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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: bookworm123




The party started last night and has been gong on all night. Shows no sign of abating. Return of Dr.Bose has brought so much joy to all of us! We did not see this kind of reaction even for the most romantic episodes...

On a more serious note - Sona bottled it up for too long. It is not actually Dev's fault that she made him and his family her only world. She kept mum on his mom's recent behaviour with her because it was recent and she needed to process it first herself, I can see that. If she had maintained a healthy balance in their relationship, she need not have felt the need to use such strong words yesterday..Aaliah on my post said something quite astute..Dev is not necessarily taking her for granted, he just has no one else to go

I felt bad for Dev too. If I were in his place I would not share such important news with my mom when she is acting this way. He has no idea of the storm in Sona's heart because he was not privy to Ish and her recent interactions. Just like how Sona is not privy to Dev and Ish interactions. she just knows that Ish is acting wierd...and tomorrow he will apologize to her. Poor guy, his mom cannot cut him slack even once. He has been robbed of an opportunity to share this happy news in a happy frame of mind..a once in a lifetime beautiful experience and this is what he has to face






That's so true! For me, Sonakshi's attitude was better than the confession episode too. Just loved it.
Coming to Dev, I do feel bad for the poor guy. He has been the superman of the family for so long that everyone seems to forget that he is also a human being with needs of his own. That is why he has such a strong reaction whenever Ishwari or Sonakshi is upset with him. His entire world turns topsy turvy and he can't seem to control it. And Dev Dixit always likes to be in control. It's how he kept it together ever since he was a kid. Yesterday's episode such a contrast between the two families. Parenting done right with the Bose family and Ishwari failing miserably at handling her child.
I feel for Dev, but having said that, it in no way discounts Sonakshi's outburst. He really had it coming. Specially when he stopped her in the morning. I was expecting he will address their fight first but he again started with the Mummy Mummy. The way he said 'Maa khana bana rahi hai' with this remorse on his face, I really was like 'Toh? What's so wrong in that? All moms do that on a regular basis. She's not weight lifting or doing something dangerous like the chulha nonsense.' That was the breaking point for Sonakshi. Her expression was that of being the least bit interested in the mommy son duo. And him saying MY family is going through a crisis was the last straw. It's high time he starts balancing both the women's feelings equally instead of only concentrating on his mother. I feel the CVs purposely showed this, as an indication of what's to come. The main plot is here. Offcially.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am finally out of y'day's episode hangover. I feel that actual problem is not with Dev or Sona or Ishwari. Let me share my 2 cents here as i mentioned in yyy's post. I think the main problem lies in the execution part. Looks like makers took their viewers & their love for granted esp after 100th episode.

Makers made a mess out of Sona & Ishwari's characters recently(esp after 100th episode). They made Ishwari's character from a sensible person to complete sense less and non-sense person. You can understand the damage they caused to Ishwari's character when people started feeling GKB is much better than Ishwari. I felt they don't have any clarity on how to portray Ishwari when the actual story kick started.

Coming to Sona, Its good that in the past 2 episodes makers made Sona back to human with fears, flaws, feelings & confusions. Thank god that she is not any more flawless & selfless typical mahan FL of TV soaps. Each and every human has their tolerance limit and we react when that limit is crossed. There is nothing wrong wrt Sona's behavior as a normal human being. Problem lies in the way they handled Sona's character in the recent episodes. They made Sona from Delhi's best nutritionist to Dixit's house care taker. Most of her y'days dialogues are to calm down this fandom and for damage control. They made Sona from a strong, independent & head strong girl to a typical Shock absorb-er. There are many things which really annoyed me about Sona's character in the recent episodes. Like her helpless pleading when GKB was playing with her phone, silently listening to all taunts/insults or her lack of communication in their relationship. She never shared with Dev about what is happening in his absence. Even when he asked her about How is her day, she says i was thinking about u. Seriously. And she is the one who tells Dev that we need to discuss about everything and not just about happy moments to complete our relationship. She want to cut vegetables and clean palak to help Ishwari, Are you serious Sona? Before asking Dev or any other person not to take her for granted, First she need to Respect herself and her family. Most importantly, She need to respect her profession and should behave like a professional at work. She is also need to know that currently she is not a bahu/would be bahu at Dixit's house to get involve in to each and every house matter. Let them handle their mess & why she need to be there for them like a 24/7 help.

Coming to Dev, ATM i felt he is the only one who is staying in his character properly & he is the only reason why i am still not able to loose the connect with this show. It may look annoying when he is talking always about his ma & his family but his priorities are always clear. For him, his mother comes first and then his family(now this includes Sona also from his pov).

