Ria ka Adda: The Lost Happiness! - Page 3

Guys, I just saw yesterday's epi once again......

@ manna ...yes i saw that expression too ...i infact wrote that yesterday in my updates too ...I think DK back to playing games ..he deliberately send AP there ...coz he knew how HP will react ..if he wanted he could have taken a better way ...like call savita and both of them go and speak to HP ...but he deliberately send AP to drive a wedge in his heart ...AP yesterday told HP ..don't say anything about my dad ...and I think this can widen the rift ..if HP keeps ranting about DK ..and AP retaliates back .... in any further confrontation they have....

Hello All! Beautiful posts....Adda is slow but I hope it gains pace over the day! I just woke up and began reading and went through a range of emotions! Loving the posts! Posting my thoughts in the first couple of them...

@Anu: Wowww....The Bua Magic thing just swept me off the ground...I could also see that she was understanding Arjun better than HO but never did the past reference came to my mind...For once it would be surprising to see PB rememeber the dialogues of the past and connect the story to them! It was nice to read those pink lines...and yes you are so right it was one of Karan's finest performances....I could feel your pain along with Arjun's in the post today...and it made it all the more heart wrenching...beautiful post!

@Anjana: I agree to almost every word there in your post! Its just that even HPs snaping of the finger is in the heat of the moment...he hates AP to the core and is just making it a point that hi humilliates him as much as he could...So he is going to stoop as low as is possible for him...Dks behaviour is cringing me as well...I just dont know why but the way he is all positive about Arjun and Arohi makes me a little uncomfortable! I just hope its a mere thought!

@Sanju: Brilliant Post yet again...Had you been there between the three of them (Arjun, Arohi, HP) MAYBE HP would have been a different person! I still do feel Arohi did the right thing by staying quite at that point...she will fight and I have no doubts on that...its only that if she tried at that time she would have messed it even more...HP was definetly in no mood of listening...Dont we stay quite when our parents are angry to start with...we try to find a time when they are calm and than begin doing the reasoning...so I have full faith that she will try once HP cools off a little...and I strongly believe that this will need an outside help...The irony is that HP thinks low of Arjun because of Arohi to some extent...among the many negative points that arjun has earned in his eyes one of them was when Arohi told him arjun humiliated her in front of KSs driver...But at that time HP trusted Arohi and thus believed in her...now if Arohi tries to wipe off the allegation she just cannot cuz he DOES NOT believe in her anymore...So its complicated...How will KS cash this all remains to be seen...that is yet again going to be a turning point in the show! Your post is always so composed Sanju as if you control the words...I am at aw of the way you write!

@Natz: Hey I listened to Dooriyan too...and I agree to your thoughts about teh low TRPs...I guess this just shows the immaturity of the majority of the viewers...People dont want to cry after a tiring day...and Pain and Agony is a forte of KMH...even if there are light hearted moments in the show the pain is lingering around...and we are anticipating it! It does leave us sad most of the times...The general audience is better off watching lavish weddings, dhinchak clothings and out-of-this-world characters...apart from KS ki jackets nothing in KMH fits the bill! Beautiful qoutes and lines there in your post!

Originally posted by: tibs09

@ manna ...yes i saw that expression too ...i infact wrote that yesterday in my updates too ...I think DK back to playing games ..he deliberately send AP there ...coz he knew how HP will react ..if he wanted he could have taken a better way ...like call savita and both of them go and speak to HP ...but he deliberately send AP to drive a wedge in his heart ...AP yesterday told HP ..don't say anything about my dad ...and I think this can widen the rift ..if HP keeps ranting about DK ..and AP retaliates back .... in any further confrontation they have....

I agree with you Aditi and Manna...By the way hello 😃 Yes I did see the DK-ness there..he is not as good as he is proving himself to be and I still cannot get over his words when he told Paddy "jaan gaya hoon apne bete ko wapas kaise laa sakta hoon"....If this is his plan than it surely is sketched by a genious...In the end he gets the Best Father Award and a dejected Arjun....but than it does not mean his plan will be a success....destiny has other plans!

