when parents disagree..is ok to elope - Page 5

Originally posted by: shonali164

veena dii ur dp is superb
i must say no nvr widout ur parents permision dnt marry. If ur lv n trust is strong u cn change parents mind for ur relation

Totally against eloping. I have seen very young and immature girls do it and pay the price later. Its a terrible situation. Older and mature couples rarely do it unless situation demands. Either they break up or they try to convince parents somehow.

Originally posted by: ..Bournville..

it all depends. if parents have genuine reason for objection, then children should understand that, but sometimes some parents only have prejudice against love marriage or in some cases even looks or eating habits and no matter how the kids try, they dont want to budge. under such circumstances the kids can elope, provided both are financially independent as else there can be lots of problems in the relationship.

Originally posted by: AARMAY1

mine is love marriage that too inter caste, it was very difficult for us to convince our parents, but they agreed, so i don't prefer eloping.

Originally posted by: preity_d

Depends on the relation and bond between a parents and their child... I personally don't prefer eloping and I don't the devdas mode at all, there are many things to do in life, you have money, go and spend some time with needy people, help them. Your stress will be less, drinking and crying is a thumbs down for me

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I'd be totally against it. Your parents are the ones that have brought you up, and if a person can leave someone that has been there since their birth and choose you over them, then they can leave you too..

If you really love someone you'd wait it out however long it takes to convince the parents, sooner or later the parents will agree, as they'd realise nothing is more important than their children's happiness, and maybe their idea of happiness and their child's idea of happiness could be two different things.

If you truly love someone you wouldn't want to separate them from their families.

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

i will never elope w/o my parents wishes

Originally posted by: ak75

Totally against eloping. I have seen very young and immature girls do it and pay the price later. Its a terrible situation. Older and mature couples rarely do it unless situation demands. Either they break up or they try to convince parents somehow.

Di,i m here! 😳😆

okay don't knw abt others but for me .. jis ladke ke liye mom dad ko cheat karna padhe .. before thinking anything wil kick him out of my life .. and then wld think anything else ... don't knw abt others .. many parents r not so good with children but still at a minimum level they bring us to the life and that's why we r living .. at we need to respect them this much . and for me there is no scope ..for me My Parents r everything .. won't even think once to kick such guy(🥱) out!!! :D

And,yes wld never say that in any case it si good to elope ..it also shows ur disbelieve in ur relation with that guy! :)