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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely post deepa 😳

Jus as much I loved Sona & Dev in the previous episode, I loved Ishwari in yesterday's episode!! She owned yesterday episode... Just like a child who waits for his/her perfect birthday gift..she was waiting for her gift. When Dev came to wish her at 12, she was his mother and when she woke up she was a child.. And she was jolted when she was denied her gift. This is the same child who once threw the food tray.. She ll get over it once she mulls over her behavior.. You can't question why a child throws a tantrum and the same way we can't question her behavior.. Bcoz Ishwari is like that! You got to accept her the way she is! No doubt she will be hurting Dev by not wearing the saree he gifted her!! But I'm not shocked with her behavior bcoz she's always been like this... Loved Supriya ji! She was brilliant... Uff n that background score really adds up to the emotion... Another wonderful episode!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing post👏
Yeah as we grow up our priorities too changes...and change is what is a hard thing to accept sometime. Thats too a case in ishwari case.. All that pride that she has ...has been shattered today...how proudly she told her daughters...but when that place that she thinks is her was taken by some else...but you know how long can she be the center of attraction in dev world...One day it has to divided...but ishwari has to realize it and she will one day...its a long journey na...😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice analysis.

For now I am very very upset. Ishwari what she did If she did it purposely, she doesn't even qualify to be called a mother. Which mother would think of taking revenge from her own child. A child which we all call her most loved one, first child, who stood by her in all the bad times. she does this to him. Not acceptable.

Lets see what reason she gives in for not wearing the saree. she surely had no problem wearing it all these previous years. So why now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

Lovely post deepa 😳

Jus as much I loved Sona & Dev in the previous episode, I loved Ishwari in yesterday's episode!! She owned yesterday episode... Just like a child who waits for his/her perfect birthday gift..she was waiting for her gift. When Dev came to wish her at 12, she was his mother and when she woke up she was a child.. And she was jolted when she was denied her gift. This is the same child who once threw the food tray.. She ll get over it once she mulls over her behavior.. You can't question why a child throws a tantrum and the same way we can't question her behavior.. Bcoz Ishwari is like that! You got to accept her the way she is! No doubt she will be hurting Dev by not wearing the saree he gifted her!! But I'm not shocked with her behavior bcoz she's always been like this... Loved Supriya ji! She was brilliant... Uff n that background score really adds up to the emotion... Another wonderful episode!!


Thank You 😳

Hahaha I am so glad to see a different POV here buddy. You even justified Ishwariji not wearing Saree😛. Get ready for fireworks in forum if that happens 😆

On a serious note as I mentioned in main post, Ishwari's expectations are correct and she ought to be heartbroken . No one can be held responsible for thiis but the situations😳

Its her precap reaction am intrigued about because that would be so immature on her part because Dev didn't do it intentionally and I don't want to see a normal jealous mother here. I am still counting on CVs for the reason they have for us. So will wait till ep airs😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rukiaa

Amazing post👏

Yeah as we grow up our priorities too changes...and change is what is a hard thing to accept sometime. Thats too a case in ishwari case.. All that pride that she has ...has been shattered today...how proudly she told her daughters...but when that place that she thinks is her was taken by some else...but you know how long can she be the center of attraction in dev world...One day it has to divided...but ishwari has to realize it and she will one day...its a long journey na...😊


Thank you😊

Indeed its a long journey and any changes can't be accepted overnight for any kind of person be it mature or immature😳 Yes Ishwari will definitely realize but all in its own course of time.

My heart goes more for Sona here. Poor girl have no idea whats going to hit her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

Nice analysis.

For now I am very very upset. Ishwari what she did If she did it purposely, she doesn't even qualify to be called a mother. Which mother would think of taking revenge from her own child. A child which we all call her most loved one, first child, who stood by her in all the bad times. she does this to him. Not acceptable.

Lets see what reason she gives in for not wearing the saree. she surely had no problem wearing it all these previous years. So why now.


Thank you😊

I can understand your turmoil. For now regarding precap reaction am holding on my comments till the episode airs because if she did it intentionally, thats going to be major flaw in the story because as you said she can't punish Dev for the sin he didn't commit. I am trusting CVs lets wait and watch .

And this is the first major shock she is receiving from Dev so obviously it takes time for Ishwari to fathom things happening around her, because the heart just wants what it wants and doesnt matter how mature or how old they are😳

Don't be upset and enjoy 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepsel


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<font size="2" color="#ff6600">On a serious note as I mentioned in main post, Ishwari's expectations are correct and she ought to be heartbroken . No one can be held responsible for thiis but the situations😳</font>
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<font size="2" color="#ff6600">Its her precap reaction am intrigued about because that would be so immature on her part because Dev didn't do it intentionally and I don't want to see a normal jealous mother here. I am still counting on CVs for the reason they have for us. So will wait till ep airs😃</font>
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Ha ha... Ishwari is a puzzle! You'll dislike her one moment & you'll love her in the next. I've kinda learnt to accept her the way she is..or maybe I might change my opinion abt her as the story moves forward. Hope I don't get pelted for this...Yes she was not completely wrong in behaving like that..but like you said you need a good reason other than the pure jealousy aspect.. I won't buy that too.. Hope the writers will keep up to our expectations.. She's a smart lady. She was clouded by Nehas marriage and she was too worried to notice anything else. Now that Nehas wedding is sorted she'll be sharp & she won't fail to notice things brewing between Sona & Dev. She won't question him because she feels that he can never hide anything from her. Sona will have to bear the brunt fully. More things will definitely happen so that we can debate more about her 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good write-up 👏!!

