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Posted: 9 years ago
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exactly, i want sona to think about her career. i want her to tell dev that it feels awkward
for her to take salary from bf. so she wants to work elsewhere and serve other patients too.
she can say she wil come here from time to time to monitor ishwari. i dont want her to
leave the job after everyone start disliking her but bef that. i understand that sona has to
b in the dixit house so that her scenes wil b with dixit family but still she need not b always
in the house
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa

@About asking her to get file from his wardrobe.. that what happens when two good people fall in love and neither they have announced it to the world nor does seriously mean to hide it .
@ about disagreements and arguments I believe we are reaching there slowly..
but one thing I too want is Sona to come out of that house and focus on her own career. but seems CVs want Ishwari getting rude be the reason Sona wants to come out from there and they are building the story to there (just my guess). hoping for best..


Completely agree with you!! It has been just a month and thus everything feels so rosy and agreeable.. & i guess with Ishwari's changed moods we are heading towards disagreements.

I too for one do not like mushy relationships.. i feel spice ka tadka is necessary for it be more interesting. Disagreements, arguments and make-ups make the relationships more real and passionate too 😉😉, and not just over external factors like Ishwari here, but at times even personality differences. But I like the fact, that they did show disagreements albeit in subtle manner. They handled it not through arguments but through communicating with each other and trying to understand each other's pov, like in case where he offered job to ranveer or neha's lehnga issue. But still felt a little too perfect may be due to how new their relationship is. Yes, but now it feels the time for CVs to also incorporate little bit of passionate side of Devakshi😉😉.

But one thing which bothers me the most is why is Dev hiding it from Ishwari.. CVs haven't even given a reason.. Its like for no reason he is driving them towards disaster. They need to show Sona asking dev to tell everyone, their discussion on this topic or at least Dev's self-talk and believable reason as to why a guy who does everything openly still hiding it such imp matter from his mother. I understood in the beginning as it was too new and they both needed time to find each other, understand each other and then Neha's wedding came up. But now, he should think about telling it to Ishwari.

But he is doing such a bad job at hiding or keeping it subtle.. romancing in the middle of the living room, on public places, telling all that he took sona to buy ishwari's saree and yesterday's incident.

I too before my marriage, had to hide my relationship with my now-husband from my parents for a long time, and I know that when one knows the repercussion of it coming out at the wrong time & in the wrong manner, how careful one is. Even we used to steal time to talk to each other, but were very careful in not giving even a chance for anyone to get suspicious. & somewhere it was bcoz of the right timing and manner that later my parents agreed for our marriage.
Devakshi are being too careless😕!! After yesterday's disaster of ishwari catching sona in dev's room, I had fully expected sona to be at least little awry or uncomfortable to again go in his room in the presence of iswari or tell dev if anyone else like Nikki could do it. But she hasnt even told him that on both the occasions it was Ishwari who caught her!!

I think we are coming to new beginning of Sona's career with changes shown in ishwari's behaviour. I do not any more like how everyone treats her and she is okay with it. Wasnt her contract of 3 months, and as Ranveer said yesterday 3 months are now over... so I think she should think of beginning with her career again!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Brilliant post.

Dev-Ishwari relationship : Dev loves his mother, idolizes her and makes an effort to keep her comfortable and happy. He has seen her struggle and so wants to ensure she has nothing but the best. But I don't think he connects with her on an emotional level. He has never been shown to share his problems with her. The recent example is the late night meeting that Tina had arranged. He never told Ishwari about Gujral's threat the next morning. Why he has not opened up about Sonakshi is still a mystery to me but I think he is somewhere confident that Ishwari would have no problem with Sonakshi. He is going to get a jolt today when Ishwari taunts him on the file issue.
On the other hand, Ishwari seems to find her soul-mate in Dev. She is rather obsessed with Dev and that can be dangerous. Dev has taken care of her and has been her go-to person for a long time now and naturally she expects him to be as forthcoming as she is (remember how she runs to him even for advice on Nikki's picnic).

Sonakshi : I am not sure when that 3-month contract would end but its high time that Sonakshi walks upto Dev and tells him that his mom has now fallen into a routine with the diet and there is really no need of her to be around the house all the time. She should move on before their relationship is out in the open and people start taunting her and insulting her. Anyway its not that Ishwari's vital stats keep changing daily because of which her diet needs constant modification.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swapno

Hey dear!! Nice post as always... though I am partially agreeing with you on this.

He worships Ishwari and can't bear slightest if she is in pain. Then why would he ask Ishwari about it? It is not that he knew Ishwari would come there. Most of all we are forgetting that he is new in the relationship. He is in love and that's why sometimes he is acting impulsive here. Okay!! I know he should understand his mother's mood!! but he is contemplating it for Neha's bidayii. We ourselves sometimes to the mistake to understand our parents mood too. That does not mean we are not close too our parents.

ThankYouu. I completely understand what you are saying and I also understand where Dev is coming from, but the whole scene just stuck me as weird thats all.

