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"Just remember, the storm doesn't last forever. It can scare you; it can shake you to your core. But it never lasts. The rain subsides, the thunder dies, and the winds calm to a soft whisper. And that moment after the storm clouds pass, when all is silent and still, you find peace. Quiet, gentle peace. That's what I wish for you. Even if you couldn't find it with me."

Author : S.L Jennings

I watched break up video so many times because I couldn't believe that Dev broke up with her in that manner. Then slowly concentrated on the expression rather than the words and it spoke volumes .. more than what our ears heard...there was so much of pain and confusion. He was talking to himself, trying to reason it out why his mom was not happy for him with this relationship.

I understand Sonakshi and her pain because just like us she only heard his words and not see his expressions/feel for. She herself like us knew his mom didn't like her and was not happy about the blind love he has for his mom . Here again we didn't see or feel for Dev as a person. We were more concentrated on his decision for their love. Because that is what mattered to us and for her too. But for him at that point in time what he saw was the fact that his mother was suffering because of him . He wondered - was he so blinded in love that he never saw her pain ? So his core character ...impulsive Dev popped up and found a solution ...Yes !! throw away what caused the pain for his mother..no matter how close it was to his heart. Here is the greatest mistake he made .He forgot that he was no more single , when he did that he had to think about his Sona too. They are a couple. Whatever they do - good or bad effects each other.

Definitely not trying to justify his impulsive behavior, but that is our Dev rt ? On impulse broke the phone and spent days trying to pacify her to accept a new phone from him...again on impulse uploaded her profile on Jodi.com and then apologized with flowers... At that time he was single so it didn't matter much. ...but the fact is he never learnt from any of those previous experiences.

Once things settle down and in silence, he is going to regret this decision the most. His journey of self-introspection and realization will begin. ...all I can say is ...Dev!! ,what did you do my dear boy ?

I also wondered , was Sonakshi prepared for Dev's impulsive nature? Even though she said she is prepared for him? How much does she know him? If she knew him that well and trusted him...probably would have kept his reaction to herself and waited for some more time for him to come back to her ?? ...don't know ...just a thought..I could be wrong here... This journey will also show us how much Sonakshi loves him.

Anyone can love you when the sun is shining. In the storms is where you learn who truly loves and cares for you . It's a testing period for both of them. Let us see how these two take their love to next level...

Fate has its ways to teach you lessons in life for your own good ..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post...you said what I wanted to say in a better way...I love your last paragraph. ..hopefully makers will not dissapoint us ...
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Well said 👏 👏. I just have one thing to say don't justify him, don't defend him, don't sympathize him, don't judge him just try to understand him.😳
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Originally posted by: Sruji1

Well said 👏 👏. I just have one thing to say don't justify him, don't defend him, don't sympathize him, don't judge him just try to understand him.😳


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Focus will shift to Sona..

at the risk of people jumping on me, here is what i will now say. Sona needs to prove that she is ready to wait.. and hope that Dev too will be given some time to resolve things in the waiting period...

Sona must stand up against her parents pressure for any kind of knee jerk reaction. Let the emotions die down and calmness settle in the mind.. after all the mind should get a chance to listen to the heart.. if there is too much noise, what will it listen to.. the most beautiful thing about the heart is it is the only part that speaks the faintest and needs absolute calmness to be heard.. Sona needs this..

Dev will anyway be getting it as there will be no one talking to him... the calmness will come to him naturally.. Sona will be bombarded from all sides, so she needs to force herself to be calm.

my 2 cents...
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Originally posted by: Sruji1

Well said 👏 👏. I just have one thing to say don't justify him, don't defend him, don't sympathize him, don't judge him just try to understand him.😳


Yes !! Just understand him ...they are new in love...they will need to find each other in this storm because they are meant to be together.
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Wherever you are I want to come and hug you for this post.. 🤗 🤗 Thanks thanks so much dear...
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Focus will shift to Sona..

at the risk of people jumping on me, here is what i will now say. Sona needs to prove that she is ready to wait.. and hope that Dev too will be given some time to resolve things in the waiting period...

Sona must stand up against her parents pressure for any kind of knee jerk reaction. Let the emotions die down and calmness settle in the mind.. after all the mind should get a chance to listen to the heart.. if there is too much noise, what will it listen to.. the most beautiful thing about the heart is it is the only part that speaks the faintest and needs absolute calmness to be heard.. Sona needs this..

Dev will anyway be getting it as there will be no one talking to him... the calmness will come to him naturally.. Sona will be bombarded from all sides, so she needs to force herself to be calm.

my 2 cents...


@ Bold ...Absolutely true !! Just wondering how she is going to go thru this journey. I am sure she will find it even more challenging as there will be too much pressure from her family.
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I will just say the first and the last 2 paragraphs says it all..so overwhelmed after reading this post and this has given me a new perspective to look at them.
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Originally posted by: rasika_DS

I will just say the first and the last 2 paragraphs says it all..so overwhelmed after reading this post and this has given me a new perspective to look at them.


Yes, I am eagerly waiting to see what Sonakshi's reaction will be to her parents pressures. We have an idea of Dev ( at least that is what we think ) ...what would be for her to know /understand / learn about their love ?

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