Epi Discussions #3: Sept 14th - 18th (9/18 p.46,56,62) - Page 71

Anita from the Utube video I couldn't hear any lullabuy from Prem to Chahat!! I saw him stroking her forehead & also patting her to sleep. But Yeah I saw him move his lips but no sound was there, that b/g score was on!! So either he was talking to her or maybe singing!! I don't know.

But I loved that scene.

how are you..yes i agree with lana we so miss the regular chat after 9.00 PM ...die sp , die sp

We always get to talk in D updates but finally saw u here. 😃 I understand what u r saying & we all miss the old Prem & Heer & their eternal love story & yes we have to thank Garry Bhinder for that!! The way he captured VG's vision to perfection no one else could!!

But what u said there is a slight difference. If Geet was unaware of Prem & Heer & if she was under the impression that Prem loved her back then she would be deceived by 'Love' which is symbolised by Prem & Heer, but here she was aware that Prem doesn't love her, he has loved his wife all along & was specific about it. So she knew what she was getting into, she wasn't duped by Prem. All along I was saying she doesn't deserve to be in the dark, she ought to be told & she was, thankfully!! So she wasn't misled but fell in love with Prem involuntarily & obviously we all know we don't have control over our hearts. Whether she wanted or not she is in love with Prem & she actually passed the test of love, she sacrificed her love for her love of both Prem & Heer & that is commendable. Yeah like all other she is heartbroken but she knows she has won, her love has won because her love was respected & not misutilized!! She did what she did, willingly to help Prem get back with his love & for that I am happy for her.

My problem is from a different angle. Prem & Heer r epitome of LOVE, they r eternal lovers bound in immortal love & knows each other inside out, right??! Then why did Heer need Geet to open her eyes for Prem?? This was the 2nd time Geet did it for Heer! That is where my problem lies!! She needs a 3rd person to tell her the worth of Prem, how much he loves & cherishes her?? That is not sitting well with me. All along this nonsensical fight she was fighting in name of Prem's happiness had no base, she was doing it for Geet. She is indebted to her & wanted to pay her back with her self-sacrifice of Prem & she was saying its right for him & she wants to give him away & he will be happy in that & she was saying in name of Prem's happiness!! Now all this penance is fine but she put Prem up to pay the price for her penance. And that will always remain with me!!

Heer was wrong in her love for Prem, she misunderstood Prem, misjudged him & for this they ceased to be the eternal lover for me. They have faltered big big time. Even y'day Geet told Heer u r still doubting Prem, u still don't understand him & his love for u, I mean a 3rd person telling Heer about the goodness of Prem, about his blind undying love for her.............its just not Heer for me!! Not to mention all that she said in these past 2 months to Prem & even y'day to Chahat, with all her lies, he is not ur real dad!! It will take a lot to redeem Heer in my eyes. All along she has been influenced by 3rd person & got carried away in her beliefs & stubbornness & everytime Prem was the one who suffered & paid for it. She understands & fights for every1 but Prem! And I know in one flash of a heartbeat Prem will take her back in his life with open arms without any questions asked & she will never realise what a gem she has in Prem!! Really a big sigh for that!! And no I am not BASHING her, I am saying this out of sheer sadness, I feel I have lost something very dear to my heart & I am ruing for that loss!! Sigh!

Anyway but then its only me!! And what do I know?? I maybe wrong but yeah that old Prem & Heer has ceased to exist for me!!