My POV - why Aaru is supporting PVR - Page 2

Originally posted by: ~*sindhu*~

I can still accept child swapping going unnoticed.Nobody complained so no case was filed.PVR as usual thought he is above the law so he will punish Kumudini.What is hillarious is in this case he admited his intention infront of the judge and the judge let him go😆

And I also don't find any justification in Aradhya's behaviour.Aryan grew up in that family , his thought process is heavily influenced by them.Loved Aaba more than his life and was even ready to die for him.Thats what he has done ever since his existence began.What attachment does Aradhya have with this man.Till yesterday she knew he is evil.Just because now he is her grandfather lets turn a blind eye to things he does.As being her grandfather just makes everything better.He threatened to kill Tulsi,almost killed Aryan but she is still keeping quiet and worrying about his health.Its like for her he is a victim in all of this while he still uses her marriage to win against Aryan. Somebody cut off her tongue or broke her backbone? I gotto say this though being a Rao automatically makes u spineless in this story.

Originally posted by: Tharunisa

Whenever kumu did wrong aru always gave her piece of mind to her, especially during gayatri n David s wedding...

Aara communicated with each other during that time, pvr had proof to throw kumu out during that time, but it was aru s pleading to aryan that he switched the pen drive s n they were working together ... Kumu didn't have any remorse during that time...

Pvr did many unforgettable things to aru even though aryan knew that pvr s behind he didn't stand against him much of the time s n he knows much better than anyone about pvr s manipulation n he expects aru to stand against pvr wen he did a worst job...

If after staying with tulsi for four days n can be so attached to tulsi that he has turned into a mad man den he should think for a minute Wat will be aru s feelings who considered tulsi as her mother for 21 years... Wen aru first insulted tulsi he should have stopped n think y she was doing this but he felt she changed albeit it was aru s fault of not giving an explanation wen needed the most n now it's too late...

After all the evidence suggests that pvr s not his mother's killer he s still adamant that pvr s the one... Atleast he should think damini always says the truth since she was against pvr right from the beginning...

Think aryan feel s aru betrayed him the most that he tricked her to sign the divorce papers...

The problem with aara is communication, wish they work together as they did after knowing the truth about gayatri s marriage...

Originally posted by: manny136

Even when aaru didnt like pvr she never disrespected him, she went to work in the house as a maid, did whatever he asked even believed when he took her to the auction. She even tried to make him reason when chimaji denied being tulsis hubby. Pvr was always rude to her but she never said anything back knowing he is aryans grandpa. Even after the wedding drama she never behaved badly with any of the raos only aryan she fought with. She was even worried when pvr was faking his heart problem trying to trap her. Now she knows he is her grandpa how can u expect her to figth with him, there is the blood bond and no matter what aaru does she cant deny it. Aryan himself turned a blind eye to things pvr did when he was a rao how can he expect aaru to do the same instead he goes on to insult her and her character coz she didnt do what he wanted which very much in tow with rao behaviour. Aryan wants it his way not any other. Aaru was treated horribly by her nio family but she never said anything even then but now when she knows everything and by technicality pvr is innocent she cant lie about it. It would be an insult to her upbringing by tulsi. They both need time apart and figure out their lives as for pvr his punishment should be slow and painful and it has begun, losing evrything that matters to him and he cant even leave krishnavati lol slowly he will get punished but i just hope aaru and gayu dont have to bare it as well its not their fault . Kumu should also be punished she lost tulsi yet she still doesnt get it.

Originally posted by: CharmGal

Bold on your question what attachment does Aradhya have with this man?

That now is really the question all the sensible viewers may ask and even I asked that myself so many times... the only answer I conclude with is nature vs nuture theme which the makers are still playing around with ..both AaRa were confused when they found out about their identities they didn't know which relation is the truth or a lie..they didn't know what that meant for them..

Before the truth..Aaru was on her nurtured family side and even share the same ideologies and aryan with his BUT when the truth was out, it's was confusing to see which sides are FL and ML are on,

ML who always supported the Raos and have suddenly developed strong feeling for tulsi and FL who always on tulsi and Kumu's side and remain civil with the Raos is now finding herslef torn between her nuture and nature family...
Now aryan had always had been emotional and wear his heart on his sleeves thus the audience can understand his actions and reactions better and he had inherited that from tulsi and this thirst for revenge and impulsive actions to give aaru a divorce that too by conning her was from his upbringing from PvRz. Taht something PvR would have done.
As for Aaru's dedication to bring the real murderers of tulsi to justice is very much something tulsi would do. Tulsi was a woman who support the truth and had a big heart - Aaru share Tulsi's values and morals for instance Pav was horrible to tulsi yet tulsi was thankful to her for raising aryan with such a care and Aaru forgave Pav despite her harsh treatment. Aaru supporting PvR since she knew he didn't commit the crime even though he too was horrid to her was due to her upbringing from tulsi to support truth and not to develop hatred for anyone in her heart which tulsi once explained to aryan and aryan never understood that. Aaru did! Perhaps PvR being her grandfather in blood may also play into the part of why Aaru was concerned for his health. Thus nature and nuture had played into Aaru's actions and emotions.

Now you can see both AaRa consisted both traits one from nuture and another from nature

Thanks for your post, I had a good time analysing and replying this is what make IF interesting 😊

Originally posted by: ~*sindhu*~

The nurture versus nature story has gone out of the window.The writers themselves have no idea what means more.They jumbled up everything in their quest to find trps. Or maybe it was intentional but they couldn't convey it through their writing.