Hi Buddies: Hmm so the verdict is Kills HP n blast Aro!

hmmm... me thought them wer all right from their perspectives... and as Minnie puts

it its very IMP to be "bua" n give an unbiased verdict, which is tough i guess when

someone is so convincing as AP!

let us get back 2 post-gandharva vivah drama, HP comes, sees, n is just shocked...

shocked 2 c Aro doing what he never imagined in life...got quite upset with her

behaviour.. he is looking for some justification..some answer n there..he sees the

root cause behind all this..Mr. Arjun Punj...for him, he is a big time manipulator a

womanizer.. casanova..who doesnt mind making pass over women of 50s !!! for him he

is a very cheap character.. so wat does any sane man do.. pull away his daughter who

is chipkaoing to a cheap man.. n takes her away....thus he made clear his intentions

there..that he doesnt want him bothering him n her daughter again...but no what does

AP do.. tries to persuade him..with his charming humble "act"..like he did to lure

those women..HP cudnt tolerate.. something deep inside him had hurt.. n he thinks

its AP who "deliberately" inflicted the wound...infuriated with his persistent

nagging... he gives him what he deserves... and i wont blame HP for that wat he did

was quite natural.. AP had asked for it n he got it!..

k, now...its interesting 2 c Aro's stance here... the moment she tries 2 speak up..

one glance 4rm AP tells her.. she has lost it.. she has lost his Dad's trust.... i

dont think so HP must have given her ever such a look in her life.. its a blow for

her.. but yet for her luv she pleads.. pleads 2 her baba to just listen once.. n

gets the second biggest blow.. his luv insulted by her own baba.. ahh.. that slap

signified how much hatred HP had for AP.. n she is helpless at that point.. but she

just cant let him go on believing wat is not true..and so yesterday..she defends her

Arjun... many of us ask y is she so defensive.. coz there is a guilt.. even if she

was right, she did something wrong there, which her baba wud have never

approved..yet she tries 2 persuade.. but as her character goes, she wud never speak

up against her baba.. n its against her sanskar n it was out of respect 4 her

father.. like AP had for DK.. he cudnt blame him.. he was helpless.. likewise.. its

more in her character to tackle it silently than fight her own loving father.. she

was the one who told her sis to behave with their father, elders..and now how can

she do the same...sometimes even when parents r wrong, wen they r in rage..its out

of respect that we keep mum.. to blurt out blatantly wud hurt their pride.. children

who don't respect their parents pride have no right 2 call themselves their

children...and i think Aro did wat her character was required 2 do.. she is

helpless.. she cant speak against her baba nor can she stand wat Arjun is going

through... this helplessness prompts her to step back.. n seek solace in her Mom..

the way she always does whenever she is such a situation... she will talk 2 her mom,

ask for answers.. n decide.. thats the way Aro tackles it.. and i have no probs with

it..

hmm.. AP.. did wat he needed 2 do... tried 2 b as humble as possible n yet 2 b as

convincing as KS abt his love.. but Alas.. KS had acted sensibly n maturely.. n u

had simply made a buffoon of urself.. hmm but in the end the true love will always

win... now u wont need to "try" 2 win HP's heart..or to "show" ur true affections..

things will reveal itself if only u just follow wat HP wants.. as i had said

yesterday parents need time n space 2 change.. its hard 4 them and especially if its

usoolowala HP.. so give him some time n dont do something more stupid..

