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Originally posted by: moderator1961

Completely agree with you.. Love does not hurt is the fundamental philosophy of life. the opposite is also true... if you hurt, you do not love. It means that Anky does not and did not love DV. She is confused and cannot distinguish between love and just being friends.. This is something that DV learnt, not from his elders but from Saachi. I wish that Anky too learns from Saachi and backs out.

i also do want to comment on the "elders" part... being elder is not directly related to age.. it is in the mind.. The sooner you experience difficult circumstances and tough times, the faster one matures. Example, Saachi again... Similarly, Saachi too acknowledges that DV is probably way mature than his age in dealing with a relationship such as a husband and wife. iI that sense, DV is and "elder". ( i am talking of the PG DV and not the mumbaikar DV that we are being shown!).

@ bold-similar thoughts.I also sometimes feel like that ,she is totally confused between love and being just friends.But when I see her sleeping on the same bed with him...it makes me more confused.I feel like she is simply obsessed with him.She wants him by any means...but also gets shattered when DV doesn't even touch her in drunkard sate but mutters Sanchi's name.Being friends for so long...she feels that DV is her possession and he has to be all hers.

And about "elder" part...I agree completely.Circumstances and testing times does make you grow mentally older and act in a matured way.If the person has proper upbringing and values relationship then the maturity in that person is more visible.

Originally posted by: divine_16

@ bold-I don't think ,even if DV had got married to someone else it would have made any difference in attitude of Anky.She has been with him all the since they were kids...so somehow she feels that DV is all hers.So when Dv had so many GFs and had breakups,she knew that eventually Dv was with her always.She also knew, how found the Goel family was of her.So hooking her with him won't be any problem...that was her thought.And here all her notions was crushed when she saw that DV was serious about Sanchi and it was not a mere time pass.Even in place of Sanchi, if DV had loved someone else and got married she would have felt the same and reacted the way she is doing now.
Anky does lacks strength of character that DV has.And I think that's purely bcoz of his mom's influence on him.He is more attached to her and so have all the good qualities of Neena.He is grounded, charming,caring and loving. Neena's well upbringing has helped in molding his strength of character.And perhaps Anky's upbringing and to a large extent her sis's instigating nature has made her like this.She is just not able to differentiate what should be her right step.She is completely shutting her heart and using her brains in manipulative deeds.