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Posted: 9 years ago
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there are plenty of men in india who break off relationships due to parents' disapproval, it just means the man loves and respects his parents. however, there needs to be a balance. sometimes listening to selfish parents like ishwari can become toxic, which is what happened here. there is nothing wrong with listening to your mother but dev's obsession for ishwari is creepy, no girl deserves a husband and mother in law like these two. sonakshi will always be come second, she honestly deserves better.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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👏 Completely, and absolutely agree with you. I was so appalled when he said that you can't stop loving me since I love you. Probably the most selfish line Dev has said in the show. Sona's being so understanding, and even defending him in front of Elli and all he can do is mope that she was having coffee with someone else. GET OVER YOUR DAMN SELF, and make amends with Sona in a way that she can truley forgive you for the crappy things you have done. And instead of crying over and crying with your mother (don't even get me started with that lady...) understand that your not 2, and you don't have to live your whole life based on what your mom wants.
See, the problem isn't just Ishwari it's Dev also, he isn't understanding that being a perfect son who gives everything up for your mom isn't what your life goals should be. Screw balance, because let's face it he'll never really figure that out, figure out a way to resolve the problem with Sona (oh wait? YOU DUMPED HER) in a way that keeps everyone okay. So rather than stalking Sona, figure out a way to bring her back into your life in a respectful and dignified way.
The mixture of adoring and being frustrated by this man is so real though..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yesterday's episode was a disappointment when it came to Dev & Ishwari... Sona truthful words had zilch effect on Ishwari. She's gone back into her dazed world... Feel like shaking the day lights out of her... And what does Dev do..??? Feeds on more sympathy to his mother...I dunno why they talk like this..It's so puzzling!!. Suddenly I feel that it's better Sona is away from these two... But then how would the story move ahead.???

Dev is going to fall into the dark hole & the only guiding light has to be his mother. There is no way anyone else can help him. Or he'll fall so deep that he won't be able to associate himself with this new side of him. And then he'll realize that the best thing that he can do is to let Sona go. Guessing this is what's gonna happen. He's not going to ever confront his mother about what he feels. At least we can stop expecting him to do so...

It's so annoying to see these two tend to each other's wounds when they know it's each other who caused them in the first place... Guess they're loving this pain..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: BoxedIn

This "angsty" track amounts to one generous helping of Dev obsessing over Sona and blindsiding all sensible behavior, followed by a liberal dash of Ishwari obsessing over Dev and being willfully blind to his impending nervous breakdown, finally topped up with Sona being pitch perfect in every which way and making the whole dish look palatable.😆 It's a writing scam which would put Ishwari's halwa to shame in the competition for being the most overrated, W*F recipe for disaster in the show. 😆

What an analogy👏😆A perfect recipe for disaster indeed.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

One thing is for sure, this double dose of obsession is not going well with the viewers. This is not love. Its pure mental crackdown and both mother-son need medical help immediately. For goodness sake Ishwari stop giving unwanted aashirwaad and Dev stop giving unwanted love assurances to Sona. Both are indigestible right now.

What had happened, sigh, I had hopes for a better week after awesome Friday episode and look what we got 😡

Yes!! A dose of obsessive Ishwari was difficult to bear and now the son is following his mother's footstepsIshwari ka unwanted aashirwad and her pyaar for her" immersed in work beta"is getting on my nerves. Such shallow blessings and words. And yesterday when she said, she couldn't teach Dev to look for himself and find his happiness😡He did find happiness but then he had to go psycho like you and because of you.Dev's definition of love is getting twistier every day.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Ishwari obsesses over Dev..

Dev obsesses over Sona..


Ishwari thinks only about her expectations from Dev and not vice versa..
Dev thinks only about his expectations from Sona and not vice versa..


Ishwari doesn't think or care about what would make Dev happy if not with her..
Dev doesn't think and care about what would make Sona happy if not with him..


Ishwari has no remorse on her actions which impacted her love-of-life Dev so much..
Dev has no remorse on his actions which is impacting his love-of-life Sona so much..


Ishwari is going down and down for Dev..
Dev is going down and down for Sona...


And with all these, when I can't accept and like Ishwari's behavior, I am not sure how long can I support and like Dev's behavior.. Both are same..



This is just perfect...loved your word...so true
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

Yesterday's episode was a disappointment when it came to Dev & Ishwari... Sona truthful words had zilch effect on Ishwari. She's gone back into her dazed world... Feel like shaking the day lights out of her... And what does Dev do..??? Feeds on more sympathy to his mother...I dunno why they talk like this..It's so puzzling!!. Suddenly I feel that it's better Sona is away from these two... But then how would the story move ahead.???

