Originally posted by: mghurye
well I was not debating😆 😆 Dont worry I welcome whatever discussion you had. There is nothing wrong in having differences of opinion. and btw you are a hard person to debate!!
But was just trying to minimize or in some cases provide excuses for his weaknesses....He is human. There is no need for excuses, explanations yes.
I mean his doubting Prachi was wrong but under the circumstances as Prachi had not confessed her love to Milind and had remained quiet when neev confessed his love to her...
Yes Prachi had not confessed her love for him. But she had showed him how much she cared for him through her actions. As to not saying anything when Neev confessed his love she was too much in shock (coming so close to death there is no other way she could have reacted). She tried to give an explanation later but the guy had already made his assumptions and did not give her an opportunity. She also thought he spent the night with WWW and when he sought the divorce she assumed that it was because he wanted to get back with her (not realising that he wanted to free her). I will not give any excuses for Milsi. He was wrong and he was more than happy to admit his mistake and asked for her forgiveness through his actions. That is what sets him apart.People make mistakes but few admit it let alone ask for forgiveness from the person they have wronged, that too if that person happens to be one's own wife.
I don't blame Milind for coming to certain conclusion..... and also I would think if you were under the impression that your spouse betrayed you, emotions tend to overcome your logical senses or even the most humanitarian responses so I do not blame Milind for not trying to find Prachi on the first day of their divorce proceedings as his wanting to pay ransom money shows that he still could not see her in pain....but seeing her put him in pain....so if Prachi left he would not be reminded of her betrayal and it makes sense for him not to run after her then.................
I understand this too but the point I was making is that he failed in his humanitarian obligation. A woman is out all night. Her mother and his father are worried for her safety. Should he not be worried about it? Or did he assume that Neev will take care of her? He let his anger cloud his humane qualities. But the way the guy broke down in the court room the next day made you feel sorry for him. This guy wears his heart on his sleeve. His pain becomes your pain. He suffered as much as he made her suffer. Maybe even more because she had become his life. If he had never come to know of the truth and the divorce had gone through, I feel the man would have been so broken that he would have never recovered from it. For all his failings the guy was willing to pay with his life. Now how much more can a man do for his wife?
but other than that I do agree with every thing you have said....
You can still hold on to your views. Have no problems with that.
Also I would think out of the other nominations Robbie would be the strongest competitor..........even though their marriage is in question...
I still feel Milind is a far superior pati than Robbie.
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