Dev is preoccupied too ! With the business loss, missing Neha and most of all dealing with this feeling. It is only about one month! And we all know at first in love one agrees everything regarding what other says. CV's may be showing this only.

I hope you are right and in future we may see them argue and disagree. It would add a realistic touch.

There will come time when their tiffs will be shown too I guess! But I agree now it's time for Dev to come clean and tell about the relationship to the family. He has no reason to hide it at all. Not only that Sonakshi also needs to tell her family too. I don't understand why is hiding it from her family?

I am confused too. I have no idea why either of them are hiding it from their family. Dev does not know how Ishwari truly feels so I have no idea why he is hiding it and Sona's parents have always been so supportive so I am confused too. I think its high time they everyone or at least have discussion about telling their respective families.

Don't get me wrong. It is my P.O.V only and I respect yours too!! 😊

I completely respect your opinion and I am so glad that you respect mine.

P.S - About Sonakshi's career !! Agree with you 100 %...She needs to focus on her career now!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa

@About asking her to get file from his wardrobe.. that what happens when two good people fall in love and neither they have announced it to the world nor does seriously mean to hide it .

I am confused what you exactly mean here, are you being sarcastic?

@ about disagreements and arguments I believe we are reaching there slowly..
but one thing I too want is Sona to come out of that house and focus on her own career. but seems CVs want Ishwari getting rude be the reason Sona wants to come out from there and they are building the story to there (just my guess). hoping for best..
I hope we do reach there soon. Maybe you are right but the thing is I wanna see HER aspire bigger like she used too. I want her take pride in her work like she used to earlier.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

The way I look at Dev and Ishwari they do have a very close bond and understand each other well
yes I also do believe that its the first time Dev fell in love and perhaps he needed some alone time just for himself sneaking around brings in excitement too so maybe he was waiting for after Neha's marriage to talk to his mother .
I'm sure as the relationship grow there will be disagreements like any new couple at first whatever is said between them is always the right thing but soon Dev will realize too that Sona could be wrong also and they will have disagreements .


But dont you think its high time that he admits to his relationship? He has had time for himself and what bothers me more is that he is not even thinking about telling his family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Dear TM well I disagree with point of view..

First coming to Ishwari- Dev realationship= Dev asking for Sona to open the cupboard is natural instinct which comes to his mind considering he is very close to her now. I don't think Dev even knows that Ishwari don't want him to get married.


I understand where you are coming from but the whole scene just was weird to me. I wont tell my boyfriend to open m cupboard in my room especially when I am trying to hide my relationship.

Dev can read her feelings when she shows it - Like Dev were able to read her uneasiness or unhappiness on her during her birthday.

This I agree with, I did not think of that. I guess Dev is very simple man and he does not see beyond what the person is trying to emote.

When you are close to someone doesn't means that you will read each and every emotions of that persona accurately.. Sorry even am close but sometimes I am not read my mom's mind. That's ok .. It happens with most of the persons.

Coming to Sona's Profession- SOna has signed a contract with Dev . Before falling in love which she was coming to his house doing that like- playing with Nikki, Playing antakshari , going out with Dev- Ishwari. Yes we all want her to do some more in her profession . But I don't think cv has shown so far that her contracts is finished but still she is working there.SO raising question on Sona's presence in Dixit family? Kuch Samajh nahi aaya 😃

I understand that but that track is over. Dev is not just her boss but her boyfriend also. I honestly feel that her time is done there, and now its time for her to move forward in her career. Sonakshi's work has been reduced to her acting like everyone counselor. She bears so much insult from GKB for her work and that was fine earlier because her work was important, but she should now take an action and move out.

Coming to Dev- Sona fight - They are at initial phase and not in 2-3 years of relationship. Well my personal gyaan - first year of marriage/relationship is like - rosie rosie when thorn comes out..

But still they having argument - over ranveer's job, Neha's Lehgna ..

I don't think Sona is agreeing on Dev's pov on every issue nor Dev is agreeing on Sona's pov - remember that ALmonds issue.

You want fight and arguments- AM sure CV will blessed you with alot in near future😳😃

I do not want some big huge fights. I just want too see situations where their characters shine. I want too see a passionate, headstrong Dev against that fierce Sona like earlier it used to be and then I want them to make up. I feel since being in a relationship, their characters have been reduced to just that and they do not have an individual personality anymore.

Lastly coming to your point - Alot of ppl saying SONA AND DEV 's character is butchered - Not many people are saying this..I can give you list of people who are saying this - just few😉..Obviously spending time in this forum .. We can make out who is saying who and what and what not ?😆 rest am not allowed to say otherwise ...😳

I do not spend that time on the forum, I saw couple of posts saying and thats why I assumed
P.S> Respect your pov ..😊

I respect yours too. We should all be allowed to say what we feel in the forum!





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: muskaan2298

Thats so true, She is just perfect in every sense and I just dislike that so much. There has not been a single thing that she has done wrong or has any bad quality and that really sucks. Such perfect people do not exists and I wish she had faults and errors so we could see her grow and overcome those.

