No body is absolving Sona's fault here , in fact even I said that - Quote-
If Dev is taking her for granted it's at least 50 % her own fault .
There is a saying that goes - When you make a person your first priority you show him you should be the second priority
Sona gave much more importance to Ishwari to be informed about their relationship because Sona's far more mature than Dev , she has far better understanding of Ishwari and even Neha because of her advantage of viewing them from an outsider's pov, whereas Dev couldn't see them beyond myy-family-member as complex faulty human beings that they are.
she knows between her parents and Dev's parent it's Dev's mom who's more complicated n difficult n completely ( read-creepy level ) possessive about her son and reluctance to allow any " outsider " with in their complex mom-son unit ( she didn't even allow his sister m her own daughters , like Neha blatantly put out once ). Her parents are extremely mature , integrated , supportive people she knows that very well and she was correct , we can clearly see how easily n promptly they accepted the whole new information Asha spilled on them and have complete faith on their child, their upbringing.
Same can not be said about Ishwari.
That's why it was much more important to tell Ishwari first, I absolutely support that bit of her behavior post-confession.
However she's changing into a super unreal goody sacrificing lamb post-confession so that even her all supportive amazing mother is disappointed n sad to notice her changes .
By the way, Sona treating herself n her family as less priority , condones Dev in no way to treat her n her family as lesser importance than his mom n his family problems, in fact just the opposite. It makes his attitude even more unforgivable.
Edited by AnnaPaquinFan - 9 years ago
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