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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas


my hubby wld never ever do this to me if he wld not pik up my phone if I am alone n suppose to meet him I WOULD KILL HIM😡


Uppaas, cool down dear😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparna37


yaar, DV said he wont go without his wife and sanchi mam gv him permission to go with his friend, now sanchi mam feels bad that he didnt take the phone, I WOULD SAY SANCHI SHOULD NOT GIVE PERMISSION AND DV SHOULD NOT ALLOW ANKI INTO HIS LIFE ANYMORE!! Also everyday sanchi mam is going to travel to panchgani and DV is not going to job seriously, so these consequences have to be faced my dear!! Anki will definitely have a chnce to disturb Saruv's life!!

First of all, Anki should not have or DV should not have given right to Anki to call up Saachi for permission. Hey they are grown ups, they do not need permission. And think about this - if hubby's friend calls his wife for permission what is wife supposed to do? Say, NO I will not give him permission to go with his friend? Will that be OK?
It does not work like this. DV should not have let this situation arise. He can simply and point-blankly refuse Anki that he will not come without his wife. It is party for couples so we will come together. Nobody can force you for anything be it your close friend or a stranger. Calling up wife for permission is ridiculous. If Anki had guts then she should have waited and asked face to face.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

First of all, Anki should not have or DV should not have given right to Anki to call up Saachi for permission. Hey they are grown ups, they do not need permission. And think about this - if hubby's friend calls his wife for permission what is wife supposed to do? Say, NO I will not give him permission to go with his friend? Will that be OK?

It does not work like this. DV should not have let this situation arise. He can simply and point-blankly refuse Anki that he will not come without his wife. It is party for couples so we will come together. Nobody can force you for anything be it your close friend or a stranger. Calling up wife for permission is ridiculous. If Anki had guts then she should have waited and asked face to face.


yaar, that's why I feel SaRuv is at fault!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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anu ...sooo true why the hell is ankie calling sanchi up...I mean are they babies n DV is listeninggg
it was really stupid n DV is sooo caring so much out of DVs character
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparna37


Uppaas, cool down dear😃


appu its a very strong point with me u kno sanchi cld hv been hurt or molested..I dont like men u neglect their wives wen around their frnds
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjubala

First of all, Anki should not have or DV should not have given right to Anki to call up Saachi for permission. Hey they are grown ups, they do not need permission. And think about this - if hubby's friend calls his wife for permission what is wife supposed to do? Say, NO I will not give him permission to go with his friend? Will that be OK?

It does not work like this. DV should not have let this situation arise. He can simply and point-blankly refuse Anki that he will not come without his wife. It is party for couples so we will come together. Nobody can force you for anything be it your close friend or a stranger. Calling up wife for permission is ridiculous. If Anki had guts then she should have waited and asked face to face.



Very well said yaar, that's what i was saying how can Saachi be blamed here for giving permission when a friend requests explaining the situation. It was DV at total fault coz he shud have handled the situation. I remember that Saachi once said that "humare life mein kise kitna importance diya jaaye yeh humein tai karna chahiya" but i don't understand DV's attitude here, y he always gives Anki so much space in his life that she always interferes in his life. How cud she dare to call Saachi & ask for permission if DV has refused & stand by his statement in the first instance itself. If DV can't put full stop to Anki or make her not to cross her limits then does Anki dare to invlove in his life. DV shud be totally blamed . I hate this kind of behavior.😡
Edited by Indomitable - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indomitable



Very well said yaar, that's what i was saying how can Saachi be blamed here for giving permission when a friend requests explaining the situation. It was DV at total fault coz he shud have handled the situation. I remember that Saachi once that "humare life mein kise kitna importance diya jaaye yeh humein tai karna chahiya" but i don't understand DV's attitude here, y he always gives Anki so much space in his life that she always interferes in his life. How cud she dare to call Saachi & ask for permission if DV has refused & stand by his statement in the first instance itself. If DV can't put full stop to Anki or make her not to cross her limits then does Anki dare to invlove in his life. DV shud be totally blamed . I hate this kind of behavior.😡

Exactly... DV should have put a full-stop to Anki's nautanki. How can anybody - be it close friend - come in between husband and wife? How can DV allow Anki to call Saachi and why can't he be assertive? He is a married man now. Things definitely change after marriage and he needs to understand this. Anki is DV's friend so Saachi will never say NO or be harsh to her. It has to be DV who needs to show her way out of his life now.
Saachi will surely be in a fix if DV's friend is asking for permission - if she says "NO" then it does not sound right and friends will start teasing DV about the same and now when she said "YES" then also people say she is at fault. No, she is not at fault here. DV is a man and he needs to be like a man. How can he leave Saachi alone and go when he knows it is a couples party? As Uppas said, what if Saachi had got hurt or some random guys had taken advantage of her???? This is a big NO NO for me. Just my POV.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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see appu u have point that sanchi shd hv said no sometimes women have to save their marriage agreed but its DVs friend and its responsibility his wife was alone I wld have bashed sanchi also if she was mast with nana aaji n forgot abt Dv..it was really iresponsible n callous of DV she is new in baby n is not the clubbing types...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas

see appu u have point that sanchi shd hv said no sometimes women have to save their marriage agreed but its DVs friend and its responsibility his wife was alone I wld have bashed sanchi also if she was mast with nana aaji n forgot abt Dv..it was really iresponsible n callous of DV she is new in baby n is not the clubbing types...


but if Sanchi goes to panchgani daily like this , though DV gives her all the attention needed, then do you think she wont face any troubles with anki ?? also anki is not only his ex, but she is his bhabi's sis also !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparna37


but if Sanchi goes to panchgani daily like this , though DV gives her all the attention needed, then do you think she wont face any troubles with anki ?? also anki is not only his ex, but she is his bhabi's sis also !


ya u have a point actually sanchi also needs to keep ankie away and create a rukus with DV abt her ...and DV shd push her not let her touch him

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