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Posted: 16 years ago
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Zeena I advise you to forget about this guy and move on with your life, I know it's difficult, but if he doesn't give a damn about you, why should you give a damn about him?? Your tears are precious, don't waste them over someone who doesn't realise their worth!! Everything is left up to God, this guy is not meant for you. Like Prem says in the show 'Bhagwaan logon ko jodiyon mein bejh ta hai' There is someone out there for you too, I'm sure!! You will get your Prem one day, and you will be so happy with him that you will forget this other slimeball who left you!! Please, don't hurt yourself more over him, there are millions of guys out there who are much better and who will understand how special you are, have faith in God!! xx
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Darling, I hope I didn't hurt you with my comment, but please, you've wasted so many years of your life crying over this guy, if he was gonna come back to you, then he would've by now!! Don't waste anymore time on him, try find happiness!! Life is short, don't give up on it just because one stupid guy doesn't realise how special you are!! xx
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veera18

What kind of friends are you to Zeena.

She has a problem that she wants us to pray for and help her. At this point we should feel what she is going through and give her proper advise and not just say.."don't worry, he will come back to you". Do you want Zeena to wait for him for ever? What kind of love is that that has not returned in 3 years??
Get real and give here proper helpful advise. Sorry to offend some of you, but I don't think that this is what Zeena wants to hear right now. Positive meaningful reinforcement.
Zeena, please advise if we are of any help to you with all our suggestions.

well i agree with you...but you think we should tell her to forget him and move on? thats exactly what i would do. but i dont think so i could tell her that cuz i dont want to hurt her feelings saying forget that loser who left you and move on. you didnt offend me at all, its just i dont want to hurt her more...i dont want her to think that he will never return...if she truly loves him, then she has to wait for him..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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HEY ZEENA

i think that if the guy doesnt like you and doesnt want to be with you then you shouldnt be with him.....you shouldnt be the one to have to love him soooo much but in return he doesnt love you at all!...

your relationship with him seems too one sided...and it means that it isnt fair for you...and even if you two get back together eventually, it will always be you who will be the one putting the most effort in..when he will be the one just sitting back!....

i think you need to be much more stronger and comfortable with yourself.....you need to love yourself more, in order for someone to love you just as much or even more back!

with kis desh mein hai meraa dil...it is totally fictional....ok you might cry when there is bad things happening to heer and prem in the show...but you need to understand that this isnt real!....and your life and situation is real....

and lastly, i think you need to find your prem....rather than wanting the old one back....you need to move on, even though you may still love your old prem....but you never know you might start to love your new prem more....your old prem is probably just your first pyaar!

=) i hope this helps and surely (inshallah) everything in your life will happen for a good reason!!!

p.s. if you need more advice...then you should watch the film Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi! the story of the film is a bit similar to your situation!

Edited by shabs_89 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi Everyone,
Thank you so much for ur advice....it feels gud yaar...and i wanted to share something that hez leaving this place for 4 yrs and dont know where he will come back...may be in another city...so i asked him for last meeting cuz who knows if we ll ever see each other again...and tomm im going to meet him just as friends...my last time...hum 2 saal ke baad mil rahe hain.....but dont worry i will say ntn about past,,,cuz i dotn wanna show him that im still thinking abt him....kiyunki jab mera broke up huya tha to menu usse bara tang (request) kiya tha ki why hez doing this and he cant this to me....but now it feels lil wierd ki i showed him that im a looser....oh well...lets see wut happens....
and thank everyone for pray....i really appreciate that 😊...thank youuu
Edited by zeena - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luckynlove

Hi dear,

The reality of all things is that what is on the screen is not life. What you are going through is life.....and the reality.
We partitioned and prayed to another human (EKTA) and for her own selfish reasons (so that her popular show does not go down) she decided to bring our Prem back.
I will surely pray for your Prem, but what is destined for you, NO ONE human can change.
If you learn to accept the things the way they are and believe in destiny, you will be a happier person. You need to move on and why worry about some one who did not care for your feelings. In few years when you are close to 30 and still without your Prem, you will realize that you have WASTED such good years of your life crying over some one who never thought once about you. Wake up darling and enjoy your life.....NOW.
I am almost sounding like "Dear Abby"

i agree with her.....there's a saying....if you love somone let him free.....if he comes back he's yours......if he doesn't he never was.....
you have waited enough for him.....now it's time that you move on in life.....i'm sure that you'll get a much better person.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: zeena

Hi Everyone,

Thank you so much for ur advice....it feels gud yaar...and i wanted to share something that hez leaving this place for 4 yrs and dont know where he will come back...may be in another city...so i asked him for last meeting cuz who knows if we ll ever see each other again...and tomm im going to meet him just as friends...my last time...hum 2 saal ke baad mil rahe hain.....but dont worry i will say ntn about past,,,cuz i dotn wanna show him that im still thinking abt him....kiyunki jab mera broke up huya tha to menu usse bara tang (request) kiya tha ki why hez doing this and he cant this to me....but now it feels lil wierd ki i showed him that im a looser....oh well...lets see wut happens....
and thank everyone for pray....i really appreciate that 😊...thank youuu
and Viniva Sharma plz send me that secret....i ll be waiting...thank yououu

Good luck Zeena. Stay calm and don't worry....everything will fall in the right place. Just be yourself. Like Premeer said...........love yourself the most. And true if you love yourself the most, then everyone comes to the second place. And I like what riks said.......I want you to be happy. I will pray for you.
By the way, who is Viniva Sharma? Just kidding.😊😊😊

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