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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Hi Deeps! I cannot wrap my head around Ishwari and her reaction /consecutive action that we see Tomm. I will come around to say more but for now I just want to say... OK my son took away the time I was supposed to spend with him... I also understand that it was precious for me... I was too excited to go with him... So he got another girl in between me and him... I accept all of this... And then what do I do... I come out not wearing the saree that the son brought... He hurt me so I'm gonna hurt him too by subtle expression of displeasure. I'm close to my son so he is bound to realise that I'm not happy. Is this the correct thing you do being a mom?
I'm not going to agree to this any which way... If my child does ten things of which I don't like, seven... Will I do tit for tat to express my disappointment, hurt and anger? I'm just too upset with this... Mom's place their children before everything or anything. So u OK to see ur child disappointed just because u got disappointed by his action... I'm upset yaar.. Seriously upset.


Totally agree wid u.
Ishwari's reaction was still okay as she was disappointed that Dev did not spend time wid her but hurting ur son for this reason is just not what any mother wud do, specially wen Dev regds her mother as god.

And am seriously irked by the indifferent attitute towards her daughters. She wud nvr love her daughters as much as she loves her son. 😡 I dnt knw why her daughters dnt feel sad abt it. Only Neha understands this side of Ishwari's personality and voices her opinions.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings



Totally agree wid u.
Ishwari's reaction was still okay as she was disappointed that Dev did not spend time wid her but hurting ur son for this reason is just not what any mother wud do, specially wen Dev regds her mother as god.

And am seriously irked by the indifferent attitute towards her daughters. She wud nvr love her daughters as much as she loves her son. 😡I dnt knw why her daughters dnt feel sad abt it. Only Neha understands this side of Ishwari's personality and voices her opinions.



My mind was at unrest so I watched the last part. Come to think of it how SaD it is that her daughters know that no matter what they bring, she will find only her sons gift best. So should the girl's start detesting or competing with Dev to gain their mom's attention. I felt bad for the children too... Except for Neha who has voiced this opinion the other two girls are OK with it but is it correct. I mean how visibly this difference is there and accepted. Dev.. genuinely wanted to surprise her and not cause disappointment but his action involuntarily did... I would want to see what excuse she would give for not wearing the saree... What she shall say shall make me understand her better? I agree some actions of our children don't go well with us but what do u do... Do u give it back in Same kind! Or try to talk it out... Let's see wht happens tomm..dev did not hide anything with her... Loved this part. We expect our child to be truthful with us but then u should be parent enough to be able to. Hold the truth too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108



My mind was at unrest so I watched the last part. Come to think of it how SaD it is that her daughters know that no matter what they bring, she will find only her sons gift best. So should the girl's start detesting or competing with Dev to gain their mom's attention. I felt bad for the children too... Except for Neha who has voiced this opinion the other two girls are OK with it but is it correct. I mean how visibly this difference is there and accepted. Dev.. genuinely wanted to surprise her and not cause disappointment but his action involuntarily did... I would want to see what excuse she would give for not wearing the saree... What she shall say shall make me understand her better? I agree some actions of our children don't go well with us but what do u do... Do u give it back in Same kind! Or try to talk it out... Let's see wht happens tomm..dev did not hide anything with her... Loved this part. We expect our child to be truthful with us but then u should be parent enough to be able to. Hold the truth too.


we think alike ...u r not alone...i m going through same emotional turmoil ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh yes! Ishwari needs to understand this đŸ„±
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashakd

Hey Deeps,

its one of those days when I am thankful and happy for the discovery of You tube. I am gonna just bury myself in those numerous vms and old episodes.
Priorities do change and any change is difficult to accept. So we begin the transformation phase now. More than knowing how it is gonna happen I am interested to see how the makers are gonna show it happen. Will they be able to balance the reality and drama and make it as endearing and entertaining like they have been until today??
Todays episode left a bland taste in my mouth. I am not able to point the finger now, may be when I sleep and get up I will be in a better position to explain.
I guess the the dev-sona glacier hit us more powerfully than Ishwari.

