Ria ka Adda: The Lost Happiness! - Page 16

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Posted: 16 years ago
@tailchopper- welcome to rka.😊
@stuti-come join us. it will b great to read ur comments.😊
i also logged in to welcome our new members.😃
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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: arshiyaa

@tailchopper- welcome to rka.😊

@stuti-come join us. it will b great to read ur comments.😊


i also logged in to welcome our new members.😃



thnks arshiyaa!! 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago

Thinking or Acting?

Some people are thinkers and while others are actors. I "overthink" - so for the last few months have stopped "thinking" and more or less stopped "acting" or "reacting"... But, this morning it occurred to me that for me to "act" or "react" I need to think? So, "think" I must and then take the plunge and have a "heart to heart" with my dakkudaddy - who i have totally been dodging😳
Now HP & Arohi & Arjun
As rude as his actions were, I get where HP is coming from. Here is what he sees:
1. An arrogant man who grew up hating women because of his rude and arrogant father. A man who HURT and HUMILIATED his daughter and him. (Arjun's admission that he misunderstood and hurt Arohi bad cuts both ways - its a negative as well as a positive).
2. He knows from Arohi how difficult a boss Arjun was because she surely gripped about him;
3. A man who is not bonded to his mother. And there is a saying - if you want to know how a man will treat u then observe how he treats his mother.
4. A man who was now admittedly "seeing" his daughter behind his back - and he blames Arjun for this because he surely did not "raise" Arohi to keep things from him.
5. A man who still disrespects women - given what Arjun supposedly said about Arohi to a driver a few weeks ago. If nothing else someone his daughter had to "bail" out of jail.
6. A man who seemingly chases "aunties"
7. A man who runs around in a state of undress in a public park.
8. A man who corrupts children with bad words...
9. A man who is irresponsible enough to runaway from home because of girl (though that girl is his daughter)... running away does not exactly spell family.
The following bits of info has probably shaken him.
1. Arohi was hiding the "truth" from him and running around with "Arjun Punj"
2. She not only kept stuff from him, but it seems everybody else knew before he did - including Savita and DK. As Tulli noted - the fact DK knows and Arjun now has DK's blessing must really be "salt" in his now open wound.
So, from his perspective I can see why he thinks his daughter is making a Horrendous Choice... but, saying no to a "child" is not a solution.... he needs to reason with his child not give edicts and she in turn needs to reason with him while maintainig her dignity...
Last, but not least I guess "snapping" his fingers is reflective of his disdain for Arjun and so it is in keeping with the Character who slaps gundas who try to hurt the ladies of his house. (He is one Chaantah expert 2 slaps for the gundas who insulted his bahu and 1 for Arjun, he he.. he is running neck & neck on the slap count with Arohi)...
Chalo.. I have analyzed HP enough til the next epi
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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: AnjanaToronto

Now HP & Arohi & Arjun

1. An arrogant man who grew up hating women because of his rude and arrogant father. A man who HURT and HUMILIATED his daughter and him. (Arjun's admission that he misunderstood and hurt Arohi bad cuts both ways - its a negative as well as a positive).
2. He knows from Arohi how difficult a boss Arjun was because she surely gripped about him;
3. A man who is not bonded to his mother. And there is a saying - if you want to know how a man will treat u then observe how he treats his mother.
4. A man who was now admittedly "seeing" his daughter behind his back - and he blames Arjun for this because he surely did not "raise" Arohi to keep things from him.
5. A man who still disrespects women - given what Arjun supposedly said about Arohi to a driver a few weeks ago. If nothing else someone his daughter had to "bail" out of jail.
6. A man who seemingly chases "aunties"
7. A man who runs around in a state of undress in a public park.
8. A man who corrupts children with bad words...
9. A man who is irresponsible enough to runaway from home because of girl (though that girl is his daughter)... running away does not exactly spell family.



@AnjanaToronto

I'm glad you posted this I was thinking about that jail/bail scene too. You're absolutely right this is all new to HP (Arjun's change). Also as you've mentioned although we weren't shown those bits Arohi must have spoken a lot about Arjun to her father, when she worked for him.

I reckon the only people that can convince HP now are Savita and Salil. Arohi and Arjun have given it their best shot



Edited by Londonblud - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Yeah


@Natz
I don't agree. HP has been Arohi's ma and baba. So it is most mothers who would ask their daughters a question like this, but HP's always acted as the father and mother. I would assume that he's accepted the role so well during all these years that now he feels obligated to be asking a question like this. When did Arohi's mom die? Cuz I wouldn't be surprised if it was HP who helped Arohi deal with her menstrual cycle beginning. :p
It's an annoying question...butI think it very aptly showed HP's state of mind.



😆

ahem... 😆 😆 okayy...*trying to stay serious* 😆 only cos you're asking... 😳 in such cases there are 'female' relatives who help out... seriously, I have a couple of friends who lost their mothers at an early age and their fathers brought em up single-handedly but for this little thing, they had chachiz and mamiz and masiz etc., and in Aro's situation, she had badi ma and bua right... 😆

Imagine the character HP explaining the works of nature to Aro... I can't... 😕 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
@Anjana: COOl Post. I did not like that he snapped his fingers at the guy who was all polite and respectful. It did not suit a man of his stature. But, his points were quite valid.

Divorce is still a big taboo in Indian society. He bringing up the broken relationship of DK and Savitha's relationship was appropriate. And, he predicting the future of Arohi and Arjun relationship based on that in sync.

Parents living in smaller towns not only inquire about the son/girl but they also try to find out the whole history of the family. And, often, people do not like to marry their daughters in families where parents are separated thinking their daughters will end-up meeting the same fate.

Though, he going soft on KS and his past is something that needs to be corrected.

Stuti: Welcome to the adda. I am An. 😊

Anu:
Good Morning 🤗 How is your daughter's health? Hope she is all pink soon. 😊




Edited by an12345678 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
hey An!! 😊
Edited by stuti_4u - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
Welcome to the Adda Stuti....Its always great to see new additions to the family! Hope you have fun expressing your views here!

Anjana and An....loved the HP related posts!
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Posted: 16 years ago
*KUCH KHONA HAI KUCH PAANA HAI
JEEVAN KA KHEL PURANA HAI
JAB TAK YEH SAANS CHALEGHI
YAARA YEH TOH CHALTE JAANA HAI FOR ARJUHI
*Jo Paana Hia Woh Paana Hai, Jo Khona Hai Woh Khona Hai
Jo Hona Hai Woh Hona Hai, Phir Kis Baat Ka Rona Hai
Na Gujre Huye Pal Ki Baat Kar, Na Aanewaale Kal Ki Soch
Bhulaake Tu Saare Jahaan Ko, Is Pal Ki Soch
FOR HP
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Posted: 16 years ago
@Stuti : Welcome to adda🤗.

@Anjana :
Loved ur HP analysis.

@An : Ya she is doing ok right now, got her morning medicine dose, will need to monitor till evening to see kya haal chaal. Good evening to u 🤗 What a wonderful post. The guy truly deserved the credit , Loved it.

Anu

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