I am not part of Dev fan club or Sona fan club. I love this show for its content & its execution. More than the actors, I love the show writers for their subtle story telling. I honestly feel writers need to pull up their socks and protect what they have built so beautifully till now in this show and not to spoil its essence just for drama. This is just my pov.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I am finally out of y'day's episode hangover. I feel that actual problem is not with Dev or Sona or Ishwari. Let me share my 2 cents here as i mentioned in yyy's post. I think the main problem lies in the execution part. Looks like makers took their viewers & their love for granted esp after 100th episode.


Makers made a mess out of Sona & Ishwari's characters recently(esp after 100th episode). They made Ishwari's character from a sensible person to complete sense less and non-sense person. You can understand the damage they caused to Ishwari's character when people started feeling GKB is much better than Ishwari. I felt they don't have any clarity on how to portray Ishwari when the actual story kick started.

Coming to Sona, Its good that in the past 2 episodes makers made Sona back to human with fears, flaws, feelings & confusions. Thank god that she is not any more flawless & selfless typical mahan FL of TV soaps. Each and every human has their tolerance limit and we react when that limit is crossed. There is nothing wrong wrt Sona's behavior as a normal human being. Problem lies in the way they handled Sona's character in the recent episodes. They made Sona from Delhi's best nutritionist to Dixit's house care taker. Most of her y'days dialogues are to calm down this fandom and for damage control. They made Sona from a strong, independent & head strong girl to a typical Shock absorb-er. There are many things which really annoyed me about Sona's character in the recent episodes. Like her helpless pleading when GKB was playing with her phone, silently listening to all taunts/insults or her lack of communication in their relationship. She never shared with Dev about what is happening in his absence. Even when he asked her about How is her day, she says i was thinking about u. Seriously. And she is the one who tells Dev that we need to discuss about everything and not just about happy moments to complete our relationship. She want to cut vegetables and clean palak to help Ishwari, Are you serious Sona? Before asking Dev or any other person not to take her for granted, First she need to Respect herself and her family. Most importantly, She need to respect her profession and should behave like a professional at work. She is also need to know that currently she is not a bahu/would be bahu at Dixit's house to get involve in to each and every house matter. Let them handle their mess & why she need to be there for them like a 24/7 help.

Coming to Dev, ATM i felt he is the only one who is staying in his character properly & he is the only reason why i am still not able to loose the connect with this show. It may look annoying when he is talking always about his ma & his family but his priorities are always clear. For him, his mother comes first and then his family(now this includes Sona also from his pov).

I am not part of Dev fan club or Sona fan club. I love this show for its content & its execution. More than the actors, I love the show writers for their subtle story telling. I honestly feel writers need to pull up their socks and protect what they have built so beautifully till now in this show and not to spoil its essence just for drama. This is just my pov.


You make some very valid points 👏👏
You're right. The makers do seem confused on how to deal with Ishwari's character. I gave up on trying to understand her a long time back. I just can't understand why she does what she does. She needs khatri to keep her distracted I feel.
Everything you said about Sonakshi, I agree 100%. I'm very glad they're showing her human side again instead of potraying her as the shock absorber of the Dixit family. Her attitude in the first promo resonated with me,which is why I started watching the show. Was very glad to see her back.
Coming to Dev, somewhere, his character is also staying true to the promos. Its just annoying us to see him not give the required priority to Sonakshi. The promos clearly showed he keeps his mom above everything else. And that is what he is doing currently. I'm just worried that the disconnect should not reach a point of no return, where we actually start rooting for Sonakshi to move on.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#44
Yayy woo hoo ! My lioness is back. 🥳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

Yayy woo hoo ! My lioness is back. 🥳

Hey Gargi, great to see you on the forum after a long time! 😃
Sonakshi's back and so are you😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Malvika07


Same here!! My mom was like, what's wrong with you?😕
Sonakshi and Bose family were brilliant today. The Dixits should take a page from their book, maybe learn a lesson or two on how to deal with issues in a mature manner. My heart did go out to Dev today. Poor guy looked like a lost puppy!



