Transition!

Dhruv and Saachi it is a time to balance out routine with discovery of a new life.

This transitional period is the beginning of personal growth and discovery. As a couple must intertwine a sense of rejuvenated love and charm amongst the daily routines of life. This creates a stronger bond and outlasts the dreaminess. With the use of traditions and placing importance on the recognition of special events, your married life will hold more joy in your lives.

After marriage, you do not even find the time to talk to each other. This is causing various problems in your relationship, sometimes even leading to frustration. Hence, make it a point to sit and talk to each other every evening, even though you are very tired.

There will be highs and lows during the transition time as well as in many phases of your married life. The expectations that you and your mate have will require a reality check periodically. External factors such as other people will also evolve. These intrusions can create emotional conflicts between the two of you. Recognize such events and conduct an open discussion.

You must both understand that marriage is about compromises and adjustments, and there are few things that will never change in your partner, whatsoever you do. Also, even you may have some habits which may seem normal to you, but weird to your partner. Understand that your spouse is a human being too, and do not have unreasonable expectations that your partner will change completely for you.

It takes two people to make a relationship work, both of you have to put in your best efforts to make your marriage a perfect one, as you dreamed it to be.

I think it is perfectly normal for a couple to quarrel or not see eye to eye on some things. This does not mean that they dont love each other or it has to lead into a rift between them. If you agree with everything your partner says then things get boring after some time. Its important not to let disagreements get the better of you.