Originally posted by: pkbdas61
I was discussing this twist with my wife and wanted to get insights from a woman..In my house, she is ( or was) in the Dev camp and i am ( or was) in the Sona camp. She used to be a regular viewer for KRPKAB but post the Ishwari drama of insecurities and her tantrums, she could not bear it and now occasionally watches. She likes (or used to) the bose family due to their open nature and a friendly atmosphere at home.. post the bose visit to the Dixit family, she was pretty disappointed and continues to be disappointed with Vijay's over-reactions.
So here is what she told me (and i am not sure how many women agree with her.)
Firstly, she said that Dev and Sona do not have good communication skills and are as bad as Ishwari and Dev. Secondly, she felt that right from the beginning Dev appeared to be very imbalanced, but clear, when it came to his mom. Sona was herself a victim of this imbalance when she lost her job and was forced to join the Dixit house as a nutritionist. He also told Sona that he worships Ishwari.. enough indication for any girl, if at all interested in Dev, to be fully prepared to play second fiddle. My wife also reminded me that Dev once told Sona that she is the second most important person in his life ( i totally forgot about that). Thirdly, Sona herself knows that Dev is a very impulsive, unpredictable, yet extremely caring person in life. Dev gave Sona so many indications of it - getting her the cake at midnight, getting her a new phone, waiting for her at the restaurant for 5 hours, waiting for her in the rain for 2 hours, and most importantly getting her out from the jaws of death. Sona herself used to ponder many times - what kind of a man are you.. once rude, once so caring..
Here is the most important part now.. My wife felt that when Dev behaved rudely in the hospital, Sona should have quietly walked away and faced Dev when the situation was more right. She reminded me then of the times when i was extremely rude to her and how she just walked away ( trust me i felt miserable when she reminded me of it). She too is of the view that the separation track was not at all required and has ruined the beauty of the show. She felt that Sona had so many ways to make Dev realise her value and worth and one of them, the most potent weapon, was to use the "silent"" treatment, of the type she gave him at the dixit home ( she also reminded me of the times when she "fixed"" me by the silent treatment!! - boy! women!). And, yes, she thinks that Sona should have left the Dixit house long ago and did not have to wait for Ishwari or GKBs taunts..
Finally, as a woman, she feels that Sona has a strong support system at home, especially two men, one in her Dada and the other her own father.. she does not need any other man.. this is so inconsistent and she is not able to digest it.
She is very disappointed with the CV's and the path they have taken. She feels that the CVs have not experienced love in their personal life and have made a mockery of love, for if they had, they would not be creating what they have done. During this entire conversation, it was only inevitable for my wife to break down and relive those fearful and traumatizing years before we got married.
So here goes not one, but two, who were once loving KRPKAB to bits.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
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