick.

Dev has alreadyy mentioned that he cant understand what is going on in his mind. this love we are talking about. People in love re always blind. we need to show them the reality.

1. Sona showed him the reality. that if they come toghwther his mother and her parents would be unhappy. he realized it and promised he wont interfere nor will he call her. he even blocked her but how come Sona was able to call him.

secondly, his mother showed him the reality that Dev was the one who broke the relation and not her. he was dumbfounded that he made a hasty decision. he realsed it was his fault and not his mother fault. This realization dawned upon him.

thirdly ritwick has no right to go to him it was the duty of Sona's father. he had the right to question him. Sagaii bhi nahi hui but kis haq se woh uske paas gaye the. Anyways Ritick showed him another reality that that Dev love wasnt strong enough.

Now guys we will be noticing Dev introspecting himself. now he is going to think about himself. he himself said there have been many devdas but they haven seen Dev Dixit. we are going to see a new shade of Dev.


Edited by telly_buff - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: vibg

bang on post and welcome!

I don't care about anything else, but not once.. Dev has stood up for Sonakshi.. not before, not after. Unfortunately, this time he is not at fault, but he does have a history of using his power to get wants he wants... so it's understandable that Sonakshi and others think that. As for Ritvik, he is just doing what any normal persona would do when an ex is stalking and misbehaving. According to him, Dev crossed all limits of decency by giving that interview. and possibly ruined Sonakshi's reputation, given our society.



Don't care about anything else - or you have nothing in defense to him?
Ritwick is normal - ya that's why I told he is also a man of flaws who equally doesn't know how to handle his problems- he didn't know the intensity of the love the duo shared and assumed it would b easy for him- he did not do anythingin defense for Sona as u all claim too..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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welcome to the forum x ❤️
ritwik is a really nice guy he is such a gentlemen but at the end of the day the end result will be devakshi 😆

but today i feel dev was not at fault, its a shame he was getting all the blame when it was the reporter at fault
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This topic, in all seriousness, is completely moot.
Reason being that they are completely incomparable! We have seen 130 odd episodes of Dev, every intricate part of his being and have reached a stage where many of us can write volumes about his character, or lack of it! On the other hand what we have seen of this R is not even a fraction of a peep show. It is a different thing altogether that we, as so called intellectuals, seem to have the ability to analyse even such a character to such depths that can even put such a character to embarrassment.,Our ability to write volumes on such a character is truly amazing!

if I were to apply most of the logic being used in this forum for the characters of Dev and R, and imagine if girls in real life choose a partner based on this logic, I would be a person completely petrified of the outcome of these decisions. Thankfully the character Sona is not a real life girl!

Here are some samples based on what I have read (and some assessment done by me as well) Dev is dumb, a doormat, an imbecile, a psycho, a pussy, imbalanced, in need of a psychiatrist, needs to be put in a mental asylum... So he is not good for Sona or any gal.

R is so balanced, understanding, mature, calm, emotionally balanced, and mind you, such conclusions being reached by, what I call seeing less than a fraction of a peep show, so is good for Sona or any gal.

I like this eternal truth... Man sees and judges by the outer appearance, GOD sees and judges by the heart. Applying this truth to just one episode of today, in the conversation between Dev and R, isn't it amply clear that Dev's heart was pure but the same cannot be said of R with the same degree of confidence.. Outwardly he was correct but what of his heart was shown that we could have even seen a part if it to judge?

This forum has, by and large, judged Dev and he has already been sentenced and condemned! R is an infant, and has committed his second sin today ( leave it to the discerning to figure out what it was). His case has not even reached the courts yet!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Welcome to the forum !!

For me both men are equally spineless in front of their parents..the only difference is that Dev openly accepts that his mom is every thing to him and Mr. R diplomatically plays the game. If Mr.R was such a gentleman to stand by the lady , then he wouldnt have bought his family to her house . He wouldnt have allowed his father to question her in front of every one.

Let me tell you , Boss family is nothing great , they are equally flawed and we understand that today when they just watched upon their daughter being questioned by Mr.R father ...Who is his father to question her and speak to her in that manner ? They are not even engaged.I didnt like Boss family , they were playing the typical oh pls dont break the marriage alliance. In Such a situation parents should step in and say if you dont trust take a walk. I didnt like Mr.Rs family at all. I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen.

Mr. R spoke because Sona said she had informed him abt it and thats when he pitched in. Did you notice his expression the moment she said that ??. When his father walked away saying they needed to rethink, and asked him to shut up ...he just followed like a cat 😡

Here again we see a partial Boss family...dont they trust their daughter and their upbringing .They have a problem with Ishwari but not with Mr. R's father after he spoke like that to their daughter and that too in front of them !!??

Any day our Sona is the strong one . I love her the most ...Sona dear you are too good. I love the way she responded and kept calm . In fact she is the one who should have reacted the most . I know she called him and blasted him , but some where deep down in her heart she knows that he would not have done it as he has promised her. Her calling him was to release her anger and pain on some one she trusted the most as there was no end to the pain...but not like what we all think that she doubts him...she doesnt ...it was evident from her first expression and the one after the call.

