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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Guys,
I know most of u wont accept with but I really have a doubt. Why are they rushing to inform their parents. Most of them who are in love dont go rushing home to inform their parents? Atleast they take a month's time to analyse whether they are compatible for each other...

Since they feel guilty, ok u can inform ur parents. But one cannot immediately go to his mother & say "mom i'm in love with a girl without whom i cannot live my life with". If u are expecting that I request all of u to try falling in love & go tell ur family, u'll know how difficult it is. My parents are so friendly but my sister took nearly 1 month to tell them that she likes a guy. But she never knew i already got to know about her & I told my mom about her a month back itsel😆

Suddenly i find Devakshi not sure about each other itself. Dev does not seems to understand Sona. Sona has grown over guilty within a day😕.

The problem lies with each other. Before they proceed to the nxt stage they must work on that.

1. Dev must take some time sit with each ladies & clearly speak with them.
2. As for Sona, I dont understand why she keeps asking you love me na are u sure...if one partner keeps asking the same thing again & again, the other on will definitely go crazy (tamil fans will surely remember a scene from vallavan)
3. Sona is going to spend a rest of her days in Dixit family, then she must start sharing her problems with Dev. Even if its about his mother/GKB.
4.We all know that Dev is a big tubelight, then why these ladies are givinh him hints which he'll never understand in this century. When it come to Dev it is better to give him a clear cut of the matter rether than the round about way.

Enough of ramblings. Even I got bored typing it. If u wish to throw eggs/tomates...plz make it as a omlete & throe at me...I'm so lazy to make one.

P.S: No offense to anyone...its purely my pov

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Truly agree to u... My own experience... I took a year to declare it!!! Just wanted to be sure if ll b able to spend lifetime!!!
N boys... They are mostly tubelights (experience!!)

CVs skipped really many things that practically today's youth see in!! Probably that's y they are heading towards a breakup...

Relationships needs time to settle down!

Dhara
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I disagree on some points. I think this show was always meant to be about how a new relation affects the family ( mother specifically here) and the couple and how they deal with the insecurities, doubts and gradually adjust and understand each other and the importance of every relationship.( I don't know if I worded it correctly but I hope you understand what I am trying to say)
So on the show, according to me it's the right time for the revelation. As for your other points:
1. Yes, agreed, Dev needs to sit and talk to both ladies but as you mentioned he is being a tubelight and is not understanding what needs to be done.
2.Sona is feeling insecure which is natural and she needs assurance from Dev which he is not giving. He brushes it off, think it silly, but isn't saying what needs to be said. For that he needs to come out if Ishwari maa bubble. As for Sona sharing her problems, insecurity comes to mind, if she isn't sure about her importance in his life, how will she be comfortable in sharing worries especially if she feels he won't understand anything relating to his mother.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree that couples take their own time but it helps if family knows especially for girls so that they don't continue to look for suitable grooms.
In this case as Sona comes to Dev's house and was finding it extremely difficult to spend any time with him ( when dev was sick), plus she can sense the negativity from Ish and Maami, she wants things to be clarified.

I don't blame her. She is sticking around for Dev and wants his family to accept her.

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