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Posted: 9 years ago
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its natural mother getting jealous because of her insecurities of her position in her son's life after her son get married...But yaha toh ek mom is not even ready to have somebody special in her son's life...shaaadi to door ki baat hain...Ishwari ji plz don't forget u have three daughters...


What if Neha's mother in law turns out to be same as her...but no...though they have poor financially , they r wealthy coz they have pure heart...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It's not anybody's mistake but every one is gonna get hurt...feelings aise hi hote hei... ajeeb si... 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ash_devnarshi

It's not anybody's mistake but every one is gonna get hurt...feelings aise hi hote hei... ajeeb si... 😊


ishwari ji ne toh apni life ji liye hai...agree that she did face many difficultes while bringing up her children alone ...HATTS OFF to her...She did very good job as well... But as I know that whatever is on their so called fate , everybody has to face it...nobody can change it

What about Dev??????

Was it his mistake to love his mother so much???????

Was it his mistake to give her a place of GOD in his life???????????

Doesn't he deserve a happiness????

She is so happy for Neha????

Isn't Ranveer somebody's son?????????



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Posted: 9 years ago
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i think we need to think from Ishwari's side too..
every year she waits for this moments that he takes time off for her mom and takes her to shopping.. that time is only between two of them... she knows that how busy Dev is but he gives her special time during her birthday and she enjoys that.. This year Dev changed this habit .. did something different... now from her POV, how will she accept that... she didnt even get that time with her son.. someone else took .. how will she likes that.. my POV she is also right.. 😊
she has 3 daughters but bond that CV has shown between Ishwari and Dev is very strong than other 3 daughters and Ishwari... Dev understands Ishwari seeing her face and same for ishwari.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnuPurva

i think we need to think from Ishwari's side too..
every year she waits for this moments that he takes time off for her mom and takes her to shopping.. that time is only between two of them... she knows that how busy Dev is but he gives her special time during her birthday and she enjoys that.. This year Dev changed this habit .. did something different... now from her POV, how will she accept that... she didnt even get that time with her son.. someone else took .. how will she likes that.. my POV she is also right.. 😊
she has 3 daughters but bond that CV has shown between Ishwari and Dev is very strong than other 3 daughters and Ishwari... Dev understands Ishwari seeing her face and same for ishwari.


I really don't get it seriously...Its so unhealthy mother -son relationship...( i myself being mother of a son)

Being so disappointed to her 27 yr old baby boy coz he remembers her bd n tries to do something special...

What so special about her so called bd as dev always makes her everyday special by treating her as a Goddess????

She is not a toddler or child who cries for not getting what he or she wants or wants attention from parents...

There is a saying that elder u get , u act like a child..

So , what I see Ishwari ji as spoiled child
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari's reaction in real world a Son can never get married in peace, but such mother's actually exist. I know one personally.
She is extremely insecure and biased towards Dev. Yes her reaction is ridiculous but keeping her background in mind its legitimate. I cannot relate with her but I can understand her situation.

Dev does not know about his mom's insecurity, may be if he knew he would have dealt it with time. Since he does not know but Neha does, its not helping.

She does not like any change with regards to Dev, daughters she is LEAST bothered. In the show its very evident. She cannot handle any change, she just wants that bond the way it is till she lives.

The challenge is on Dev how to handle this tight spot.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mygaby


I really don't get it seriously...Its so unhealthy mother -son relationship...( i myself being mother of a son)

Being so disappointed to her 27 yr old baby boy coz he remembers her bd n tries to do something special...

What so special about her so called bd as dev always makes her everyday special by treating her as a Goddess????

She is not a toddler or child who cries for not getting what he or she wants or wants attention from parents...

There is a saying that elder u get , u act like a child..

So , what I see Ishwari ji as spoiled child


We need to understand Ishwari's character since beginning.. she has given her life for raising her kids as single parent.. Dev understands his mom's efforts.. She not only raised him but gave him good culture and made him successful.. Dev is successful because at very young age he understood his mom's efforts.. he worked hard to see her happy.. she always supported her.. its very difficult to describe.. but i have seen such bond so its not difficult for me to accept this fact..

Ishwari's character is not negative here.. she will need some time to accept any changes in her son's life... and it will take sometime for viewers to digest it.. its complex.. but it exists and believe me I have seen someone in my personal life..😉.😊




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Ishwari's reaction in real world a Son can never get married in peace, but such mother's actually exist. I know one personally.

She is extremely insecure and biased towards Dev. Yes her reaction is ridiculous but keeping her background in mind its legitimate. I cannot relate with her but I can understand her situation.

Dev does not know about his mom's insecurity, may be if he knew he would have dealt it with time. Since he does not know but Neha does, its not helping.

She does not like any change with regards to Dev, daughters she is LEAST bothered. In the show its very evident. She cannot handle any change, she just wants that bond the way it is till she lives.

The challenge is on Dev how to handle this tight spot.


yes.. agree with you .. such mothers do exists.. But i dont blame her too.. their situations made that bond so strong... I have seen too someone in my personal life ...😉
To handle such Mother and mother in law son and daughter in law needs to be more matured..😊

For Ishwari to accept any changes in Dev's life, she will need time... her character is not negative.. she just needs some time..😊
Edited by AnuPurva - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari's obsession with maintaining the supreme position of importance in her son's life is unhealthy n toxic, n weird.
You're so right. She's three daughters, so what if one of her daughters get a life partner where the mother-in-law is not ready to accept presence of any other person in her son's life ?? Would Ishwari like that ??
Don't put some one's daughter through some thing that you can't bear to see happening with your own daughter !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnuPurva


yes.. agree with you .. such mothers are exist.. But i dont blame her too.. their situations made that bond so strong... I have seen too someone in my personal life ...😉
To handle such Mother and mother in law son and daughter in law needs to be more matured..😊

For Ishwari to accept any changes in Dev's life, she will need time... her character is not negative.. she just needs some time..😊


pink bold :
bang on, which is why nothing alarming in how she reacted
which is why the actress portraying her role agreed to do the show in the first place

from the viewers point of view it will take sometime to digest her reactions - we are going to see more posts in the future

purple underlined : I dont know how far can Sonakshi handle it, she has been portrayed thanda after confession - that fiestyness has gone

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