A Different Perspective - Mr Dev Dixit - Page 2

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Wonderfully written. My grandparents had a love marriage . Grandfather a hindu and my grany a christian. No one accepted their relationship , but he stood by her strong..And once he married he saw to that he convinced both parents... 50 plus years of marriage ..till he breathed his last this June . . I guess only people who are mentally strong should fall in love or you should be very sure that your parents will stand by your decision. If not , just keep ur feelings to urself and listen to ur parents😉

very true.. it is about mental strength too..

Totally agree to you, every woman just wants his man to stand by her through all thicks and thins. But sometimes i feel sad for men in general. I don know what any man would do if he is in position of Dev. U have been brought up with this notion that ur mother has given her life for u. U worship her and then like neother normal man u fall in love with a girl. Then u are faced with a situation where ur so called god is so upset with ur new found relation that she attempts suicide. Poor guy! What will he do? Only option he has is he kills himself bcoz whosoever he will choose, he will be a villian. Yes, the only solution is know ur ground before you jump, i mean don fall in love.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

To make a real man out of a boy ..you need a great mother too . I guess the credit goes to her too. Its her selfless up bringing and teaching that helped you to stand thru the storm and gave you the courage. Taught you to stand by your word . You just followed her teachings and am sure she knew it too and hence she was able to let go after so many years .😊

Sadly Ishwari is not like that , she is very selfish and in some way materialistic too. If you notice her character Dev is more of a return of investment. She always associate Dev as a provider. If Dev hadnt been successful do you think she would have loved him so much?? !!

You hit the nail on the head. My mom was well educated, very strong mentally, very disciplined, a person of her word, very upright and never took any nonsense. This trait probably was ingrained and somehow what was and is more important in life is commitment to word given. I have been taught not to give a commitment easily or speak a hasty word.. because once it leaves my lips, it becomes life. I have to thank my mom for it.

Nice post... But it is just a phase .. Dev initially takes step back but as we see from promos he doesnt let go of sona and he cant... The story wil progress the way you expect a real man to take it

Just have patience is all i can say

I take my hat off to you, Sir😊 wish more men in our country had the same thinking as you do, we would all be better off :)

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Nice post... But it is just a phase .. Dev initially takes step back but as we see from promos he doesnt let go of sona and he cant... The story wil progress the way you expect a real man to take it

Just have patience is all i can say

Of course, we all know that it is fiction.. wish they had shown the separation via a mature discussion between two consenting adults who want to give their relationship some time to accommodate adjustment of other members, but staying committed to each other... . not like this...

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

You hit the nail on the head. My mom was well educated, very strong mentally, very disciplined, a person of her word, very upright and never took any nonsense. This trait probably was ingrained and somehow what was and is more important in life is commitment to word given. I have been taught not to give a commitment easily or speak a hasty word.. because once it leaves my lips, it becomes life. I have to thank my mom for it.

im am having no offense with your views on Dev but I want to say is the circumstances in which Dev spend his childhood is different and even many of our families may not have seen those tragedy days which Dev has seen at an younger age. In order to help his mother he chooses to work at night instead of buying a toy for her sister he brought a saree for his mother he has seen how hard his mother worked for him and her sister to fill their stomach and make them
Study.
we know how much Dev takes care of ishwari health and when ishwari choosing suicide path because of arrogant behavior towards Dev but the family assumes that ishwari could not accept Dev . If a mom choose a suicide path for his relation may effect a son if Dev had a father then the situation would be different but here ishwari a women who single handly dealt with all kinds of situations so Dev doesn't want to hurt his mom but he never would have dreamt that ishwari is unsatisfied with sona or he going to be away from sona.

Take a bow sir!...courageous stand indeed!

Originally posted by: mantuamu

im am having no offense with your views on Dev but I want to say is the circumstances in which Dev spend his childhood is different and even many of our families may not have seen those tragedy days which Dev has seen at an younger age. In order to help his mother he chooses to work at night instead of buying a toy for her sister he brought a saree for his mother he has seen how hard his mother worked for him and her sister to fill their stomach and make them
Study.
we know how much Dev takes care of ishwari health and when ishwari choosing suicide path because of arrogant behavior towards Dev but the family assumes that ishwari could not accept Dev . If a mom choose a suicide path for his relation may effect a son if Dev had a father then the situation would be different but here ishwari a women who single handly dealt with all kinds of situations so Dev doesn't want to hurt his mom but he never would have dreamt that ishwari is unsatisfied with sona or he going to be away from sona.

If this is the case, then he has to forgo his freedom to fall in love, his rights to make a commitment to anyone else other than his mother. Just like he has a mother who he does not want to hurt, he should also know that the other person too has a mother who she does not want to hurt. I am sure growing up the hard way should only make one to be more understanding of other's problems and difficulties. This does not justify his actions in any way.

just flip the coin.,.. if Sona's mother too behaves like Ishwari and does not like Dev... Asha does exactly what Ishwari does, and Sona leaves Dev due to Asha, how will he take it... Food for thought isn't it...? Nothing ever justifies hurting your partner.. nothing at all. In Sona's mature words, there is nothing that is perfect. we have to live with it and adjust our life accordingly.