If Heer wasn't angry and bitter, I would've stopped watching this show!!! She has every right to be bitter and angry at Prem. Although I don't like her separating Prem from his daughter, I can see why she is doing it. Every relationship she had after her parents death, was somehow tied to Prem including her 2 siblings. Because of Prem and his family her brother is in jail and she and her sister are distanced.
Obviously for Rano it was easy to forgive prem because like heer said she doesn't love him like Heer did. She definitely has misunderstood Prem a lot since he's been back on the scene but you can't blame her, she had soooooo much faith in him and that has completely been destroyed, moreover I think she does know his true intentions deep inside but she's too stubborn to show it. I like that this feature of Heer has been kept constant - her stubborness.
The original post mentioned that Heer should "take responsibility for her role in the mess" SHE DID NOT DO ANYTHING TO PROVOKE PREM TO DO WHAT HE SUPPOSEDLY DID. I am glad to see a tv bahu not suk and blame herself for her husband's infidelity. Everything that led to Prems' misunderstandings of Heer was due to Gayatri so how is Heer responsible?? He was the one with the nerve to think she would cheat on him!!!
In some instances she does go too far but she does have six years of bitterness bottled up. It's high time she let some of that anger out!! I still like Heer because to me she doesn't seem to have changed. I don't want the main protagonist of this show to be a doormat!!!!!!