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BTW i saw the episode right now and i just want to laugh....

Originally posted by: sidrah fariq

HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII and a BIIIG BIIGGG 🤗 to everyone out there,

Hey 😉!

I am at peace today..I am content and am finali finalli smiling. I watched today's episode with no expectations and it worked. Vibs u were right..the no expectation theory it is!!.. I will come to the episode later, but in this post I want to convey what just hit me after some practical and reasoning over the past few hours.

I'm glad you're at peace Siddy!!! I've always said hope for the best 😳 but expect the least. That's my motto with Ekta's serials. As for your views.....I'd love too hear them 😊. After all you've come too this conclusion after hours of reasoning 😆 haina? So lets hear what you have to say!

One fing, while I am writing this post, I can feel tht. i m "detached"---from tht emotional attachment. I am detached and glad to be so. Guys in the midst of our uproar and the misery that had befallen on us we forgot that this is just a "show" at the end of the day. A "fictitious show". Is dis show bigger than life? is dis show worth all the mental torture we have been through? is it ? should we be finkn dat dis is da end just coz of a freaking show?. for a BT show🤢..?? replacements are a norm n dis industry...if not today, it had to happen tomorrow.

Its best to remain emotionally detached from such shows as you never know what will happen. Crying over these things is pointless! There is no way its bigger than life. So why torture ourselves by getting so deeply involved. I totally agree with what you have to say here. Oh and replacements certainly are anorm in this industry but in Balaji shows its worse as its an everyday thing nowadays.

There is more to this world and dis life den sulking and ruining the mental peace of our minds for a star/show. Guess what guys most of them would NOT even care where we are and what we are at the end of the day. They will know we are their fans, we appreciate them, dey will feel happi and dats about it. This is where this association ends. Not everyone is a rajeev, a harshad or even eijaz for tht matter when it comes to fans. The rest of them and the production houses are just a game in the gamble. We are the spectators, they feel dey can play with all the time.(i hate to say it bt we realli have become a victim of dis ridiculous gamble)

You're absoloutley right in saying that not all stars care of their fans and maintain their distance which only a few surpass.

Coming to this show, Yes I understand we have all been severeli smitten by the premeer bug...for the past 3 months, dey had taken a toll on our life. especiali for people liek me, nans, vibs, raksh, mels, triv, zainu di. no wonder we had been so bogged down to the extent of goin thru sleepless nites for the past couple of days...no people no! I am afraid we are not being practical enough. Bt for what? waitin for some confirmation? hopin out of the blue tht things will fall in plx?...fink about t again and slap ur foreheads,...why did u torture urself in the first plx. I am nt feeln sorri for us anymore..i am rather miffed(pyaar sey😆) at myself and u guys for bringin dis upon urselves.

Premeer totally had us for the last couple of months and now that there is a distance between the two and problems between the protagonists we should be patient and not get involved. Things will eventually fall into place. Till then....relax.

I dont know what happens to the show and frankly speakin I dont even care as suh. yes, i'd be happi if Additi comes bak as Heer but if not big deal. We will get a replacement and who knows she mite be even better. Right know we have closed our minds and are not lettin anyfing push thru. Give it a chance guys. It's not liek Additi is the best and the onli actress out there. We mite just be in for a surprise. The show stil has HARSHAD. It still has Prem and so will his Heer be there. Premeer will be there but we are not lettin dem stay. We are not moulding ourselves. Life is about change. Everyfing doesnot happen the way u want it to happen bt then u dont stop living.

The thing is Siddy.....we're so used to Aditi as Heer but I agree.....we'll all learn to adjust too the repalcement if there is one but lets just hope there isn't. People come and go....but life doesn't stop.

We made this forum so happening. suh a lovable place and we our ruining it onli now. Lets forget everyfing guys and start afresh. Detach urselves and watch this show for the sake of each other. Take t lightli...take it for wht it is meant for. Take it as a form of entertainment. Laff away the idiocity and enjoy the nice moments. I am all in for this show, for prem n for heer(whoever she be) and i am all in for u guys. We know each other, love each other and our friends. Nuffin can change dis. Lets be a part of the ball for each other atleast and forget wht dese non sensical stars ,n production houses...do..let dem fite their own battle for all we care..😆

Inshallah this forum will continue to rock and be the happening place it is. But for this to happen we must like you said detach ourselves and then watch this show. We'll always be a family no matter what!

btw dis has got to be a record...one of my longest posts ever..i hope it makes an impact and i see my dear friends bak 😊 thnks to misty for pushin it in my head.(i owe it all to u..i dont even noe wht wud hav come of me had it not been for yu yaar realli)

That was a long post and even I couldn't help but reply with a long one 😆. Your post truly had an impact on me. Thanks a lot Siddy 😊....this really was very assuring and helped me to clear my mind. You said everything I've wanted too in this post.

Love
Siddy

yeah sidrah awesum post!!

Originally posted by: youshi

well written...ur longest post...u r right upto a certain extent.....but its always to difficult to adjust ourselves to something new...i guess most of us dint want that...i perfectly agree that ths shows do not play a pivotal role in our life...we r all just a part of that big picture...that is pulled by such starcast....otherwise....we all are nw aware of the fact that..ekta cant live longer without bringing all that crappy plastic surgeries and fake deaths...and typical ekta type melodrama......its no where near to reality...why bother....

Originally posted by: tania86

siddyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy additi is back hon..........i m sooooo happy that i became emotional

luv

rehana

Originally posted by: mistyeyed_25

I am glad that my ne hour of lecture drilled some sense into you...

its just a show yaar...take it with a pinch of salt... kal kya hoga kisko pata, abhi jeene ka lele maaza :)

I am always there for you beta :)

Originally posted by: nandini90

siddy......

such a long post??!!!!...ok....it was hard for me to read it coz....chatting side by side.......haha...

ya tell me abt it..our online parties😆😆😆

well i think we've been discussing on this for the last 2 days...outside the forum.....now tht i am also better..and feeling content...here's wat i've gotta say..

B4 the latest TB article :

i wanna give a chance to the new heer...like siddy said..wats this?!!..only a BT show....and how did it affect us soo much personally??!!!......i thot and thot and thot....talked to various frnds...and then decided.....its too impossible for me to imagine any other actor other than aditi...but i decided..if they r indeed replacing her...then lets give her a chance.....and harshad wil have to work loads to get chemistry with her...........

preciseli my pt😉

after TB article :

now i think tht was some rumour...how cum an actor who is still shooting doesnt even know she has been sacked??!!!!....how ridiculous??!!!!.....she has no idea abt the media......and wats tht she saying?!!!..she has been shooting from morn to nite???!!!...now....how late is tht??!!!!!....my my.....how low can the media get??!!!!!!!

nans..wait...b4 ag walks in the show as da final confirmation..and den we will shred the media ppl to pieces😡 onli TB rox😛

so i am happy and content now!!!..and am sure aditi wil be bak!!!!!!

thnx a ton to TB......muuuaaaahhh...and hugs for TB people!!!!!

luv nans

Originally posted by: salma_786786

well im very attached to this show... more then ever.... the past two days has been very depressing here in the forum.. Additi post here and there but at least we all know that she is still in.... the creatives and Ekta have rethought about the big risk they were taking and got scared lollz....

Yess Siddy this is by far the most you have written...but i do agree with you, there are more important things in life and after all this show is fictional.... but i love it.... you will get attached again Siddy.... 😆