Aradhya was always vocal about things in the past.Yes she unnecessarily didn't keep hatred in her heart but she didn't keep quiet either when someone did wrong.She stood up against Aryan when he was horrible to her mother and Aaji.She stood up against Chimmaji when he lied about her mother also hated him for valid reasons.She dragged Aryan to jail for breaking her heart didn't reay care that Shaswat tagged along for no reason. She refused to give divorce when PVR backmailed Aryan to do so. Infact if u see Tulsi may have never complained when someone hurt her but she furiously fought when somebody tried to harm Aradhya.So yeah they are the same which is why its disheartning to see Aradhya now.PVR hurt someone who meant the world to her and she has no complaints.She is okay with it.

Sinhu,

I can't tell you how angry and upset I was when the makers have butchered Aaru and Tulsi's bond and then not offering a proper closure. The thought of it coming to my head truly make my blood boil! It's a beautiful bond and after the truth had been revealed the original KD had ended after that it was all about TRPs! Let face it Aaru unable to stand up against PvR for tulsi was out of character for Aaru. This isn't the Aaru we knew and as you have mentioned she had alwys been brave so this part was randomly created by the Cvs and unnecessary. I have made peace through having it in my mind that Aaru had made her peace with tulsi thus this is why I am able to still watch it. The old aaru is gone now and the makers have made her into a mahaan a typical FL that you would find in any indian serials. But still I try to analyse and understand the characters and their actions so I can connect with the current track and making it watchable for myself otherwise is pointless. What done is done and we as viewers need to decide whether it is still watchable and that can only happen if we can understand and connect with the characters. Really the makers shouldnt have kill tulsi off but they did it for the purpose of continue this revenge track which would have ended if Aaru had clear the air with her mother tulsi and aryan that why the makers haven't allow that to happen and that why we were given a proper scene between a mother and daughter.

Originally posted by: atria

Good post, but I still don't see Aradhya's POV. It seems the makers are pushing the fact that blood is thicker than water, so the two leads have switched allegiance in this dramatic manner. 😆

But if you think about it, Aryan's switch-over was done fairly logically. His bond with Shashwat was always weak, his bond with Pavitra was hysterical and such bonds typically weaken with the introduction of the love interest. When Aradhya came into his life Pavitra's influence started waning (much like Mama's boys become Joru ka ghulam). Aaba had the strongest hold on him as a father figure, and already he was beginning to clash with Aaba. Even then, on that fateful day, he was still so strongly influenced by Aaba, that one
phone call and he literally fell at Aaba's feet. Who then pulled a gun
at him and his mother died. Is it a wonder that he now wants nothing to
do with the man? And Aradhya is supporting this man. Given how emotional
he is, of course he hates her too.

On the other hand, his bond with Tulsi had been strengthening with various incidents (her calling him for coffee, him giving blood, defending her in front of Pavitra as Tulsi aunty) since he started working at their house. So when the baby swap came out there was a natural upsurge in their relation. Which was then cut short. Of course he was mad with grief. He never had a bond with Kumu till the day of the shooting and then they are now united in grief, so to speak. I think they will still show him being not too comfortable around Kumu.

I think he is still confused about how to treat Pavitra, Shashwat etc, but his greatest hatred is reserved for the two who had his greatest love, and let him down in the worst possible way. And yes, given how impulsive he is, I have no doubt that he will commit all sorts of terrible excesses, but his POV is at least understandable.

Compared to that Aradhya's switch-over is bizarre. She never had any bond with any one in the Rao family (except Shashwat, who is a cipher), but despite Pavitra treating her abysmally always had feelings for her. Which points to CVs pushing the whole blood being thicker than water bullcrap, but makes no sense. In Aryan-Tulsi's relationship there was no such odd feelings on Aryan's part, he started off with hatred, pure and simple, then was forced to change his mind, slowly over time, as he interacted with her. Tulsi started indifferent, then came to depend on him (mainly to protect Aradhya), and started caring for him. But Aru-Pavitra had no such relationship growth. Aru always has unexplainable feelings for Pavitra. And one day Pavitra wants her to disappear from the face of earth, then when she learns the truth she loves her to distraction. Ugh. Aaba and Aru never had any bond. She might have tried to respect him, but I don't know, seeing a man attempting to kill his adopted grandson (who also happens to be my husband) in cold blood would kill all chances of respect for me, even if he didn't actually do the deed.

In her adoptive family, her bond with Kumu would obviously be spoiled by the revelation, but her beautiful, natural bond with Tulsi was destroyed by a bunch of stupid misunderstandings that cannot be rectified now. And we don't even get to see her mourning Tulsi much now, her time is taken up with defending her ''family''-- the would-be murderer of her husband, a spineless father, an evil mother who only cares marginally about her blood relations and can stand by and see other children be destroyed without a pang. Standing for the truth is one thing, standing with such a family, even in their hour of hardship, is a shame.

This is the CVs fault of course, Aaba was the most important figure for Aryan and Tulsi for Aru, We have seen Aryan fall at Aaba's feet and be spurned but didn't get a last conversation between Tulsi and Aru. So it is more difficult to sympathize with Aru now. But then you could say everything is the CVs fault, e.g. during the marriage track they could have made Aryan behave differently as well, I remember people hated him then. So given the storyline that is being shown, Aru is just not a sympathetic character at present, as long as she supports PVR.