I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen. Because one thing is very clear Mr. R is no different from Dev...he might say ...but at his house only his dad's voice is heard...

My dear girls ...its always best to marry a known devil than an unknown angel !! ( here Mr. R is unknown angel )


Wow. Really a good comment.
Cent percent agree with you on the matter related to bose family.
They are also equally at fault and partial too.
When ishwari sent the bracelet as an ashirwaad, mr, bose went and burst on her. Now what happens when some one is pointing your girls character and you are still begging to keep the alliance.
Ritwic can't say anymore about him, truly an unknown angel.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Expected a post like this...Thanks for the open invitation for the subtle discussion...and so i want to pen a few thoughts in disagreement to your POV.

Mr Dixit has supported Dr Bose..when mami insulted her left n right...pls recall...

Just when Dev was totally shattered of the fact that his God has deceived him.. n not understood his pure love.. you wanted him to have the ball to counter question her, who is hell bent suicidal.. and is not normal yet...?

How can one compare an Apple with an Orange...? Both of them.. Dev and Ritwick have different life experiences, upbringing and EQ level...Here some of you day n night try n compare these 2 and say, Sona deserves a better person, and Ritwick is that one...

For one moment i love to believe that... but pls do not glorify this character so much (let me talk in his own style) - 2 reasons :

1) Sona had told him of her past, choice was now left to him, if he wanted to proceed with the proposal...then pls its upto him..
2) He is a great n understanding man - did he ring an alarm to Sona prior their entry? n if he is so understanding, what was the need of the talk regarding the news fiasco on Dev-Sona to reach an ugly disrespectful discussion in Sona home? he could have managed that between his father n him.. - he could tell dad.. leave it to me.. let me handle... but no.. he allowed his dad to confront Sona n her family on this...and until Sona said, that i had told Ritwick everything... that is when he says like ya.. n all..
he left the home, hearing his dad almost calling off the proposal..or having to give it a 2nd thought..
Despite dad-son having an open relation - they both couldn't handle the matter... in a responsible way..

Did it end there.. without a 2nd thought he rushed to Dev and accused him.. saying Sona doesnt deserve this man.. wasn't he supposed to handle the matter at home?? where did he stand for RoNa relation? am sorry today's episode clearly showed that even Ritwick cannot handle problems..

The day his loan rejected, 2nd time.. he already started losing it... the CVs are only showing here n there of this man.. so i call him a normal man with all flaws... Dev little more.. as their home environment n relationships are not open n broad minded as his...


i agree with you completely. I am a realist... I repeat what I have said many times... I prefer a human being with flaws, does not matter how many, to a fictitious person with seemingly no flaws! It is flaws that make up beauty! Ask a diamond cutter, he will know better!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Welcome to the forum !!

For me both men are equally spineless in front of their parents..the only difference is that Dev openly accepts that his mom is every thing to him and Mr. R diplomatically plays the game. If Mr.R was such a gentleman to stand by the lady , then he wouldnt have bought his family to her house . He wouldnt have allowed his father to question her in front of every one.

Let me tell you , Boss family is nothing great , they are equally flawed and we understand that today when they just watched upon their daughter being questioned by Mr.R father ...Who is his father to question her and speak to her in that manner ? They are not even engaged.I didnt like Boss family , they were playing the typical oh pls dont break the marriage alliance. In Such a situation parents should step in and say if you dont trust take a walk. I didnt like Mr.Rs family at all. I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen.

Mr. R spoke because Sona said she had informed him abt it and thats when he pitched in. Did you notice his expression the moment she said that ??. When his father walked away saying they needed to rethink, and asked him to shut up ...he just followed like a cat 😡

Here again we see a partial Boss family...dont they trust their daughter and their upbringing .They have a problem with Ishwari but not with Mr. R's father after he spoke like that to their daughter and that too in front of them !!??

Any day our Sona is the strong one . I love her the most ...Sona dear you are too good. I love the way she responded and kept calm . In fact she is the one who should have reacted the most . I know she called him and blasted him , but some where deep down in her heart she knows that he would not have done it as he has promised her. Her calling him was to release her anger and pain on some one she trusted the most as there was no end to the pain...but not like what we all think that she doubts him...she doesnt ...it was evident from her first expression and the one after the call.

I will be glad if this marriage doesnt happen. Because one thing is very clear Mr. R is no different from Dev...he might say ...but at his house only his dad's voice is heard...

My dear girls ...its always best to marry a known devil than an unknown angel !! ( here Mr. R is unknown angel )


Totally agree! if I had another daughter (unfortunately the only one I had is already married), I would encourage her to first get to know the 'wrongs' of Mr Right. The fact of life is Mr Right does not have to be right all the time. In fact, the more he is wrong, the more right for the girl!

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