29 sep '09: big things, little things - Page 2

Originally posted by: riks1

estee.....🤗

i'm still waiting to see the sleeping arrangements tonight in prem's bedroom...😍😍😍

any predictions from you?????

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Originally posted by: riks1

estee.....🤗

vandana! 🤗

i'm still waiting to see the sleeping arrangements tonight in prem's bedroom...😍😍😍

any predictions from you?????

😆 predictions? i don't predict -- i just want. 'cause whatever i predict turns out the exact opposite usually! 😆

i still want the same thing as yesterday.

but *sigh* after what prem said about ''chahat's farmaish'', i have a sad feeling that i won't get my deepest heart's desire... boo hoo!

still... i guess i have full control over what i see in my dreams no?

lemme run off to bed quickly before the night gets over here... and maybe i'll phream. and maybe i will post that in the celebrations thread of 350 episodes in the morning?

😆

see you later, vandana. have phun...

Originally posted by: estee

*btw, phd qualifying exams?? how cool is that! how did they go? did you crack 'em? 😃*

Hey E,

Didn't you think it was a very saas bahuish episode? but am glad atleast it did move a little. I am not at all surprised that Heer plans to win over Gaya3 with her love. But what I didn't understand is Heer knew that Gaya3 was upset with Heer because she's Nihaal's sister and somewhere Gaya3 holds her responsible for Veera's death? Did Heer know this all these years or did she figure it out after Gaya3 told her to get out their lives?

Originally posted by: estee

hmmm. interesting. for the first time, an episode in a love-story show where -- everyone knows exactly what everyone else is about! no more hidden agendas or anything! and yet -- everyone is gearing up to fight each other for their pov. it was very surprising. and could be very interesting going forward. seriously. for the first time, i had a ray of light in my head that this could end up in the same old unexpected way that this show used to do before...

Omg estee! I do not want to get my hopes up in case I am disappointed again, but I am with you on this point. When I read the updates for this show yesterday I couldn't help but realize that the turn of events in the show were unexpected. I had not expected Heer to go "deal with it once and for all" right in the beginning of the show. I really didn't. And I didn't expect Gayatri to be open about the fact that her hatred stemmed from Veera's death.

And do you know what all this reminded me off? That time when Heer was hiding out in the hotel room dressed as a stand-in bride right in the beginning of the show with an angry bridal-mob outside. I was expecting there to be some big drama with a whole lot of misunderstanding between Prem and Heer that day. But I was literally blown away when Prem covered Heer's mouth as she was trying to explain - like he didn't need to hear her explanation, that he knew what she knew and he believed her. That was the day I fell in love with Prem Heer and there's been no turning back.

The way Prem behaved that day was unexpected and it was followed by several more unexpected twists all the way until Rajasthan happened. And then, not so much. But since yesterday, I've almost been hopeful that maybe, the "old unexpected way" (like you said) are coming back.

And my excitement will know no boundaries if that happens to be true.


* little thing: y'know? they really shouldn't have glob reclining on a bed like that -- i feel this unholy urge to become a really large person and tilt the bed so that she rolls off.

Oh God! Now I have this image stuck in my head!! 🤣🤣 Of the glob rolling off the bed!! 🤣


* little thing: another thing i never understand -- why do these characters speak their thoughts out aloud? 'specially if they want to tell us that no-one ever heard it??!

OMG! Thank you! This constant need for characters to speak their thoughts drove me up the wall for the first couple of years that I started watching the shows. Why can't they just THINK it with a background voice? Why do they have SPEAK it aloud? I don't walk around my room speaking aloud... and I am sure neither do many others. Is it too much to ask for the characters to be a little normal?! On second thought, maybe it is.. 🤣


* little thing: interesting thing #1 -- in that prem-gi-it meeting, she was completely open and honest about having loved him. about having lost that love and having left it behind. and about having come ahead of that to focus more on their happiness.

i was taken aback. if it had been the usual type of story, the losing-in-love person would be all coy and sacrificing and keeping mum about their lost-love.

Exactly! They're dealing with this differently than they would if it were some other story where gi-it was supposed to create problems. This is exactly why I feel so strongly that gi-it is not here to create trouble between premeer but is here to provide support kind of like Preet and Ash did when they were all trying to expose dirtchachi's evil mind. I really really hope gi-it is here to help because turning her evil for no logical reason isn't going to be good for the show. I hope they've learned that after forcefully turning Gmom to glob.


* big thing: interesting thing #2 --

which reminded me of ... preet! preet also used to be just like that with prem, no? impatient of pb's reverence for pbauji's respect over his love for heer?

*seriously -- i soooo want to know what made gi-it and heer such close friends! they are beginning to look completely like the equivalent of prem-preet -- seriously!*

I am pretty sure I've told you this before, but I'm going to say it again -- you enlighten me with your take on the show. You really do. I hadn't thought of it this way, but now that you said it she does remind me of Preet. Especially when he was trying to get Prem to accept his love for Heer- kept pushing him to listen to his heart, which ultimately resulted in June 18th 😍..


* big thing:

'cause she was right. don't get me wrong -- she was being right in that twisted prem-heer way, and only that way.

'cause she was completely on track of being prem-heer-are-one. in fact, she was being prem! the same thing -- certainly she was paraphrasing the same sentiment, if not using the same words -- that prem had said when he was in his confrontation with pbauji. this was similar to the tension prem went through in being the ''best son'' vs. the ''best lover''.

heer is not gonna give up on her prem-love. but she wants to have mother-love too. and she will insist on it from glob, prem's once-upon-a-time mother! like prem in the old days of pbauji-conflict, heer wants to have her cake and eat it too!

then, pbauji had separated prem from his family. this time, glob had separated heer from everyone. then, pbauji had demanded prem chose between his duty and his love. this time? this time, it's much more complicated 'cause heer's duty here came purely out of her love for prem. and that was precisely the thing that glob was demanding that heer was chosing between??!

much, much more complicated.

And I'm enlightened again... Omg! It's exactly like that isn't it?! Wow! I hadn't thought of it that way. She was absolutely "Prem" in that sequence. Could it be?! Could it be that this show is going to surprise me again? *tries to contain her excitement and fails miserably* Omg estee! After months, I am finally excited to see the next episode. Don't get me wrong - I used to watch the show all these months too. But it wasn't like i couldn't wait for the show to air and find out what's going to happen. Today though, that's exactly how I feel.


* prem-heer thing: that was the last of the interesting parts of this show -- the way these two behaved in that last segment.

prem was all calm and smiling. heer was all quiet and calm. i kinda liked how they were back to being quiet. after so many shows with confrontations and miserable issues, it was nice how all they did was make big-big eyes at each other and be calm -- as if content just to soak in the fact that they were together again.

I liked the last segment because it seemed normal - natural to me. They'd been away from each other for 6 years (thanks to the creatives🤢) and now that they were together I loved how they were just calm and relaxed - they didn't over do it with mushy dialogues and nonsense expressions. It was just right. I liked that.

* prem-heer pinkie thing: meanies! they could've phhandooooh-ed! but all they did was .... phpinkieooh! 🤣

phpinkieooh... 🤣.. I love it!

* prem thing: er... was he or was he not doing an undershirt thingie today??! *be still my rapidly escalating heart! 🤣*

I don't think he was.. the key word is THINK. So giving him the benefit of doubt, I vote "no undershirt".. Maybe Heer burned all those undershirts before he got back into the room. Maybe that's where she was coming from. 😆