MA & MP Ownership - Page 2

Originally posted by: vasantha_rao07

Milind is very possessive abt Ayesha..Why don't I see when it comes to My galI would love to see an aggressive Milind ..higly possessive😳.
He looks calmly at my gal..and that is his love

Vasu, how you can say he is not possessive about Prachi? The guy was insanely jealous even before he realised his love for Prachi. All the problems between them stemmed from his insecurities concerning NP relationship. Yes, he is not aggressive with her once he realised her love for him. And that is how it should be. If one truely loves one does not try to own but one surrenders. When two people who love each other surrender to one another, body and soul, both end up also owning each other, both physically and emotionally. That is the beauty of love. The more you give the more you receive. I would'nt want Milsi any other way around Prachi. The softness with which he looks at her tugs at my heart much more strongly that all the so called passion he is supposed to have had for Ayesha.

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

With the excess of MA scenes, one thing comes clear, they both treat each other like property. There is just this constant battle to possess, dominate each other or bend the other's will to their liking. Especially on Milind's part, there was always this need to change Ayesha, either because he believed it was for her own good or what she was doing just didn't sit well with him. All I can say, Ayesha really must have lost it for her to want him back. Anyone watch Bridget Jones' Diary. There was this really great part where Mark Darcy tells Bridget he likes her just the way she is. Well, Milind never seemed to accept Ayesha just the way she is, even during their relatively more innocent chawl days.

And this just makes the MP relationship even more of a stark contrast. Milind undoubtedly, was even more rough with Prachi, seeing that she would never physically put up a fight. But it was always due to her supposed betrayals and infidelity. He never once objected to things like how she dressed or acted in public. More ever, there is just this sense that while Milind wanted to own Ayesha, with Prachi it feels as if she owns him and he would gladly bend to her will.

😊this is so true and I agree with u Milind will do anything for Prachi without asking her why or what for😃

and as for Ayesha🐷🤢what can the poor guy do?she act like a PIG that she is and one can not do anything but try 2 see if u can change a pig,and Milind is trying his best😆😆

but my Prachi she need no changing at all because she is a ready made angle❤️and as we all know that anybody would or will do anything to have an angle like Prachi in his home and lives😃😃

Originally posted by: vasantha_rao07

😆 The post was nice...we all know...😆OH!!!!!!panache😆😆
As for putting down my thoughts....They both treat each other as property
I don't like that....but it is true...he appears very pasionate when it comes top ayesha..their early scenes 🤢the guy wasssssssssssssssss😲 😲 😲

Milind is very possessive abt Ayesha..Why don't I see when it comes to My galI would love to see an aggressive Milind ..higly possessive😳.
He looks calmly at my gal..and that is his love

😲😲Hey mama I can not believe u just said that about Milind not been aggressive or possesive when it come 2 Prachi don't u see how he was all out 2 destroy Neev when he thought that Prachi was still in love with or that she even have a baby with him?to me Milind will kill anybody who try 2 take his Prachi away from him,but with Ayesha🤢all that I can see or have seen is that she herself is making him do all that with her😡and that is why I call her a PIG,it's so disgusting 2 watch🤢😡

😉wande baby............I got it

beautifully put optimist 👏 i miss michi so much now 😭

😭😭😭when will Mr.Milind mishra recogniize my gal😕

Originally posted by: vasantha_rao07

😭😭😭when will Mr.Milind mishra recogniize my gal😕

vasu, lets hope its soon...i cant take this krap any longer😡

MA wanted to own eachother and MICHI wanted to be CLAIMED by each other.And they waited didnt even say anything.I suppose they were scared of being rejected cause they thought the other one didnt want them.Duffers🤗.Uff I soo loved that track eventhough they dragged it. SP did a fantastic job as MICHI yearning for eachother..

Beautiful post Opti and cool topic BC.

Originally posted by: optimist

BC, I was just about to make a post on this. Glad you did. I had earlier said this elsewhere. Ayesha and Milind are just not meant to be because both are alike in temperament (pretty hot headed and stubborn) but poles apart in character. Any union between them would have spelt doom. While for Milsi, family ties matter, for Ayesha they dont, because she never had a real family and when she did have a chance to make a family, she blew it. Milsi gives a lot of respect to elders (even if he may not always agree with what they say). We saw that in his interactions with his father and PL. Ayesha does not know the first thing about respect. Milsi will always put the interests of the ones he loves over his own. Ayesha is too self centered to look beyond herself. If she did, she would not have instigated Suki to elope or kidnap Ritwik to let his baba know the'truth' or deliberately drive a wedge between Milsi and Prachi knowing how much he loves her. So if they had gotten together their lives would have been sure hell.

Milsi and Prachi are opposites in temperaments but very much alike in character. That is why their union is blessed and they would make a successful pair.

Oooh I know there's a post of yours I wanted to reply to, when I wanted to I had to go and then after days when I returned I couldn't find/forgot which post. Now I remember the post but I'll just reply here.

I disagree. Ayesha and Milind were not only similar in temperament, and definitely not poles apart in character. We talked about the old Ayesha, prior her revenge act. She was definitely not self-centered (why would she bother about Prachi and Sukreti if she was), she had strong feeling of justice and she didn't hold excessive prejudice (the good trait I noticed Milind didn't have), and it's really not that she didn't appreciate family relationship. Actually that can't be more wrong. Her only family was her mother, and even when her mother had somewhat failed her as a mother more or less since she was born, for her mother's sake she was willing to do basically everything. She did show appropriate respect for the elders she met, even more than what Milind ever showed during those times. Even before the revenge oath she had problem to regard the Shah as her family, but seeing how Dadi and Alaap and the rest of the family besides Prachi and PL treated her, no surprise there.

Ayesha's journey to nothingness regarding characterization might seem natural just like a real person change from good to bad. But it's not really natural, and it's evident seeing how from July her mother just disappeared while staying in Shah Mansion.

Magno, I cannot vouch for this as I did not see much of old Ayesha. So may be I am not really qualified to comment on it. But considering her turnaround, I think these evil qualities were latent in her which would have surfaced sooner or later and would have driven a wedge between Milsi and Ayesha.

Let us say she acted the way she did because of what was done to her. Even then it gives no excuse for the way she behaved with Milsi's family who have done nothing but good to her. For a man for whom she had scant regard for considering that it is she who readily gave up on him for her stupid revenge, her measures are extreme to say the least.

It is always easy to be good when things work your way but more difficult to retain the same qualities even when things are not going your way. Milsi despite all his weaknesses has shown to rise above petty revenge even when initially he hits back. He does not hold grudges forever, something WWW has never or will never learn. Even when he believed Ritwik was Prachi's illegitimate child he still gave her the ransom money and went behind her to ensure her safety. He has a basic humaness which does not disappear even when he believes he is wronged. WWW does not appear t have that. So if it had not been the Shah chaos, there could have been something else which could have triggered these latent qualities of hers which would have made Milsi's life miserable. &n bsp;