Sona you are concluding too too early

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I really don't think any such thing happened that Sona has to behave so OTT that Dev is not sure about her n all... Agree she is very upset with Ishwari's behaviour.. But that doesn't mean she can blame Dev.. Just coz her family is supercool n accept any matter easily won't be the same situation.. N she is seeing the behaviour of Ishwari n how could she expect Dev to talk such imp matter in such a situation.. When the timing is wrong even the right thing will go wrong.. Why didnt she tell about Dev to her family when she is so close to them n they are anyday supercool.

P.S - Sona agree u r tensed n upset but I don't agree with your overnight conclusion of Dev is not sure about her. Love n relationship is all about trust.. U are losing trust n not right to put the blame on him. If ur mother behaving cranky for no reason n u r unable to guess why.. I bet even u wouldn't dare to go speak about Dev.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think Sona is being OTT at all, she is rightfully concerned about her importance in Dev' s life and every girl out there feels insecure about their relationship at some point and it's very natural and human. In fact here I would say the situation calls for it.
Till now Sona had accepted Dev's decision of hiding the relationship but it has to be revealed some day. Situations are never gonna be perfect and there's no right time here, the more it is delayed the worse it would be for everyone involved. Sona can not always think of just dev's family, she has her family to answer to as well and can't and shouldn't accept the disrespect she gets from ishwari.
As for trust, she does trust him and that is why accepted his decision to not tell their families for some time. But if Dev needed a nudge to open his eyes, then she needed to express her feelings which she did.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I disagree.
Sona has always been supportive of Dev hiding it from his family such that she herself didn't tell her family. When she couldn't take it anymore, she asked Dev to talk to his mom. She almost pleaded and he still didnt tell.

That would make any girl insecure and question her relationship.

So, I dont think she's OTT at all. I'm happy she finally stood up for herself and her family especially when she saw her mom's reaction to all this. If Dev's priority is his mother; Sona's priority is also her family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think she was behaving OTT... When you are going through a lot and shaken from inside you just shuts your mind and prevent it from thinking anything.

And may be this is what happened to Sona... She can't share her and Dev's relationship with her family, Dev is not sharing it with his mum, Ishwari is behaving extremely rude to her since long and the most importantly when Dev was ill, she tried her level best but couldn't meet him or be by his side... She so wanted to take care of him. But she was helpless... This helplessness made her to ask Dev to tell his mother asap.

When you have to go through so much, you are bound to say somethings which even you don't believe in. I am not saying Sona was saying correct. Yes she was wrong, but not OTT. Because when we are angry and lose our senses we talk anything, which we actually don't mean to.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#003300">And may be this is what happened to Sona... She can't share her and Dev's relationship with her family, Dev is not sharing it with his mum, Ishwari is behaving extremely rude to her since long and the most importantly when Dev was ill, she tried her level best but couldn't meet him or be by his side... She so wanted to take care of him. But she was helpless... This helplessness made her to ask Dev to tell his mother asap.</font>
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#003300">When you have to go through so much, you are bound to say somethings which even you don't believe in. I am not saying Sona was saying correct. Yes she was wrong, but not OTT. Because when we are angry and lose our senses we talk anything, which we actually don't mean to.</font>



Well said...
Completely Agree with U
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#003300">I don't think she was behaving OTT... When you are going through a lot and shaken from inside you just shuts your mind and prevent it from thinking anything.</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#003300">And may be this is what happened to Sona... She can't share her and Dev's relationship with her family, Dev is not sharing it with his mum, Ishwari is behaving extremely rude to her since long and the most importantly when Dev was ill, she tried her level best but couldn't meet him or be by his side... She so wanted to take care of him. But she was helpless... This helplessness made her to ask Dev to tell his mother asap.</font>
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#003300">When you have to go through so much, you are bound to say somethings which even you don't believe in. I am not saying Sona was saying correct. Yes she was wrong, but not OTT. Because when we are angry and lose our senses we talk anything, which we actually don't mean to.</font>



PERFECT EXPLANATION.
COMPLETELY AGREE
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The way understand women are normally very sensible when it comes to relationships they tend to accept almost everything that is thrown their way without voicing much thinking their partners will somehow get hold of the situation however men are laid back its only when they are told " hey don't take me for granted " do they understand they need to pull their weight too
Sonakshi just like any girl would do does the same yes she knows that Ishwari suddenly has this weird behavior but the issue is Sona and Dev's relation she knows he loves her she understands all his problems so now she wants him too to understand her problem if he is unable to speak to his mother at this stage he needs to be up front with Sona and say give me a few days but instead he tells her he tried his mother has been cooking her behavior has changed he needs to understand that Sona too is important she certainly is not overacting no she just needs to know where are they heading too .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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well said ..agreed
she was over reacting ..god knows why
suddenly she was feeling so guilty and insecure itna problen tha toh the day she confessed us din hi she should have informed her parents ..its fine she was worried and all ..but what kind of attitude was that..main itni kamzor nahi hoon..u cant take me for granted..really ??

why was she pressurizing him ..she doesnt trust his feeling for her or what ?? ..Didnt like her behaviour..she could have reacted more subtly..it wasnt like dev didnt want to tell ishwari at all or he was ignoring it for months ..besides that its not some fling for him..he is bloody serious in this relationship..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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^ Did Dev tell Ishwari the very day he confessed? Infact, if he had it his way he would have preferred not telling Ishwari for a longer time. Talking about attitude, what about Dev's attitude? While he doesn't want to disappoint his mother, just because Sonakshi's family members are supportive and understanding, she should keep lying to them? Moreover, it isn't that Sonakshi's outburst had any major impact on him or he was 'pressurized' and went straight to tell Ishwari about their relationship. It is only when he learnt from Mama ji that him being secretive about his relationship is what Ishwari is miffed with, that he finally mustered the courage to actually speak the truth instead of fumbling and dilly dallying. Dev was not able to share the truth with his mother fearing that what if she's against this relationship, Sonakshi has the same fears too. She can't just keep living with the insecurity that Dev's mother doesn't like her (something which Ishwari is leaving no stone unturned in making her believe every single day) Dev telling Ishwari about their relationship is the only way out for her to clearly know where she stands.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely disagree.Sona did not behave OTT.She behaved like a normal human being.Which I was missing.Glad she said all those things on Dev's face.

Yest CV's gave answer why Sona hided it from her parents n waited for Dev to tell his mom.As soon as Asha got to know about Dev.Her first word was have to go Dev's house.Sona did not wanted extra pressure on Dev from her family also.She gave him time.When he was taking too much time.She said those things.

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