Dev is going to fall into the dark hole & the only guiding light has to be his mother. There is no way anyone else can help him. Or he'll fall so deep that he won't be able to associate himself with this new side of him. And then he'll realize that the best thing that he can do is to let Sona go. Guessing this is what's gonna happen. He's not going to ever confront his mother about what he feels. At least we can stop expecting him to do so...

It's so annoying to see these two tend to each other's wounds when they know it's each other who caused them in the first place... Guess they're loving this pain..


The only growth these 2 characters are having these days is downwards, into deeper pits of obsession and craziness. Dev ignores and turns deaf to anything Sona said/says about his mother and Ishwari turns blind and deaf to both her son's pain and Sona's words. For two people who claim to know each other so well, they sure are hell bent on avoiding a heart to heart conversation of what is really bothering them. At this point I just can't see either of them helping each other out of this hole that they are digging, cos both are so oblivious to their mistakes.


Originally posted by: Khusharni

👏 Completely, and absolutely agree with you. I was so appalled when he said that you can't stop loving me since I love you. Probably the most selfish line Dev has said in the show. Sona's being so understanding, and even defending him in front of Elli and all he can do is mope that she was having coffee with someone else. GET OVER YOUR DAMN SELF, and make amends with Sona in a way that she can truley forgive you for the crappy things you have done. And instead of crying over and crying with your mother (don't even get me started with that lady...) understand that your not 2, and you don't have to live your whole life based on what your mom wants.

See, the problem isn't just Ishwari it's Dev also, he isn't understanding that being a perfect son who gives everything up for your mom isn't what your life goals should be. Screw balance, because let's face it he'll never really figure that out, figure out a way to resolve the problem with Sona (oh wait? YOU DUMPED HER) in a way that keeps everyone okay. So rather than stalking Sona, figure out a way to bring her back into your life in a respectful and dignified way.
The mixture of adoring and being frustrated by this man is so real though..

@bold: Exactly my sentiment.
Yes, the problem is not only Ishwari. In fact Dev's rash decision and continued actions are a big problem. He is jealous, unable to see Sona with someone else, is willing to hire a detective to find a flaw in Ritik in an attempt to break her alliance,stalk her, cry for her, but can he not show the same determination and willingness, to at least talk to his mother and try to resolve the situation, the same obsession towards convincing his mother of their love.

Ps: Had to reply to 2 posts together😆unfortunately still a groupbie with restriction on number of posts



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on..
Copy pasting my response from another post..
let's imagine.. if i was DEv then i would have tried to convience her, to know her reasons and i would made ishwari to question her self.

All i know is, love doesn't make someone or relationship weak. Well, even in mother - son case, you are suppose to make each other better- as human, as mother,as a son. Personally i have done it, my mom have done it.. n it continues.

In Dev's case, the biggest mistake by Dev is he considers Ishwari as god, n on the other hand Ishwari doesn't even try to rectify that mistake. Infact her being selfish, self- obsessed : she is happy about the fact. Here, the problem lies, Dev doesn't want to accept that Ishwari is mere human being who is bond to make mistakes, he is not even ready to question her on her judgements! that's just pathetic.

I just don't understand their so called understanding and love🤢 here, which instead on making them better human being , is making them worst characters.

Sorry went little of topic, but i don't think i would be anywhere near Dev, who would idolize anyone blinding.

PS: Even Lord krishna stated in Gita that don't just follow my words, understand it question it and then if you feel it for good then do it oherwise dont'.

N now adding some cents..
So true every time when he is shown hurt or whenever he stalks sona only one thing is in my APNI MaMMa (GOD) KO PUCHA KYA? stalk krne se pehle?

When you are ready to listen that she is not happy so you go and broke up immediately but now what? when you can be that insensible ennough to decide a big thing based on your GODs feeling then take that feeling on every step you take.

Sorry but i found it pure insane. Can't help it.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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koi ishwari ko bhi bara karo
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Ishwari obsesses over Dev..

Dev obsesses over Sona..


Ishwari thinks only about her expectations from Dev and not vice versa..
Dev thinks only about his expectations from Sona and not vice versa..


Ishwari doesn't think or care about what would make Dev happy if not with her..
Dev doesn't think and care about what would make Sona happy if not with him..


Ishwari has no remorse on her actions which impacted her love-of-life Dev so much..
Dev has no remorse on his actions which is impacting his love-of-life Sona so much..


Ishwari is going down and down for Dev..
Dev is going down and down for Sona...


And with all these, when I can't accept and like Ishwari's behavior, I am not sure how long can I support and like Dev's behavior.. Both are same..


great post 👏 very accurate.. they have ruined both the characters and turned them into a psycho

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