Originally posted by: lghosh
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Exactly Soaps, u r right, it was AG too who has to be blamed. The creatives r new, the directors r new but she isn't, she has been playing Heer from day 1 & she ought to know how Heer would react when she is angry or furious! Why didn't she set them right? She is so carried away with playing that negative shade she would love to play someday that she forgot the very essence of Heer. How collected, dignified, reserve & respectful Heer was! It feels so much of pain when I have to refer to her nature as 'was'! It seems as if DJ has passed on the baton to her for being rude & nasty.
In Indian tradition & culture & I think everywhere else as well, we r taught not to be impolite with others, to be gentle & soft, to be nice to others so that others will be nice to us as well, to respect others to get the same respect back.......& what I saw today I was stunned & have to say it contradicts all of those lessons imparted to us. What r they trying to impart here?If I ever behaved this way with such attitude, vernacular & mannerisms I would have been sent to 'boot camp' to rectify myself no matter how ill-treated I was by Life in general.
I understand & feel Heer's pain - to be toyed so mercilessly in the hands of fate, to be played around by RR & pushed to the wall, to be fooled again by a look alike of Prem whom she took as her own Prem & yet with her stunts & actions all u feel seeing her is open disgust. I ought to feel her pain & sorrow & instead why am I feeling so cross & enraged?
She is talking a simple thing now with that 'ready to kill' attitude with P/G, to jump on his throat at a any single opportunity! Even that 'good job' today was said so insultingly & sneeringly. We ought to feel mad on him & yet we r sympathising with him, why wanna guess? Yeah because HC is playing his character with a certain amount of dignity, his eyes says all his feelings, he is amused with Heer with her ranting on 'Prem was this, Prem was that.....' & he is absolutely careless about Prem or the family for that matter, he has that smirk which shows he is snickering at them within himself & yet why do we not feel like wiping that look & smirk from his face? Why do we not feel so furious? Y'day when he left her struggling with those baggage we ought to have condemned him & yet we felt it serves her right & felt like laughing, why? When he left her after reaching the house when she was lecturing her I felt like smiling, why? All because this guy knows how to act & portray each & every emotion with a certain amount of dignity & respect. He knows where to draw a line between crude & sober, politeness & impoliteness, respect & disrespect. That is why we don't feel like thrashing him so badly. He is goaded by her to the extreme limit & now when why & how he reacts nastily with her tomorrow I won't be able to point a finger at him with the depth I ought to have! HC is a perfect actor & he knows exactly how much to emote & what to emote! AG has to learn this & definitely needs to moderate down her histrionics which is getting more irritating than appealing!
I myself love Heer & AG as Heer but when I underwent these contradictory emotions watching her I was the one who felt the most pain in feeling so! So that is where my plight lies, unable to connect & sympathise with her! Again hope I have not offended any1 by this but its my opinion which I couldn't muster to hold back after witnessing such an appalling act today. I apologise again if u felt bad reading this.
Lana.