Ayesha - What marriage means to her - Page 2

Shanta, understand your point.

Pippa, understand yours too. She is one confused soul but a very dangerous and ruthless one at that. For even amidst all her confusion she sometimes acts very manipulatively and calculatively.If we have the misfortune of seeing Michi divorce and Mam happily thinks Milsi will accept her in a jiffy she is in for a rude shock. As they say 'Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned'. One can expect her to come up with the most bizarre way to get him at any cost. Here I am guessing FP.

Magno, I frankly did not understand anything you said. So you are saved from the tomatoes!

Originally posted by: optimist

Magno, I frankly did not understand anything you said. So you are saved from the tomatoes!

😡 You are not serious, right... But I'm kind so I'll rephrase anyway😊. I too think she doesn't respect the institution of marriage, for her it's nothing since she doesn't love Neev. Her feelings and emotions matter much more to her than the sacred bond of marriage. But in her own way she loves Milind so I'm confident if she ever gets her hands on him again (hah won't ever happen) and marry him she would respect the relationship. Not because of the institution itself but because of her love. She'll be a good, loyal wife. Yay. Did I manage to rephrase of am I just repeating...

Magno, her love for Milsi, my foot. Remember her telling Neev that she does not care for anyone's happiness but hers and that even if she leaves Milsi no one else can have him? This does not look like love to be.

And she knows that Milsi loves Prachi. This she realised that night in Panshmeshwar when she tried to seduce Milsi. She was telling him that this Prachi has such a hold on him that he is not willing to come to her even though he claims to hate her. In fact she was the first to realise the change in Milsi's feelings towards Prachi, long before Milsi or Prachi realised it (the night of the independence day party). Still she puts him through so much torture to get him at any cost.

She may say that she is trying to save him from the drama queen Prachi. But even she realises Prachi's love for Milsi though she is not admitting it to herself, as admitting that would mean accepting that she is wrong in her judgement of Prachi, as Shanta put it. So at the end of it, one thing is certain she definitely does not love Milsi. I doubt whether she is capable of loving anyone but herself right now.

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Pippa, understand yours too. She is one confused soul but a very dangerous and ruthless one at that. For even amidst all her confusion she sometimes acts very manipulatively and calculatively.If we have the misfortune of seeing Michi divorce and Mam happily thinks Milsi will accept her in a jiffy she is in for a rude shock. As they say 'Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned'. One can expect her to come up with the most bizarre way to get him at any cost. Here I am guessing FP.

Opti, I seriously doubt whether they'll use the FP now. It's over a year since the two couples got married and considering that the fake ONS happened soon after that, say a month or two, ayesha should be heavily pregnant as we speak, which she is not.

I don't know if you read my 'kurk buddhi' story line in KYTh episode thread...I think, (the 'kurk buddhi' thanks to watching many a BT story). There, I said that Ayesha could fool Prachi into believing that MA'd spent a night together in Panchmeeswar but when Prachi confronts Mils with it, he'd think that it was the fake "ONS' and admit his shame. This could cause problems but not a pregnancy as even Mils knows no one goes for so many months without showing.

I take the last bit about Mils back. He obviously thought the whole family was deaf, dumb and blind when wifey was 'pregnant' with Ritwick!

Opti lovely post...and I missed it...god only knows how...😆

Ok...as its never to late....my two cents.....😆😆😆

There are many beautiful point given by BC, Shali, Pippa...yourself....and Magno (whose POV...I don't agree with at all...even the first time she wrote it...😆)

Ayesha.....is a product of her parents....she saw her mother suffer...froma very yonng age.....right after a child noties things.....and thus...her mothers madness ...has left a very bad impression on her.....about love...marriage...adn father figures....

In the beginning..she did not even...want to met Prachi's father....due to her hate and her mistrust for those figures....

In the same way...her...bad qualitues..her hatered rose to the surface...curtosy...Alaap...who did the untinkable...by insluting...the one person that emant to her more then anything...her mom...who was less of a mother to her...but a child she took care off...

She was led to beleive that Prachi was part of the bad joke played on her...thus...stemed her hatered for Prachi....the priviliged and loved daughter of Inder Shah.....

And all that she flet...for...her father as a man...all that hatered that she had bottled up...from the beginning...came out with force to be...leashed against...Prachi....

Thus...what ever Prahi ..has she wants.....be it Neev...be it the family house...be...it repect...love....

Thus..on finding out that the one person that loved her...and she may have in her own way in the beginning...ends up marrying ...the same person she hates....makes her.....anger and hatered fro Prachi increase....beleiving that...it was all Prachi's doing....again...

Taking away all that Belonged to her...like her father....her mothers happiness....and now..the one person who truly loved her....Milland...

Thus..she wants Milland back...as she knows in her heart..that Prachi...does not feel a thing for Neev....

And...marriage to Milland is the only way to hurt.....Prachi the most....thenany other thing that she did...

For her marriage...never was something...she looked up too....and the only way she may ever do that...is when she forgets and forgoes...all that pent up hatered and finds closeure....to all her pains....

Only and only then will Ayesha understand and respect relationships....

