Originally posted by: Snehavinaya
Wonderful !! Maham, as always u have brought out all the minute details.
Was waiting since last week for your analysis.
U need to write daily to keep us sane as the story line progresses.
Tension is killing me.
I think it is all because of those first promos.
If they had not shown that then it would have been nicer to watch.
Now can't even enjoy devakshi scenes, because in the background always thinking they are going to part.
Looks like waiting for the inevitable.
Still my pov is that Dev is not giving enough time to sona to understand her / know more about her.
As he had promised on the first day.
Isn't that a major drawback ? Things look rushed to me with iswari in the picture, the chances of misunderstanding is high. Don't forget RR - she will also instigate.
So with a visibly weak bond between them , this was bound to happen.
Now neha & her problems also---
where they get time to understand each other?
Most importantly Dev is not worried about Sona's family's acceptance.
In this day & age isn't that important or still boy's family only is important ?
A new concept show should have included that from the beginning -
Rather than my mother / my family.
Sorry for the long rant
I hope maham , u would share your pov on this
Hi Soumya :) Thank you so much. Sorry to keep you waiting! You guys really, really need to relax though. I keep telling this to a friend of mine... It's a story and you can't always focus on the nice parts of a story or a character. I guess I enjoy complexity so I react differently to everything that happens in the show. Yes they are going to part, but not forever. They will marry.. There's apparently an entire section of the plot dedicated to that so lets try and take it easy shall we? :)
Addressing some of your other concerns - Dev actually got a little carried away on the first day. 😆It was very passionate and romantic but that's not how it happens in real life. You don't sit down and interview someone do you, just to get to know them better? Its like Sona said... to know someone, all you have to do is spend time with them. Dev knew a great deal about Sona already before he realized he was in love. He knew her to be a strong, independent woman, someone he admired and respected and someone who was his equal in every way. He could trust her with his deepest thoughts because he knew her to be far more emotionally intelligent than him and thus always went to her for answers. He's seen her dance like a chlid in the rain, discovered how the fiery Dr. Bose can turn several shades of red over the idea of intimacy and is actually quite shy, he knows she is hopeless in the kitchen, that she is scared of the dark, he even knows that as a child she wanted to be an engine driver and why she chose to become a nutritionist. He knows she loves travelling, romantic movies, what her idea of a gift is, how she takes her time in opening up to people... I can go on and on. But most of all... Beyond all these facts and figures, Dev knows Sona for the beautiful soul she has and that is really all that matters. He knows her to be a kind, sensitive, intelligent, perceptive woman (who always happens to be right 😆). It's unfair to say that Dev doesn't know anything about Sona. This is how any relationship works. You talk, you share, you learn random things about each other. You can never learn everything in one go. Lastly, Sona is a pretty straightforward person. She is not like Dev where you have to really dig deep to understand his heart. With Sona its "Jo hai, so hai." She's free spirited and voices her thoughts openly whether it be to tell Dev how much she loves him or to question his own commitment. Dev honestly needs someone like her only because he is so terrible at reading people in general. Any sort of cryptic messages will go right over his head. Sona on the other hand, is always painfully honest with him.
Also, why would you expect everything to be perfect within the first month of their relationship? Yes they will probably fight and misunderstand each other. They already have. Because which couple doesn't? And yet in the aftermath of every one of those fights, I have seen them understand each other better. I don't agree with their bond being emotionally weak at all. On the contrary, I quite admire how the writers have made some very clear efforts to deepen their relationship and allow them to discover more things about each other in the past month... Especially with respect to Dev because he is the more complicated of the two and carries alot of baggage. I have seen them fall even more deeply in love since the confession actually. Even in the promos, I was quite surprised by the strength of their bond. Technically they are separated but we see her question him freely, he explains, she tries to plead that he let her talk to his Mom but he declines and she is able to respect that. I guess other people were more fixated on the point that they aren't together. I, on the other hand, was surprised by the transparency with which they talked to each other and how she could understand his stance even though it caused her pain. There was a rare kind of strength and endurance in their relationship that I was intrigued by. And I have been very happy to see the writers actually working on building such a relationship between them.
I agree about what you said about Dev and Sona's family. I do hope that they give some due focus to that.That's the only thing lacking for me right now.
Hope my answers helped a bit. Take care :)
Edited by ...Maham... - 9 years ago
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