coming back to HP, he is very much convinced that AP is just not the right person for her daughter.. remember he was a principal n is very strict in his principles...after wat he had experienced n faced yesterday, any sort of persuasions today wudnt budge him a bit.. naturally, he is quite adamant abt his stance today... looking out for every reason 2 support his beliefs and thats y he tries to give many silly reasons.. he is rude, harsh, n almost illogical.. now who is in one's senses when one is offended so much... when i compare HP with AP's torture phase, i find him quite reasonable...HP had talked to Savita earlier n nows her story that she wasnt at fault..it was DK who acted evil n had continued to do so..and AP had very much walked on DK's footsteps and he had every right n reason to believe it wasnt otherwise... so i wudnt blame HP for his misconceptions.. its just not the right time 4 him.. he is in extreme anger, his pride has hurt, his convictions r questioned, his trust is broken, he is facing an ugly truth and he is a human afterall n humans can falter at times.. didnt AP, DK or AS falter? agar Arjun ko abhi itna galat nahi samjhenge to usko utna sahi kabhi nahi samajh payenge...and so i wud give HP some time like i gave 2 DK to cool down, think, understand, repent, n come back..

@Minnie: Hmm profound post!! Luved it!

"HP I felt, somehow still doubts his teachings he's given his daughter and wants to hold the bicycle even though she's ready to take on the world by herself. May be its overprotective parenting but for this one part HP needs to learn a lesson to let go from DK. She will fall but she wont ever learn if she does not make mistakes on her own, dad! "

--I dont think so its overprotective parenting.. he has given her enough freedom earlier.. its just that he thinks she took a wrong step.. n its not some simple problem from a question paper that she can answer in her own way..its matter of her life..n he strongly believes in the fact that if children falter with important decisions in their lives its parent's duty to prevent them.. its his typical orthodox belief which is coming in his way.. DK on the other hand had given always AP freedom 2 live his life like DK had wanted.. independent n luxurious..where luv mattered but not companionship.. i think DK n HP r two totally different parents.. n cant compare there parenting.. but its interesting that v do find typical HP's in middle class families n DKs in upper class broken families..the word "broken" signifies Arjun's rooting lonliness.. n its that wat HP fears, one who believes in relationships, commitments, and a strong family bond..

Luv,

Manisha

@Minnie: Today I saw the two Minnies I know in one post! The serious one and the comic one....😃 I think Arohi still stands by Arjun...but I explained this to Sanju in the previous post that at that point I guess that was a better decision to back off...she will fight for her love...I have no worries on that front! But yes since they are not going to be able to meet anymore...building an MU is a piece of cake for PB now...That is what worries me....Ambivilant it was but than as you said it was worth watching! Brilliant post Minnie!

@An: I am smiling An...😊 and it broadened as I read through your post...Something like this coming from you is indeed a BIG compliment for him...He is lucky to get this one from one of the bestest and most composed cynics I have ever interacted with in my life! The lines were beautiful! and I am waiting for that Soliloquy😉

@Karishma: Even though I had no intentions of killing HP but after reading your fun post I am all in 🤣 🤣 🤣

@Manisha: A bundle of hugs from my side...for saying it just the way I perceived it! Beautiful one from you....I agree to bits! 🤗

I think Arohi madam has forgotten the flat in which they are staying has been gifted by Arjun in a way.

If HP disapproves their relationship then it is high time they leave that place too... since he does
not want any favors from him....😊

Originally posted by: ria_h85

@Manisha: A bundle of hugs from my side...for saying it just the way I perceived it! Beautiful one from you....I agree to bits! 🤗<br>

Aww Ria 😛 thnx so much.. 😳 ... it was such a nice epi.. n its such a joy 2 read thru adda pages today.... i luv wen the epi is so gud n then u put it all so well! i just luv ur unique style! lot of 🤗 to u too..😛

Luv, 😛

Manisha

Originally posted by: paroma roy

I think Arohi madam has forgotten the flat in which they are staying has been gifted by Arjun in a way.<br><br>If HP disapproves their relationship then it is high time they leave that place too... since he does <br>not want any favors from him....😊<br>

Hi Welcome Buddy! 😆 hmm nice point here... AP has done enough n has ample chances to get into HP's good books if only PB alows... 😆 .. lets c..