sad dv did not understand saachi

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Posted: 11 years ago
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haii frnds altogether nice episode, but felt bad dv did not understand saachi, he knows wat strawberry farms mean to saachi,this story was all abt saachi and her dreams and dv had promised dils that he will b with saachi to fulfil her dreams,now saachi is at home all time to face anky and suparna and the the main villain yash goel ,,the writer is keen on creating misunderstanding between leads. the theme of jlz is offtrack

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Posted: 11 years ago
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didnt watch the epi..but jst my pov...😊
may be CV's wants us to show - after marriage work is not every thing...you have look at your new family members also...and if u see last episodes after misunderstandings saruv bonding became very strong...so for few months, saachi may give farm responsibilities to deepali and after that she may again take over the responsibility
- cming to dv, its his concern for saachi because travelling to and fro from mumbai to panchangani is not easy task and she may get stressed. Let saachi njoy her life without any wrk tension for few months..

No offence pls 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What DV meant is she has spent her whole life for farm and family. So he is happy that finally she will have some time to think of herself. His concern for her safety while travelling on highway is also genuine and shows his love for her.
Saachi being the sentimental type expects a different reaction from DV.

I am satisfied with DV's reaction. If he had sympathised with her she would feel the emptiness more. Now she has to come out of it as he will not bring up the topic again.

This happens to all of us and shows how men and women see the same thing differently.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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They both had valid reaction to the situation. This shows the basic difference between a woman and man - their thinking, their way of looking at same things but differently.
The farms have been everything to Saachi and that only she can feel and understand. Aaji, Nani said the same even though they know what it means to her. So, only Saachi can feel the loss and nobody else can.
Same is with DV, he definitely knows what farms mean to her but now the equation has changed. Saachi is his wife so his worry for her safety is very valid.
I would have loved it more if DV instead of immediately smiling could have said 1-2 lines that he knows how much farms are important but now she needs to only oversee it instead of worrying for day-to-day operations and then should have said about his concern. That would have had more of an impact - just my POV.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

They both had valid reaction to the situation. This shows the basic difference between a woman and man - their thinking, their way of looking at same things but differently.

The farms have been everything to Saachi and that only she can feel and understand. Aaji, Nani said the same even though they know what it means to her. So, only Saachi can feel the loss and nobody else can.
Same is with DV, he definitely knows what farms mean to her but now the equation has changed. Saachi is his wife so his worry for her safety is very valid.
I would have loved it more if DV instead of immediately smiling could have said 1-2 lines that he knows how much farms are important but now she needs to only oversee it instead of worrying for day-to-day operations and then should have said about his concern. That would have had more of an impact - just my POV.

thats wat anju even i loved to see atleast one line he would have said

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I didn't like the way Dv reacted on hearing Sanchi's withdrawing herself from all the responsibilities of the farm.He knows very well how she has been fighting for the existence of her farm and what emotions r attached to that .But not a word of condolence and sensing nothing wrong about Addu's going to hostel.He was okay with all the excuses she gave.May be was worried about her security...but I expectecd something from him to say,even Sanchi was surprised to see him all happy with her decision. Earlier, this was the same DV who could sense anything wrong with the slightest change in behavior of Sanchi.Infact I loved Neena's concern today.She could sense the sadness in Sanchi...her khalipaan...and I loved how she tried to ease her and comfort her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree I thought he would understand her but he took it so lightly :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ak75

What DV meant is she has spent her whole life for farm and family. So he is happy that finally she will have some time to think of herself. His concern for her safety while travelling on highway is also genuine and shows his love for her.

Saachi being the sentimental type expects a different reaction from DV.

I am satisfied with DV's reaction. If he had sympathised with her she would feel the emptiness more. Now she has to come out of it as he will not bring up the topic again.

This happens to all of us and shows how men and women see the same thing differently.


@bold - you hit the nail on the head there Anu.
In fact, Ben and I reacted differently to it. Ben liked DV's reaction while I didn't approve of it. It is interesting you make the point because that's how we reacted.
I just felt if anyone actually could understand Saachi's pain it would have been DV and he reacted a little selfishly by being happy that his worries were at bay. DV is my favourite character but I just failed to understand his actions today. What about the time they were in Pune and Saachi and DV are on either side of the hotel room door and Saachi very sorrowfully expresses the worth of the farms? He heard all that and it really affected him then, so I was just surprised he didn't sympathise or understand her feeling of loss at all?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

They both had valid reaction to the situation. This shows the basic difference between a woman and man - their thinking, their way of looking at same things but differently.

The farms have been everything to Saachi and that only she can feel and understand. Aaji, Nani said the same even though they know what it means to her. So, only Saachi can feel the loss and nobody else can.


Same is with DV, he definitely knows what farms mean to her but now the equation has changed. Saachi is his wife so his worry for her safety is very valid.


I would have loved it more if DV instead of immediately smiling could have said 1-2 lines that he knows how much farms are important but now she needs to only oversee it instead of worrying for day-to-day operations and then should have said about his concern. That would have had more of an impact - just my POV.


@bold-after watching the episode I felt the same...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I must say even I was a bit surprised. It seemed like a selfish reaction from DV that he was glad that she would now focus on him rather than her career. But then realized that DV had never expressed his concern about Saachi's killing commute. In fact stepping back from the business was Saachi's decision...DV never put that thought in her head that she must do so(unlike Yash). But somewhere he was probably missing getting enough attention from her plus was concerned about her. So when he got what he wanted without even asking for it he was simply excited and failed to see how tough the decision had been for Saachi. The situation was similar when Yash agreed to DV's marriage with Saachi the first time and DV never sensed that his family wasnt happy with it while Saachi could sense it.
Coming to Adu shifting to hostel...the happiness of not having Saachi go to Panchgani everyday softened the blow for DV wrt Adu.
I think in situations like this only people in similar situations can empathize. Thats why Neena could empathize with Saachi while DV couldnt. If Saachi is looking from support from her husband she has to break her chuppi as her grandma advised her.

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