A lost Soul -CVs do read - Page 3

Originally posted by: randomramblings

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

I was discussing this twist with my wife and wanted to get insights from a woman..In my house, she is ( or was) in the Dev camp and i am ( or was) in the Sona camp. She used to be a regular viewer for KRPKAB but post the Ishwari drama of insecurities and her tantrums, she could not bear it and now occasionally watches. She likes (or used to) the bose family due to their open nature and a friendly atmosphere at home.. post the bose visit to the Dixit family, she was pretty disappointed and continues to be disappointed with Vijay's over-reactions.

So here is what she told me (and i am not sure how many women agree with her.)

Firstly, she said that Dev and Sona do not have good communication skills and are as bad as Ishwari and Dev. Secondly, she felt that right from the beginning Dev appeared to be very imbalanced, but clear, when it came to his mom. Sona was herself a victim of this imbalance when she lost her job and was forced to join the Dixit house as a nutritionist. He also told Sona that he worships Ishwari.. enough indication for any girl, if at all interested in Dev, to be fully prepared to play second fiddle. My wife also reminded me that Dev once told Sona that she is the second most important person in his life ( i totally forgot about that). Thirdly, Sona herself knows that Dev is a very impulsive, unpredictable, yet extremely caring person in life. Dev gave Sona so many indications of it - getting her the cake at midnight, getting her a new phone, waiting for her at the restaurant for 5 hours, waiting for her in the rain for 2 hours, and most importantly getting her out from the jaws of death. Sona herself used to ponder many times - what kind of a man are you.. once rude, once so caring..

Here is the most important part now.. My wife felt that when Dev behaved rudely in the hospital, Sona should have quietly walked away and faced Dev when the situation was more right. She reminded me then of the times when i was extremely rude to her and how she just walked away ( trust me i felt miserable when she reminded me of it). She too is of the view that the separation track was not at all required and has ruined the beauty of the show. She felt that Sona had so many ways to make Dev realise her value and worth and one of them, the most potent weapon, was to use the "silent"" treatment, of the type she gave him at the dixit home ( she also reminded me of the times when she "fixed"" me by the silent treatment!! - boy! women!). And, yes, she thinks that Sona should have left the Dixit house long ago and did not have to wait for Ishwari or GKBs taunts..

Being a women i totally agree with your wife ..bang on analysis ...This shows how mature your wife is ...its true Sona should have walked out when she was insulted she doesn't need a man next to her to do this .Also being a women i its hard for me to understand Sona's reaction .When you are in a relationship they are times where your partner and you will have bitter fights where harsh words are exchanged but you don't give up on each other so easily ,You will learn to handle situations and when things are under control you will deal the problem .When i am tensed my partner doesn't react ..he will listen to me and when i am calm he will point out my mistake .

Finally, as a woman, she feels that Sona has a strong support system at home, especially two men, one in her Dada and the other her own father.. she does not need any other man.. this is so inconsistent and she is not able to digest it.

I have the same feeling ..when you have a strong support system at home you dont need a third man in your life to help you with this heartbreak.Even i am unable to digest this track and i am scared i can longer enjoy watching this serial 😭.I was attracted to this show seeing the initial promos where they showed maturity between leads ..who were able to communicate and be each others support even after the breakup.I dont understand how this new entry will fit in .

She is very disappointed with the CV's and the path they have taken. She feels that the CVs have not experienced love in their personal life and have made a mockery of love, for if they had, they would not be creating what they have done. During this entire conversation, it was only inevitable for my wife to break down and relive those fearful and traumatizing years before we got married.

Bang on ..she is totally right ...Cvs haven't considered real life scenario ...its a joke to see the way they are portraying this breakup..i can see only OTT reactions .The maturity and intense story they promised in the beginning is lost

So here goes not one, but two, who were once loving KRPKAB to bits.

Add me to the list ...i am watching this show as I cant handle the way typical Indian serials handle issues.They make mockery of marriage , relationship .Its pains me to say this serial will follow the same route very soon ...KRPKAB is almost over for me 😭

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Regarding the same points, I have made below posts:

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4696522 - Here i tried to mention that both are not perfect and both are breaking their promises. Now Q is : Are they still ready to love each other with their imperfections?

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4698306 - Here i tried to present Dev's state of mind at the time of break-up and got some awesome responses on dev & sona's flaws at the same time. Here in of the response ARCH mentioned some amazing thoughts which are similar to pkbdas61 and i honestly feel the same. Sona could have handled the situation in a better way but at the end, Its a show & they need drama.

The last time he felt guilty for spending time with Sona (Neha's wedding), he shared his thoughts without filter and she supported him.

Now he cast her aside in his guilt for giving thought to his love and not seeing his mother's pain.

He needs to see that everything has its own place.

But he cant see immediately. He is someone who acts first, thinks later...

Sonakshi - she could have simply walked away from the hospital then. That was neither the place, nor the time, and both were not in the right state of mind to communicate clearly.

