About Love & Relationships...

This walking away if what is making me nervous...It is a way out.

Dev is no coward but will majorly falter. No one taught him how real relationships work. He will fall, falter but the real character will be - how he stands up. He still has a lot to learn about himself...

So aptly put. Though I loved Sona's attitude, my heart went out for Dev ( Could be because the actor is outstanding...). But eitherways, I did still feel sorry for Dev.

The problem is not with one alone.. They cannot be in their own zones and expect the changes to happen by themselves...

It is definitely time to move forward.

That according to me is the test of a relationship... "

I completely agree.

I applauded the fiery Sona yesterday because more than anything she needed to get back to herself. She was losing herself in the Maa & her role as the omnipresent support. This was for HER!

I did feel bad for Dev. From his perspective, he does not know the insults, cold shoulder and behavior being showered on Sona by Ishwari. Sona did not share, he cannot assume.

He is so rattled by his Maa's drama that he cannot think beyond it and No, it wasn't the right time to share about his love - his Maa wasn't even talking straight with him & he didn't know the cause.

I felt Sona's attack was wrong timing and lacked prior communication but very much needed for Sona herself.

If she had shared and he had been indifferent then her insecurity was justified.

It's like she wants this relationship but feared she cant get it from day 1. Somewhere she is stuck in the period when she almost lost her love (Natasha engagement) but she was crying for something she hadn't even tried to get. She loved him and just expected him to love her back & cried when he didn't.

Now she expects him to understand but she didn't share what she was going through and she herself kept her family out of the picture.

She needs to do what Dev does - Communicate.

She fears the same things she loves him for - will he make a place for her in his family.

...and Ishwari fears - will her place be uprooted and given to Sona.

Dev can set things right if someone tells him what the problem is. We might think, he should know but ... he may be Dev, but he's not God 😊

I am finally out of y'day's episode hangover. Let me share my 2 cents here as i mentioned in yyy's post. I feel that actual problem is not with Dev or Sona or Ishwari. I think the main problem lies in the execution part. Looks like makers took their viewers & their love for granted esp after 100th episode.

Makers made a mess out of Sona & Ishwari's characters recently(esp after 100th episode). They made Ishwari's character from a sensible person to complete sense less and non-sense person. You can understand the damage they caused to Ishwari's character when people started feeling GKB is much better than Ishwari. I felt they don't have any clarity on how to portray Ishwari when the actual story kick started.

Coming to Sona, Its good that in the past 2 episodes makers made Sona back to human with fears, flaws, feelings & confusions. Thank god that she is not any more flawless & selfless typical mahan FL of TV soaps. Each and every human has their tolerance limit and we react when that limit is crossed. There is nothing wrong wrt Sona's behavior as a normal human being. Problem lies in the way they handled Sona's character in the recent episodes. They made Sona from Delhi's best nutritionist to Dixit's house care taker. Most of her y'days dialogues are to calm down this fandom and for damage control. They made Sona from a strong, independent & head strong girl to a typical Shock absorb-er. There are many things which really annoyed me about Sona's character in the recent episodes. Like her helpless pleading when GKB was playing with her phone, silently listening to all taunts/insults or her lack of communication in their relationship. She never shared with Dev about what is happening in his absence. Even when he asked her about How is her day, she says i was thinking about u. Seriously. And she is the one who tells Dev that we need to discuss about everything and not just about happy moments to complete our relationship. She want to cut vegetables and clean palak to help Ishwari, Are you serious Sona? Before asking Dev or any other person not to take her for granted, First she need to Respect herself and her family. Most importantly, She need to respect her profession and should behave like a professional at work. She is also need to know that currently she is not a bahu/would be bahu at Dixit's house to get involve in to each and every house matter. Let them handle their mess & why she need to be there for them like a 24/7 help.

Coming to Dev, ATM i felt he is the only one who is staying in his character properly & he is the only reason why i am still not able to loose the connect with this show. It may look annoying when he is talking always about his ma & his family but his priorities are always clear. For him, his mother comes first and then his family(now this includes Sona also from his pov).

More than the actors, I love the show writers for their subtle story telling. I honestly feel writers need to pull up their socks and protect what they have built so beautifully till now in this show and not to spoil its essence just for drama. This is just my pov.