What Neev said is so true

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey guys i just firgured out that what Neev said was so true!

There are only somethings that Neev knows about Prachi and some things that Prachi knows about Neev.

And when Neev was like when he was dancing with Prachi "Shyad yehi kehte hai kismat".

The one thing the diffrenciates ChiNee from Michi to me is that even thought their love was very innocent and if any people think that its "puppy" love then they are very wrong. And as Prachi said if a person is giving pain to the person they are considering it as their right because they love them.

And when michians say that Milind - Prachi are "soulmates" I think to myself that they are wrong because soul means the living "creature" inside of you and mate means the meeting or "milan" of 2 souls.

First love is something to treasure in your heart and it dosen't mean everything but it does mean something as it was the first person who you loved and learned what it is to love, how it feels, and it is very heart warming to watch it grow upon the 2 people.

Pavana 😳

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hunny prachi don hv ne interest 2 give pain 2 neev she has already made it clear 2 neev dat she loves milind if neev doesnot undertands it &take da pain dat doesnot mean prachi loves neev i remember prachi told dis 2 www wen milsi was torturing her after he came 2 knw dat its prachi who is ritwik's mom milind was knowingly giving pain 2 prachi he was physically torturing her his intention was 2 give only pain 2 prachi he din want 2 c prachi happy dats why prachi said dat da person who loves u has da right 2 give u da pain 😊 coimn 2 chinee prachi want neev 2 b happy she too wants neev 2 find his love &move ahead in his lyf den how can u say dat she is giving pain 2 neev? 😕 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Obviously there will be certain things that Neev knows about Prachi and vice versa that others would not know. After all they know each other for twenty years. So that does not make them soul mates. I am sure it is the same with MA too since they also know each other since childhood.

Neev may still love Prachi but Prachi has moved on and loves Milind. In fact I would say that both she and Milsi learnt love from each other - the kind of love that a man and woman have for each other. If love has to be judged by how much pain one inflicts on the other thinking that is their right, then Michi score here too. Prachi watched Milsi suffer during the PIM track and yet did not tell him the truth. Maybe she thought she had the right to inflict that pain! Anyway I dont agree with Prachi's definition of love.

Be that as it may, the whole concept of soulmate is hyped too much. In real life it is very rare to find. No, Neev and Prachi are definitely not soul mates and I doubt even Michi can be called that. But the beauty of Michi is that they are willing to work through their differences and grow as a couple. If two people are exactly the same then there is no scope to grow as one would just replicate the other. On the other hand in the case of two people with opposite temperaments like Michi, one can imbibe the good in the other and develop one's character. That is what we are seeing in Michi, each has taken the postives of the other. Milsi has become a softer, more tender person and Prachi has become a more confidant and bold person.

Marriage is not a cake walk. There needs to be compromises and sacrifices and as long as the two individuals involved are willing to make that for the love of each other, nobody can come between them.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree w/ you parvana, there are somethings about prachi that milind may never know about her and thats the beauty of chinee's relationship..even though they're not together they'll be there for one another
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Posted: 17 years ago
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as a married woman, i'd say there are lots and lots of things about me that my friends and my brother would know, but my husband wouldn't - things like which was my favourite sport as a kid? - but what does that say about my relationship with my husband?

i think knowing all the details of someone's past and loving them truly and deeply and wholly are two different things.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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How can someone be your soulmate on the premise that he or she knows a few details about you that no one else knows? I find that notion quite unthinkable..I really don't know what Neev wants or expects from Prachi..The only thing that I know is that I feel bad for Neev seeing the way Dadi is misguiding him and giving him false hopes...No one can rob him of the right of being Prachi's best friend and he has always proved to be one..[Until that day when he dreamt of going and proposing to her]..But even now Neev has maintained his distance from Prachi because he knows how much Milind means to her...I think Dadi should learn something from him..! All i would say is that if Neev really wants to be happy, he needs to get over Prachi..He is only living in dillusion if he feels that Prachi will leave Milind and come to him...
Sorry for digressing from the topic, but this is my opinion...And yes, Neev and Prachi are in no way soulmates...Infact as Opti rightly said, it is very difficult to find a 'soulmate' in today's world...!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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😃I will read after some time..I think some rocking points
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasantha_rao07

😃I will read after some time..I think some rocking points

VASU we r waiting for ur negative points😆😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: trros

VASU we r waiting for ur negative points😆😉



Minu,u just stay there ..don't move...haan!!!!.I will come ...u r 😆too much my angel😆🤗🤗

Minu yaar,in real life there is no such thing as perfect soul mate yaar

We r all mortals with high imperfections...Rel'ships r all about adjusting😵and moving on..

But we depend and expect that someone should love us wholeheartedly🤢..and that simply isn't the case in reality.To expect people to give us happiness
is the tragic thing

There is someone up there who loves us...just as we r ....👏with our weaknesses👏He deserves all our attention👏

Me ..becoming philosophical today😲

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasantha_rao07


Minu,u just stay there ..don't move...haan!!!!.I will come ...u r 😆too much my angel😆🤗🤗Minu yaar,in real life there is no such thing as perfect soul mate yaarWe r all mortals with high imperfections...Rel'ships r all about adjusting😵and moving on..But we depend and expect that someone should love us wholeheartedly🤢..and that simply isn't the case in reality.To expect people to give us happinessis the tragic thing There is someone up there who loves us...just as we r ....👏with our weaknesses👏He deserves all our attention👏Me ..becoming philosophical today😲


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