Thank God people are gradually coming out and posting much meaningful posts. Just perfect post . The romance is getting monotonous,unreal,boring and cliched I never expected Dev to be a doormat as someone rightly pointed out . Yes I hate to see him forget his mother and her nature. I just could not swallow the way he asked Sonakshi to bring the file as if it is a common thing. I know many will offer me free advice not to watch the show if I felt it that way. The problem is Shaheer is my Jaan. So I will watch daily yawning and sulking seeing the unexciting romantic track . I know there are people who just jump and say people like us who are pointing out these points would like to see intense romantic scenes and Blah Blah. But I belong to that category for whom one eyelock can convey volumes instead of bookish dialogues or physical closeness. Anyway nice to know some are there feeling the same way as I do.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very nice post 😊 I missed your post and made a similar small post though about a particular scene yesterday. I have been finding some parts of the romance a bit too sweet and Dev not revealing about the relationship really unreasonable. However, when I think of it, I guess we must give the CVs the benefit of doubt here. One thing about this show is that they are taking it really, really slow - the way they build on small incidents and feelings is actually very good. If we look at it that way, it has been a very short time since Dev has fallen in love - so he is still awestruck with the new feeling in his life and savoring every moment of it. And just like in his career, he wants to make it perfect - in fact, just copybook style 😃 So, he has been putting in so much effort into being an ideal "boyfriend"! Neha's wedding is the first reality check for him as we see he is already feeling that he has been too preoccupied with himself and his relationship with Sona.
Another point is Sona is not really the fighting passionately type. If you remember in the promos, the first one they aired showed her telling Dev that if he chooses not to talk about things, she won't either. She expresses herself more freely when she is alone but is pretty mature and grounded in Dev's presence. And that is why, she can understand him and handle him so well - minus the arguments 😊 Dev, on the other hand, is very emotional and at times impulsive too - so gets carried away when it comes to the people he loves. That is why, he approached Ranbeer too on Neha's behalf (which I believe he shouldn't have done and instead should have tried to talk to Neha). So, Dev is now just getting carried away by his feelings for Sona. Later, when he realizes his mother's stand, he will probably back out 🤢- as they had showed in the promos. This is not to say he is fickle - in fact, his strong feelings for the very few people he loves make it so difficult for him to balance. He just needs to get his priorities right and take firm and intelligent decisions when it comes to relationships. He should understand he cannot have it all perfect with one person - he has to 'hurt' his mother a bit initially to get Sona, he has to let Neha live her own life without interfering, he has to find solutions that may not be perfect for everyone but the best for them under the circumstances. The developments we expect in the characters will probably happen when they separate and not as long as they are together 😊 Also, I expect they will happen more in Dev than in Sona who is more sorted on all fronts. The story is also more about Dev and HIS relationship with his mother and girlfriend.

As for Ishwari, her behavior and expectations are completely justified and Dev should have ideally (even practically) shared the truth with her. There was also no reason not to because Ishwari likes Sona very much and has technically given the freedom to Dev to make his own decisions. However, the whole story of this show revolves around the small detailing of the characters' lives and emotions - because honestly the basic idea is not very strong in itself for a soap. Ishwari would surely not be able to hold her own in the face of Dev's unhappiness for a long time. So, they would take it through the subtleties of each day, her getting to know the truth, her feeling betrayed and replaced, Dev's reactions, Sona's response, and so on and so forth.

It would be interesting to see these developments and I trust the writers to do a good job there!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigirl987

  • Dev and Ishwari are in a misconception that they understand each other well ,but I dont agree to that , birthday incident is the best example .
  • About Sonakshi's career , I also feel she should have a better career goal . but what we know , she has been waiting for her love story all her life, n its not unnatural to feel like being around ur love all the time in the initial stage , and whats better place to work where your lover is around .
  • I know that she has been waiting for her love story since forever but at the same I feel that they have really degraded her job. She does everything in their house+ get insulted by RR
  • I can understand where a normal person would want to hide ur relationship if she is working , around ur mom/family , to avoid unwanted issues before marriage . But Dev's equation with Ishwari is different . After seeing todays precap , I think its high time now Dev should open up about his relationship to mom , and should not make any excuse for asking Sona to get the file and same goes with Sona, I remember Sona saying to her mom when she was questioning the relationship between Dev and Sona after Dev broke off the alliance , that she would know if there is a guy in Sona's life so why she is hiding it now .
  • i have no idea why either are hiding their relationship. It just does not make sense to me! They have enjoyed their private time so I think its time they come clean.
  • About the current track , I think KRPKAB team is doing a good job showing the natural progression of their journey , and all these moments are paving their path to a strong relationship which will be tested in future . So have some patience dear , as we know their path is not gonna be of bed of roses but of thrones . So let's sit back enjoy this beautiful stage .
  • I am fully enjoying the ride, I just hope that we do get some bumps in the road. But like you said CV are handling everything beautifully.






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