He would have reached out to her. But she didn't trust her love enough in the heated moment. (and I will go to the extend of saying, She hasn't had trust in the fact that her dream has actually come true from the get go...) so his words were a reflection of her own fear coming alive & her hurt was on the surface...

While we loved her words but honestly, this could have been handled better if you really love that person. He is clearly in pain.

Without judging anyone here, she loaded him with more guilt & left him alone when he needed strength the most.

He just cast her aside without further thought not realizing this is not just 'something' that hurt your mom but a human being who you love & respect.

Originally posted by: yyy

Originally posted by: mayu1982

NITU you are not alone am with you .

Mayu dear i am so happy to see your reply 🤗🤗 and glad to know we are on the same page .

This jealous track is always tortured track to the fans

Exactly the reason being some third angle is introduced and the same things happens in every serial ...lead will be with the third person but will still be in love with the main lead ..crap ...😡

We have seen this "n" number of time in different serials

Why can't girl live without boy? Why marriage is solution of every problem like you mentioned in my post👏 Why can't her brother and father give her that support ? If she needs any male support in case .

Why does she need a third man when she has the strongest support system at home...can a women not be a strength to another women .in such situations i would run to my mom or sisters not to some random guy ..Asha could have supported her daughter

Why does we always need third party in love story to understand or to value the partner ?

A women should be loved and cherished for her quality ...Should Dev go back to Sonakshi because he has a competition now ?I was looking forward to this track as this serial was different than others and i expected they would show separation without typical jealousy and sacrifice drama

This concept itself is crap. 🤢That is reason I can proudly say that I am taking a break for sometime. It doesn't matter to me whether CV handles this track in better and unique way or not .

I think i will end up taking a break too ..its difficult for me as i am so addicted to this show ...damn i made the same mistake again of getting attached to a fiction..will i ever learn from my mistakes 😭..i stopped following YHM for similar reasons ...

What matters is the basic concept - Female can't move on without any support of male. Female are more dependent entity. Female needs men frnsdship to overcome the pain of separation . Men needs jealously feeling to pushed himself.

What can you say when majority of the audiences prefer to see such tracks rather than a sensible story of a independent strong girl .

What a shame - Sakshi Malik And P.V. Sindhu proved what indian female can do not for themselves but for the nation? These two saved the honor of 125 crores of Indian , but still we believe that females can't live without men support.
We(females) are far ahead of time, but our writers are still living in 15th century.😆

👏. Love the example you have provided .Well you cant expect such maturity from Indian serials ...they are incapable of showing something like this and audiences are not ready to accept such shows...makhi,naagin rule the Indian television 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

YOU ARE NOT ALONE ...I will just copy paste what I wrote as response to another post

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Fine with moving on and him helping her as a friend...but she is also giving hope to this new person rt..? which isnt nice...if she says no then he is bound to get hurt...so now we have progressed from 2 ppl to 3 ppl getting hurt..

I have never understood why she couldnt tell her parents , she didnt want to meet some one...and needed time. She has a lovely family and I am sure they would have given her the time...

I know all of you are going to kick me for this...But there is one thing that has been in mind ever since the night Dev broke their affair...Sonakshi knows how impulsive Dev was ..and she has witnessed and has been on the wrong side of his adamency ,temper too..She is the one who said she is ready for his character ...then when he asked her to go and need to break up, she could have waited at least a weak or two till things settled down to sit and discuss with him..And then come to a logical conclusion to their relationship...

He did call her later and am sure things would have been much better if she had showed the guts to accept him as who he is...give him that silent support.

By confessing what happened to her parents , they are going to never forget what happened . Sona will be able to forgive him and accept him completely..but her parents wont..

To love a person is not easy ...its not about his sweet words alone ..one should be able to take the harsh side of him too. When you love some one ..we need to love him as who he is ...you cant say i will accept you only with ur good qualities ..its not feasible.

Just my thoughts ...

Originally posted by: Sruji1

This jealousy track is so over rated in Indian TV shows 🥱. When a couple split they immediately introduce a third angle . Like only a Male friend can help the girl come out of heart break and only he can make her smile. Seriously it was so stupid 😆. for Sona she have a wonderful family and Elena, sourav are there to make her smile. If only they Want cheer up Sona No new male friend is not needed frankly speaking I think more than Sona dev need a friend not necessarily a girl 😆 just friend who he can share his thoughts. My personal experience my sister also faced break up she used to cry in nights and I used to hold her. After 10 days she get normal I mean stop crying and all but my parents didn't force my sister another relation immediately. They gave her time and we went a family trip. After that she concentrated on further studies and written bank test and get a good job. After two years now she is happy. And I am thinking this move on concept is so soon. My another concern is and this purely based on SBS segment maybe episode can be different but if rithvik can wait for Sona then why not Sona can't wait for dev. Rithvik met Sona and he feel something and he knows that she loved someone and she is not ready for next relation but still he wanted to wait for her. Then why not Sona she knows dev loves her and he break up with her because of his mother why not she wait some more time before moving on. It's not like that dev is seeing another girl. Not for dev at least she owe herself some time to before moving on.