I liked your question and what made you think about it.. Thanks for giving me an opportunity to think.about it too...😛
Sona has come from a happy family where she has learnt to take life in it's own strides without reading too much in between the lines of it.. She has been a happy person herself without any extra baggage 😃.. A best gift any parent can give their children.. A real confidence about themselves; the fact that they will be loved by them no matter what; a happy dream to chase.
All her package for her life was to keep her life engaged professionally and take her personal satisfaction from the passion for it... And support her family financially.. Is her dream to strive day and night to become rich?! Is her aim to trap someone rich to get into the luxuries of life?! Is her target to happiness is all materialistic?! Her life is very simple and straightforward.. Yet it's beautiful and a feel-good life.. There are many people in real who loves that kind of life... 👏
All her wish for life is to have her own love story ❤️... I see the simplicity in her life and love, which is all the more pretty and blissful through her ways of living life .. The more I see her in this form the more I get attached to her character 😳🤗..
If people can't really relate to her character then it's just because they are different and their expectations and experiences are way different.. And may be they don't understand the difference.. That doesn't make her life anything cheap just because it doesn't match up to their expectations from life..😉
Whether her love story is gonna be complicated or too much attachment coming with it, that's something which she has every right to deal with it or kick it out 😊.. She's in a very secure and happy and comfortable zone.. And nothing can break that because she's filled with the strength thanks to her happy childhood and the simplicity in which she sees or handles her life...
There are people who really want to keep life very simple.. And be happy about it.. And appreciate the little nuances and beauty of it😉.. There are people who want to make/see things complicated and deal with it extremely to get a feel of achievement out of it.. Else they get bored with their life.. 😉
If Sona had a father who is so intruding into her life's decisions and too much bothered about everything happening around her; had a mother who is behind her telling her to do things like this or not like that; a brother who's over protective.. Even with such things they are never extreme about anything and more of a take it easy types.. And I have always loved such kinda characters in real life..
And for reel life there have to be some extremely emotional characters with complications.. Else story on-screen won't be interesting with all-is-well all the time.. And I really appreciate the fact that this show has taken the emotions that are relatable and close to reality.. 👏 And to be honest in real life, I stay far far away from such emotional baggage people who aren't ready to deal with life in simple way or would want to indulge themselves in the emotional complications more and more.. 😆
Dev is an emotionally complicated man with emotionally complicated family (leaving Nikki out of it.. Not very sure about Rhea yet).. And Sona knows it very very well.. She could be the emotional sink here.. Not necessary that she needs a sink tank too. If she's capable of handling her own emotional distress (first of all the way I understand her character I wouldn't think that her perspective of life would limit her to see anything stressful😊) and her ability to handle other's emotions especially Dev's is better then why would anything stop her from doing it.. Unless that handling itself becomes stressful for her 😆..
Here I see her having the strength in herself, thanks to her family especially the siblings, to deal with her emotional breakdown gracefully.. Sure she cried and cried and cried but she is a woman of real strength; nothing fake about it.. She sustained it all like a real woman.. And she doesn't even feel the need to lean on something solid all the time.. She has capacity to take strength from any experiences of her own life.. Easily accepting the life's ups and downs.. I don't see that as bad thing.. In fact it's a wonderful thing that everyone of us need to possess.. Life moves on.. Holding on to the bad things that happened - if it helps you grow then keep it.. Else kick it out and grow leaving it behind.. Just be happy that it happened for its experience that it gave you for the life...
Thanks to you.. I got to think through myself and understand why I like Sonakshi character from day one.. thanks to your post for making me pen it down.. I am feeling good now...🤗
If Sona wants to feel lucky being part of Dev's life then sure she will feel it in her own way.. And feeling lucky is very very subjective just like feeling happiness... Like what makes one feel lucky?! Getting to choose your own gift? Or getting a gift itself? 😉