COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE!

Saachi BE A TEAM PLAYER - You really are not on the same bench playing for the same team? Can you give up 'being right' in favor of being together? Do you both hold the WE as important as the I? Are you a team player or do you need to be the quarterback in order to feel safe?

Saachi you should always follow your heart, but also take into account what your brain has to say, to make you the most happy. Over thinking ruins you... ruins the situation, turns things around, makes you worry, and just makes things worse than it actually is.

Saachi decides to just go ahead and pay attention to her intuition, even though it didn't make any sense to her rational mind, and refuse the offer.

A child connects to his/her parents, family, relatives, culture, history, identity and religion through his mother tongue. We must not also forget that we live in a multicultural society and we should teach our children to learn about other cultures and respect them as well.

YG when you are among family, do not criticize, yell at her or put her down, be nice, polite and respect your wife. If there was something that bothered you in the company of family that your wife said or did, you can address it when alone with your wife.

Also include her in your decisions. Don't be the one who makes all the major decisions without consulting her for her input in the family matter. Something like this, needs to be discussed thoroughly, the positives and the negatives. It is best to ask her, what do you think about this? What would you like? Treat her as your partner.

When it comes to decisions, don't carry that view that you are the man of the household, and if you are the only one working, you can do whatever you want. That is a very controlling attitude. Your wife is your marriage and life partner. Include her in your decisions

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