Guilty Pleasure!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: tia.o

Don't get me wrong. I blamed Dev plenty even though I understood where he is coming from. I blamed him for treating Sonakshi as an after thought and not asking her what she wants. And I want him to realise his mistake and get out of his mother's God like influence.

Sonakshi should not forgive him easily either. Because just because one understands another person's position does not mean their mistake disappear. If that's how it worked then we should understand Ishwari's position and forget her mistakes too.

The mother and son both needs to ask for Sonakshi's forgiveness. Whatever the reason may be, it doesn't justify hurting someone's feelings.

Originally posted by: fanktlk

I agree I don't what them together so soon either. But I don't them apart. I dont want a looming engagement or a marriage. I hate triangles in a love story. If 2 people have any issues, they have to solve it between them. Figure it out. I don't like the interference of a third

Dev's behaviour has been consistent. And he needed to do what he did. He is not the one to sugar coat or think before he acts. Should he be forgiven so easily , of course not. Let Sona make him cry.

But don't want the third angle.

Originally posted by: tinken

What a lovely analogy!

You know, people who struggle in the initial parts of life are more prone to be power hungry. Like Maham ,Iswari is afraid to loose the status of queen mother and she does not care if she destroys her son's happiness in the process.

She is living in a fool's paradise and blindly considers that for Dev she is a goddess. She is quite boastful about it and flaunts her imaginary importance in front of Mami.

I do not know where she has hidden a practical and loving mother that she was in the beginning of the show. Having said so,she was partial to Neha and other daughters. May be like Maham she also realized very early that to achieve respect and status in society,,Dev will be her ace card and she lavished her affection accordingly.

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

awesome post Tia...liked your analogy a lot.

I think Ishwari is very immature and naive. she sees Dev as this innocent little boy who is trusting and vulnerable. She thinks she is protecting him. And that all women are out to eat him alive.

She is not acknowledging that he is a grown man, with need for love, companionship and desire to be loved in return (like a woman loves a man 😉). What Dev needs to do is talk to his mother about how much he loves Sonakshi but will let her go for his mother's sake.

I was worried that Ishwari would never acknowledge her role in the breakup and Dev will be blamed all alone for deciding this "all by himself".its so cowardly of Ishwari.

She just doesn't want him married. period. strange woman.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Must say a very beautiful post.👏

Dev has been trained by Ishwari the way a dog is trained by its master, the way a suicide bomber is trained by terrorist groups - by robbing the capability to think about himself. Just do whatever it takes to please your masters.

Only Dev can break free of his emotional bondage - but for that he has to first realise his actual situation,. His biggest tragedy is that instead of realising that he is a slave he believes that he is living in the paradise of Ishwari's love.

Originally posted by: tia.o

So Dev has to get Sona back in his life because he can't live without her, not because his mother gave in...