Ha ha... I can imagine your mum's reaction!! This episode made all of us go absolutely cuckoo so worth it! And the Dixits learning something from the Bose is something so next to impossible... It'll take them 2-3 decades!! 😕 that's how messed up they are! Yes have to agree... I felt bad for Dev.. He looked shattered but at the same time he was thinking only about Ishwari...well I'm hoping that they show a continuation of him thinking about what Sona said before he talks to Ishwari in today's episode.. I'm really banking on this to happen!! Fingers crossed!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is weird. I think i have mentioned quite a few times on this forum how Dev's attitude really really annoys me and Sonakshi is taking too long to snap..But when she did, i ended up feeling bad for him 😆 Anyway, am just so glad Sonakshi is finally not acting like a inhuman shock-absorber with God complex.Coming to Dev, his reaction in the precap legit made feel bad for the poor guy..He looked downright terrified while telling his mom that he is in love..It is one thing to be paranoid about your parent's approval but his reaction was all kinds of disturbing..This is the kind of hold Ishwari has on him..I mentioned before that i wouldn't ever fall for a guy like Dev in real life and i stand by that..But as a viewer, i really couldn't help but feel sorry for his predicament..Ppl are annoyed he started talking about his mom instead of trying to resolve the fight with Sonakshi but thats not how he works..I doubt anything in the world could have diverted his attention at that point after all the emotional manipulation he was subjected to 😆 For someone as emotional as Dev, he should have had a practical mom like Asha..But since both mom and son are emotionally twisted, you add to it the kind of hold they have on each other which makes them act downright weird and creepy at times, you know its bad news..I dont know..What if his mom was upset about something else? So he just goes up to her and says 'momma forget this shit. i just wanted to say am in love?' 😆 Thats not how it works. I know he was an idiot for not saying it to her much earlier but right now, given how messed up the dude is, am not sure we can blame him for not having the guts to confront her 😆 So point of my rant..Dev is way too messed up and Sona had a right to be unreasonable yesterday cos she has been through a lot off late but my heart still went out to Dev 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malvika07

Hey Gargi, great to see you on the forum after a long time! 😃
Sonakshi's back and so are you😊

To be perfectly honest , I've always watched KRPKAB for the character Sonakshi n Dev was always important to me only because of what part he plays in Sonakshi's arc n story , and there fore it's not surprizing that my interest towards the show kind of fizzled out when I saw the strength of her character n the integrity independence and professionalism seeping out of her because of the disease called Loveria , but due to my old fondness for the character Sonakshi Bose ( whom I use to fondly call as lioness ) and Devakshi I kept in touch with the forum silently at times to keep tabs on the show becuase I've stopped watching since a loong time. And I only came back and watched last night's episode on YT because of Sona's character recovering some sort of semblance to her old fiery self after a vocal dose from her mother. Credit to Asha . 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...



Ha ha... I can imagine your mum's reaction!! This episode made all of us go absolutely cuckoo so worth it! And the Dixits learning something from the Bose is something so next to impossible... It'll take them 2-3 decades!! 😕 that's how messed up they are! Yes have to agree... I felt bad for Dev.. He looked shattered but at the same time he was thinking only about Ishwari...well I'm hoping that they show a continuation of him thinking about what Sona said before he talks to Ishwari in today's episode.. I'm really banking on this to happen!! Fingers crossed!!

Yess, that would be perfect! Yesterday's episode was all kinds of beautiful.. Ofcourse Sonakshi's reaction was the high point but it made me feel very bad for Dev as well, something that I haven't felt in the recent episodes.Plus the Bose family was all kinds of awesome, and Ishwari was also not overly creepy!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks

This is weird. I think i have mentioned quite a few times on this forum how Dev's attitude really really annoys me and Sonakshi is taking too long to snap..But when she did, i ended up feeling bad for him 😆 Anyway, am just so glad Sonakshi is finally not acting like a inhuman shock-absorber with God complex.Coming to Dev, his reaction in the precap legit made feel bad for the poor guy..He looked downright terrified while telling his mom that he is in love..It is one thing to be paranoid about your parent's approval but his reaction was all kinds of disturbing..This is the kind of hold Ishwari has on him..I mentioned before that i wouldn't ever fall for a guy like Dev in real life and i stand by that..But as a viewer, i really couldn't help but feel sorry for his predicament..Ppl are annoyed he started talking about his mom instead of trying to resolve the fight with Sonakshi but thats not how he works..I doubt anything in the world could have diverted his attention at that point after all the emotional manipulation he was subjected to 😆 For someone as emotional as Dev, he should have had a practical mom like Asha..But since both mom and son are emotionally twisted, you add to it the kind of hold they have on each other which makes them act downright weird and creepy at times, you know its bad news..I dont know..What if his mom was upset about something else? So he just goes up to her and says 'momma forget this shit. i just wanted to say am in love?' 😆 Thats not how it works. I know he was an idiot for not saying it to her much earlier but right now, given how messed up the dude is, am not sure we can blame him for not having the guts to confront her 😆 So point of my rant..Dev is way too messed up and Sona had a right to be unreasonable yesterday cos she has been through a lot off late but my heart still went out to Dev 😆

Hahahahaa your post cracked me up! So aptly described. The entire Dixit family are a bunch of loonies I feel, Mamaji being the only exception. He's more like the Boses. They are loony but yesterday I still ended up feeling bad for Dev. I think I have expressed it enough times how much I loved Sonakshi's reaction. Yes, wanted to give Dev a hug after all that he's been subjected to, but he really had it coming!
I sometimes feel he's gonna run away from home if this drama continues. Both the women in his life are quite a handful. And he's anyways a more confused soul than normal humans so it's just gonna be worse for him!

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