PS:: I loved your memes...
PS: Dev-watching sona sleep how cute...and sona how can you sleep????
PS: Supriaji tusi great ho!!!!!!!!! I salute your acting skills.
PS: Radha Rani may seem a villan today but one day she sure will turn Ishwariji to accept Sona or loose Dev...my furture prediction😊 .


Aww don't be so distressed đŸ€— yes these transformations are going to shake some solid foundations which even am eager to see how the makers are going to pull. Am sure its because of yesterday's episode many of us are still numb😆 its takes time to absorb the sudden change of situations from extreme happiness to extreme shock and anxiety.

LOL, since I didn't post any P.S you gave it with interest 😆 Thank you so much. Hope you get a good night sleep with those magical VMs đŸ€—

Waise I saw your comment in yesterdays post while posting this one but didn't reply to avoid the post bumping first page and I was sure will see you here😳 Thank you again!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Viji-

Awesome post again deepađŸ‘đŸ€—

The main story have taken us on toll😕
I kinda got confused with eshwari's reaction, the shock which she showed was totally natural according to me, as a mother like her, who adore her son and who thinks he is the world and the son thinks the same with his mom, the bday was always been a special day for her,but this time it din't happen, and thus the shock.
As said Dev's POV is also correct, he wanted to surprise her rather taking her, but he din't know it was not the saree but the time she wanted from him
Everything is okay, but one thing which i din't like, is eshwari not wearing the saree, i kinda think it was so so rude on her part, i know she is heartbroken, but this will break her son's heartđŸ„ș It was like U dissapointed me, now my turn i ll disappoint you, No mother's do that and esp eshwari should not that too with a son Like DEV.
I seriously can't able to see Dev's reaction tomorrow, Zor ka Jatka lagega Dev babu kođŸ€”


Thank you VijiđŸ€—

I agree to every point you have mentioned! Yes Ishwar's shock was very apt when Dev presented that gift and who can blame Dev yaar. Bechara though living with four ladies can never understand what woman want fully.

Even am waiting for tom episode to fully access the situation why Ishwar did that because that was brutal for both Dev and Sona

Well Dev have to go through this situation one day. Lets see what happens..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gold21

Let's not judge too soon. What if there's some other reason why Ishwari couldn't wear that saree? Or may be she will explain to Dev that it's not Saree but time that they spend together is imp to her.


Exactly, i like the way you think.. Thank you for putting your thoughts across😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Littlestar108

Awesome post...


I feel both Ishwari and Dev are right in their positions...

Ishwari wanted to spend time with Dev and Dev wanted to surprise her...


I feel really bad for Dev and Sona...they will so hurt when they see Ishwari didn't wear that saree...

Can't see Dev and Sona sad...



Thank you sweetheart 😊

Yes both were correct on their positions and its going to be one emotional roller coaster ride for us all.

Maybe we will get back our strong Sona back after this to handle the situation gracefully along with Dev..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mygaby


we think alike ...u r not alone...i m going through same emotional turmoil ...


Hold on to your horses till tomorrow episode girls😊 I guess the forum is going to be ballistic if Ishwari indeed did it purposely. Lets wait and watch

Regarding a Mom being unfair to succeeding kids, I can understand a bit why Ishwari is so. The first kid (whether boy/girl) is always special to any Mom because they gives the identity "Mother" to the outside world. They make a girl to a woman. Mothers learn everything through their first kid, every struggle and pain and joy during those process of delivering is experienced for the first time through that child. And if that child had to walk with you by side in your worst times, they are bound to become special. I am saying this with my personal experience, my elder son has seen the worst times with me and the younger now is enjoying the happier mummy😆 (am just trying to point why Dev was special to Ishwari) A mom can never be unfair to her kids but the way she expresses it is what matter.

This is why I love the series when they show Neha. Nikki and Ria never know about the hurdles they faced and for them Neha is their Mom. Its only Neha who got stuck being a child and a parent. No child should go through this..

The CVs have given us some wonderful characters and am loving these insights😳



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana_rocker

Oh yes! Ishwari needs to understand this đŸ„±


Give her some time dear. Ishwari has no other option than to accept Sona😉 Remember Dev gets what he wants at any cost😆

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