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... compare her and dev's situation with neha ranveer? i mean how can she say that she herself being middle class is same as ranveer being middle class ?
does she expects dev to be a ghar jamai? i don't think so.
she is forgetting that after her own marriage with dev, she is going to live with dev in dev's house. she is going to shift from middle class to upper class. whereas, neha's situation is going to be opposite. neha will have to adjust in a small house with lots of people.
see. don't misunderstand me. i have nothing against being middle class or upper class or lower class for that matter ( i am reffereing the classes financiallly. not otherwise. )
but i personally feel that it is easier to adjust when u shift to an upper financial class from lower financial class than the other way round.
sona needs to understand this. dev's concerns are not at all wrong. because he knows neha. he perfectly knows neha's expectations from life. i don't find him wrong. in fact i seriously wonder how ishwari can be so delusional and bookish/filmy!
and now about neha.
her expectations are not wrong. but then what she herself is doing to meet those expectations and demands? what she is doing is expecting her would be to fall in line or her bro to fix her life.
if she is so sure about her wants and needs, she should offer ranveer to work together to get what she wants. she should make her expectations clear to him and offer her own help and efforts. and if ranveer rejects this offer, then she should justifyably leave him!
Anupamaa