Sorry for my blabbering😆....hope I made sense....😃

Krishna, agree that Ayesha must realise that Prachi loves Milind. So her drive to seperate her from him and get married to him is understandable, though not acceptable.

But what is confusing is that on the day she read Suki's letter in the garden she tells herself she will not let Milsi know the truth because then he will get back with Prachi. Then again she wonders whether that will not make Milsi hate her. But she justifies her secrecy saying that she will not let Prachi win, because she never loved Milsi and everything is an act. If that is what she believes, then why this sudden urge to divorce Neev and marry Milsi? It cannot be for revenge because then she believes Prachi still loves Neev, by freeing Neev she is letting Prachi win.

Then again in yesterday's episode her expression was a little confusing. When Milsi was accusing Prachi of still carrying on with Neev behind his back she looked kind of guilty as though she knew that was not true.

I guess Ayesha is as confused a character as Milsi right now. Together they are getting us confused!!!

Originally posted by: optimist

Krishna, agree that Ayesha must realise that Prachi loves Milind. So her drive to seperate her from him and get married to him is understandable, though not acceptable.

Yes ...understandable...but never acceptable...at all😡

But what is confusing is that on the day she read Suki's letter in the garden she tells herself she will not let Milsi know the truth because then he will get back with Prachi. Then again she wonders whether that will not make Milsi hate her. But she justifies her secrecy saying that she will not let Prachi win, because she never loved Milsi and everything is an act. If that is what she believes, then why this sudden urge to divorce Neev and marry Milsi? It cannot be for revenge because then she believes Prachi still loves Neev, by freeing Neev she is letting Prachi win.

I know....the whole comnversation was confusing....we got to see the good side of Ayesha...after so long.....the level headed girl...who used to analyse everything before making a decision....

Her hatered...of Prachi......and her obsession with Milland is clouding her mind.... It was so evident...her knowing in her heart...and sub-conciousness...that Prahi...is not acting...loves Milland...but..her hatered...the thing that happened to her and her mom...by the hands of Alaap....make her think...otherwise...that Prachi...is acting...as she acted to be her friend....As she clearly blames Prachi for the whole insulting incident.....Prachi...broke her trust...just like Inder broke her mothers trust..heart.........she was betrayed ...by Prachi her friend....who she trusted.....as Ayesha never trusted anyone...before she met Prachi.....

Then again in yesterday's episode her expression was a little confusing. When Milsi was accusing Prachi of still carrying on with Neev behind his back she looked kind of guilty as though she knew that was not true.

Again...sub-consiousness...and her heart...knowing the truth....brought on gulit....

I guess Ayesha is as confused a character as Milsi right now. Together they are getting us confused!!!

More then confused....shes....in the dark.....where her head is ruling over her ...heart...and her sub-concious , analysing brain..

Millisi..is the confused one...as he beleives ...an still does not beleive..Prachi can be that cruel...

Originally posted by: optimist

Magno, her love for Milsi, my foot. Remember her telling Neev that she does not care for anyone's happiness but hers and that even if she leaves Milsi no one else can have him? This does not look like love to be.

And she knows that Milsi loves Prachi. This she realised that night in Panshmeshwar when she tried to seduce Milsi. She was telling him that this Prachi has such a hold on him that he is not willing to come to her even though he claims to hate her. In fact she was the first to realise the change in Milsi's feelings towards Prachi, long before Milsi or Prachi realised it (the night of the independence day party). Still she puts him through so much torture to get him at any cost.

She may say that she is trying to save him from the drama queen Prachi. But even she realises Prachi's love for Milsi though she is not admitting it to herself, as admitting that would mean accepting that she is wrong in her judgement of Prachi, as Shanta put it. So at the end of it, one thing is certain she definitely does not love Milsi. I doubt whether she is capable of loving anyone but herself right now.

Actually it's my foot as well. I mean if someone offers me that kind of love I would smack it accross the room. But as the saying goes 'the depth of the ocean can be measured but never people's hearts', I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt. Since she always says and thinks that she loves Milind, and few times actually kinda acted like she does, I'm sticking to the point that she indeed loves him in her own way. Could be said that her love is worthless but just because we don't think it's love it doesn't mean it's not love. She has said to Milind she would never let any other men touch her and I believed her, that's where I got my confidence that she will be faithful to her marriage with Milind, at least physically. Later on if she falls in love with Neev I'm sure she will be faithful to him. Anyway basically I'm very much hopeful that Ayesha can return to her old self.

Krishna (and Optimist), as for Ayesha divorcing Neev I don't think it's too confusing. She still cares about destroying Prachi but I think her current main goal is to get Milind back. That's her priority. And I think her knowledge that Prachi loves Milind (if she knows it) is in very subconcious level that she would not acknowledge it to herself. Her stand is that Prachi only wants to steal Milind from her, Prachi the hateful liar. These are the things that make me hopeful that creative are contemplating on bringing her back to previous Ayesha. Otherwise they wouldn't have make things so complicated and inconsistent with her character. Though maybe as usual they are plain lazy to fix the pattern.

The truth is I'm a very focused person, all my attention, love and hate is for Michi. Most of the time I can't care less about other characters... So Ayesha should feel lucky that I think this much about her😃