Totally with DV. What's the need of baby soon

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imsuv

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Posted: 11 years ago

I totally understand DV's point of view. They just got married and Sanchi started thinking of becoming mother so soon. Why is she talking again and again when her husband is not ready.

Why can;t she just shut up? Anyway she was not interested in marriage but DV changed her, he brought her to new world. he gave her support and hapiness.

I am not liking Sanchi's obsession. I understand Montherhood is the blessing per aisa bhi kya ki kal ke liye tum apana aaj barbad kar rahe ho!

And as DV said once rightly that 'waise to already der ho hi chuki hain"

If i am not wrong Madhuri Dixit got married at the age of 38 and she still have 2 kids.

There are many women who gave birth at the age of 40.Technology too helps to conceive...

And if for God forbid it doesn't happen then you can always adopt...

Per koun samzaye is sanchi ko

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Indomitable

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Posted: 11 years ago

How cud u say that, if they won't plan now then there are high chances of Saachi may not be conceiving & here Saachi's fear is they may become childless. Tho there are many improved technologies but there is an age limit for every women to conceive if they delay more there may arise lot of complications in case of Saachi & the baby. Now say do u agree with DV still.

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TheRager

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Posted: 11 years ago

I guess you are right. Saachi wasnt even ready for marriage...babies toh door ki baat hain. Now she has gotten obsessed about having kids. I think its because she is sitting idle at home. 😆
Anyways if we need to compare a similar case is Aishwarya Rai who married at 34 and had her child at 38. I have a cousin also who did the same. 30+ women have it tough when it comes to pregnancies. But with advanced medical technology its become easier now. Saachi should seriously first give herself and her husband time before bringing kids to the equation.

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Indomitable

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl
I guess you are right. Saachi wasnt even ready for marriage...babies toh door ki baat hain. Now she has gotten obsessed about having kids. I think its because she is sitting idle at home. 😆
Anyways if we need to compare a similar case is Aishwarya Rai who married at 34 and had her child at 38. I have a cousin also who did the same. 30+ women have it tough when it comes to pregnancies. But with advanced medical technology its become easier now. Saachi should seriously first give herself and her husband time before bringing kids to the equation.

I partly agree with u but it all depends on the luck, all may not be as lucky as Aishwarya. I have a friend who was trying for kids for about 5 yrs. she has gone for IVF advanced technology in USA (hispitals where IVF proceedure was invented) for 3 times which is so painful, saw her suffering it's like hell for a moment i felt death is more easier than this treatment & even then she cudn't conceive. So same may be applicable in case of Saachi it's easy to say that they are advanced technology but when some one experience it then they come to know. Not able to conceive feeling itself will take away all the joy from life...

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TheRager

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Indomitable

I partly agree with u but it all depends on the luck, all may not be as lucky as Aishwarya. I have a friend who was trying for kids for about 5 yrs. she has gone for IVF advanced technology in USA (hispitals where IVF proceedure was invented) for 3 times which is so painful, saw her suffering it's like hell for a moment i felt death is more easier than this treatment & even then she cudn't conceive. So same may be applicable in case of Saachi it's easy to say that they are advanced technology but when some one experience it then they come to know. Not able to conceive feeling itself will take away all the joy from life...

I agree you also need luck on your side. But DV also had a point...they are already late given that Saachi is already in her mid-30s. So its better to give their marriage time and then try for a baby. I think from DV's side he should have given her a time frame to have a child rather than give evasive replies like "When I am ready" or "Never".

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Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 11 years ago

I am more on Saachi's side here. While DV is correct that he doesn't want a baby so soon, Saachi is married now and when she hears people talk it is natural for her to think of a child. IVF is extremely difficult. Its easy to talk about technological advancement but going through it is very difficult.

I was considering IVF at the age of 34 and tried to see if insurance covered expenses. It can cost up to $15,000-$25,000 to do the procedure. Insurance will cover it only if you first try other things which can take six months. Once you go through IVF it takes a long time, there are a lot of risks associated because you are likely to have multiple kids at a time, and again there are MANY risks associated with twins and triplets. Many risks. Fertility doctors are expensive, fertility drugs cause a lot of weight gain. The stress is a lot to take and the pressure of when you will conceive too. You can also have higher risks of baby with Down's Syndrome and may decide to abort.

Very lucky people are able to conceive naturally after the age of 35. I know a few. But it takes a long time, is risky, and IVF is even riskier. The frustration and waiting can cause a lot of issues as well. Thankfully I got pregnant naturally before my first fertility doctor visit and I gave birth to twins at the age of 35. I am so glad I didn't have to go through that process. Its just awful, very stressful and very expensive. Just look at the percentages of chances of having a baby after the age of 30. I think 32-33 are ideal, 35 is too late because after that percentages drop drastically, and risks associated with Down's Syndrome, multiples, etc. is higher.

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Mrs.Beckham Sobti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Thank God..u made dis post

Saanchiji is obssessed.. 🤢
Farah Khan gt married to guy 9 yrs younger to her n hd babies at age of 43.

Same with Aish..Aaradhya was born whn Aish was 37.

n acc to show..Saanchiji is 34 only.
She can atleast wait fr a year 😕

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Mrs.Beckham Sobti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Ofcourse i heard d same..IVF Is difficult

but it doesnt mean tht u go fr a baby without ur hubby consult or his partial consult or by emotionally blackmailing him

Saanchiji is yet to settle in Goels..She is nt a fool (or she is) to see YG,Su,Anway attitude towards her n she wants to hv a kid🤔
Atleast Allow ur hubby to focus on career fr sometime..he has just started 😕

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lakshmi aparna

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Posted: 11 years ago

yaar, I totally agree with you!

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_AngryBird_

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Posted: 11 years ago

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What if saachi could not conceive due to age..That would be very sad for both of them..
she has a doubt on it and so asking dv for kids.. Dv should also think from her POV... Atleast he should give a try to think 😕

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Totally with DV. What's the need of baby soon

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