Even before I agree to the changing priorities, I would like to call upon the 'change' in itself is THE thing with kids 🤔.. The way they adapt to changes, the adults can never match that pace... When the son was born the mother was born as well🤗.. How much changes she must have gone through in that new phase... And the moment she got habituated to those changes, that's it.. She's stuck and stayed there.. That too very comfortably with no one to disturb her position.. There was no husband, no daughters who intruded that space she created for herself around her son..

Yes, you are right.. the son is no less😉.. He too was very much in that zone with no other thoughts.. If anything that takes his attention then it's his work and family.. It was a perfect setup just designed the way they wanted it.. It didn't happen by choice but with all focused efforts to get there.. In that process they might have lost many things but they look at what they gained and never want to lose that at any cost.. For Ishwari it's the bond and adoration that she received from her adorable son..

And to see all this changing shaking her foundation and beliefs and faith.. Ishwari was excellent in showing it all in her expression 👏👏⭐️.. I can never accuse her of anything.. I can only feel for her.. And my heart goes deep for her and hoping for her to accept the changes slowly before too much damage is done to any of the relationships... I am sure she will only shine more in the eyes of her son in the process of going through the journey gracefully...👍🏼

Can't agree more with you about Radharani.. She sure knows the realities of life.. Her way of seeing and interpreting situations are different but it's the fact that she calls out then and there.. Bad that she's right and she gets into the groove of it.. If Neha thing too turns out to be like what she says then Ishwari is too goner... She can never ignore Radharani's self-claimed wisdom after that.. God save Sona.. 😆

I really really hope Sona is made to handle and manage many such situations inside the Ishwari mansion on her own not needing to have Dev pitch in every time to her rescue... Don't want the makers to make it heroic saga saving the damsel in distress..😆

In all this the Bose family is refreshing change.. They bring soothing moments to any episode...🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ha ha... Ishwari is a puzzle! You'll dislike her one moment & you'll love her in the next. I've kinda learnt to accept her the way she is..or maybe I might change my opinion abt her as the story moves forward. Hope I don't get pelted for this...Yes she was not completely wrong in behaving like that..but like you said you need a good reason other than the pure jealousy aspect.. I won't buy that too.. Hope the writers will keep up to our expectations.. She's a smart lady. She was clouded by Nehas marriage and she was too worried to notice anything else. Now that Nehas wedding is sorted she'll be sharp & she won't fail to notice things brewing between Sona & Dev. She won't question him because she feels that he can never hide anything from her. Sona will have to bear the brunt fully. More things will definitely happen so that we can debate more about her 😆
Exactly Ishwari is such a complex character we got tno options other than to love and hate her same time😆 Am wondering if not wearing a saree can pull such reactions in forum what will happen the day she comes to know about Devakshi and reacts?!🤔 God save us all 😆😆 but am so looking forward to those discussions. .. Its going to be ballistic!👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Good write-up 👏!!

Even before I agree to the changing priorities, I would like to call upon the 'change' in itself is THE thing with kids 🤔.. The way they adapt to changes, the adults can never match that pace... When the son was born the mother was born as well🤗.. How much changes she must have gone through in that new phase... And the moment she got habituated to those changes, that's it.. She's stuck and stayed there.. That too very comfortably with no one to disturb her position.. There was no husband, no daughters who intruded that space she created for herself around her son..

Yes, you are right.. the son is no less😉.. He too was very much in that zone with no other thoughts.. If anything that takes his attention then it's his work and family.. It was a perfect setup just designed the way they wanted it.. It didn't happen by choice but with all focused efforts to get there.. In that process they might have lost many things but they look at what they gained and never want to lose that at any cost.. For Ishwari it's the bond and adoration that she received from her adorable son..

And to see all this changing shaking her foundation and beliefs and faith.. Ishwari was excellent in showing it all in her expression 👏👏⭐️.. I can never accuse her of anything.. I can only feel for her.. And my heart goes deep for her and hoping for her to accept the changes slowly before too much damage is done to any of the relationships... I am sure she will only shine more in the eyes of her son in the process of going through the journey gracefully...👍🏼

Can't agree more with you about Radharani.. She sure knows the realities of life.. Her way of seeing and interpreting situations are different but it's the fact that she calls out then and there.. Bad that she's right and she gets into the groove of it.. If Neha thing too turns out to be like what she says then Ishwari is too goner... She can never ignore Radharani's self-claimed wisdom after that.. God save Sona..😆

I really really hope Sona is made to handle and manage many such situations inside the Ishwari mansion on her own not needing to have Dev pitch in every time to her rescue... Don't want the makers to make it heroic saga saving the damsel in distress..😆



Am really loving this topic of discussion..you've said exactly what's going thru in my head!!

.. I can only feel for her.. And my heart goes deep for her and hoping for her to accept the changes slowly before too much damage is done to any of the relationships. so so true.. I feel terribly sorry for her. She has such an amazing son & she herself is such a nice person. All they need to do is to bridge that communication gap... She'll be so assured that whatever happens she is always be the top most priority for Dev. What he feels for Sona is completely different...

Bad that she's right and she gets into the groove of it.. so true again about RR.. Yes she keeps spurting venom. But somehow her snide remarks are somewhat relevant..but can't understand why she has to always insult Sona. It jus gives her some kind of personal gratification... She's a very hollow person.. She sees everything in a negative attitude.

Don't want the makers to make it heroic saga saving the damsel in distress.. 👏 as much as we want to see Sona & Dev together, they shouldn't spoil the very essence of this show!! So aptly you've put this across... Loved loved reading your post!! 👏 👏
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