Lovely post dear !!
Well Ishwari is badly stuck in the past ...she does not budge from there herself and neither wants Dev to move on too !
I do understand that a bad past hurts but why all the time...back then the time was not good but now it is good...why not make the most of it and be happy ...who knows this time will remain good or not or how many days it shall be in your favor ...!!!
Yesterday I loved what Neha said during the Dev- Neha- Nikki scene ...even if he has someone is in his life ... I will be happy if Dev bhai is happy !! how beautiful is that ... no questions asked ...just acceptance ... giving time to the other person to come over on their own ...!!!
I also did not like the part in which she got a bit pacified after Dev told her he built a ward in her name...so will only such things prove he is connected to her ... is concerned about her ...he loves her ???? all the care and the worry and the love he shows takes a backseat if she goes off his radar even a little bit.
It is like getting gratified with proofs that Dev loves her if he keeps doing such things ...what about emotional connections ... they gone for a toss ???
I will also add here what I wrote in some another post sometime back!
The crux of the matter is that Ishwari will have to learn the hard way that she now cannot be in the personal space of her son no matter how hard she tries , she will have to learn that there will be needs of her grown up - ADULT son that SHE cannot fulfill and that don't revolve around her ...there will be desires and thoughts in his mind which CANNOT involve her ...there are going to be situations in which she will not be able to Step in ...there shall be some boundaries that she will not be able to cross but Sona will get to cross ...there are things that he shall do or want to do for Sona and will not be able to do in same manner for her simply because she is his Mom and Sona is his Love Interest ...the dimensions of both relationships are very different and Ishwari is really immature / stupid to even compare her ownself with Sona on this level ...
There is only a limit to which a Parent can be in the personal space of their child no matter how much you love them... at some point in time you have to learn to let go...
It has actually got nothing to do with Love ...its just how things are unless of course she wants her son to remain celibate !!!
I just want to see conflict in her actions / thoughts ...some pondering / some after thoughts ...may be a monologue to show she is thinking about her actions...
Lets see how it goes !!
Edited by aaliah3108 - 9 years ago
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