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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sum2005

or may be milind know ayesha very well and he is quite thinking ayesha may do further harm to prachi if he confesses that he loves prachi .....ayesha can go to any extend to harm prachi once she hear milind confession of love towards prachi...... or we can think milind was so irritated by ayesha presence and dont want to share how he feels about prachi as one can share their dil ka mamla only to close ones and milind not even think ayesha as friend now for him she is just a person who lives in shah mansion.

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I like to believe in those lines too Sum.😊

Ayesha is the last person that Milind want to discuss about his life with Prachi.On that fire episode (created by A destroying MP's bedroom) when A questioned Milind whether Prachi is the reason that he is far away ,He said that he has no haq over Prachi too and just ended 'Prachi'discussion right there.Not sure that decision was deliberate or not that day ..Could be his way of protecting P from A's wrath since he knows their history.😕


Why should he discuss anything about P with Ayesha ?? He is least interested about sharing the most important matter in his life with Ayesha and always end up saying useless blunders about his feelings about P shutting up A's qns and hence ending'Prachi' the discussions.He never forgets to torture himself in that process.. ..

Milind doesnt even want to hear Ayesha's voice let alone her bhashans and is getting highly irritated by her shayari and intentions.Forget all that,Milind cant even relate to her most of the time..

But seriously wish he puts 1 pound of cotton ball in both his ears so that he doesnt have to hear this woman and end up saying such insane declarations.

Edited by lvsgm - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: lvsgm

I like to believe in those lines too Sum.😊

me too😃..but then only the creative really know😆...or it could all be sub-conciousness..,...😕

But seriously wish he puts 1 pound of cotton ball in both his ears so that he doesnt have to hear this woman and end up saying such insane declarations.

😆 Now Anju the question is ..wilkll that mmuch cotton really help him???? 😆 Knowing Ayesha .......she may just steal the cotton away😆.......or might tell Prachi....he does not want to even hear your voice.....so the cotton...and our Prahi being the duffer she is ...will beleive her readily....😆

I am for him stappling his mouth when ever he is around...Ayesha...so he does not blurt inane...stuoid dialogues...😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: shananubis

I feel that Milind is leading Ayesha on. Why can't he tell her there is no love left between them. Ayesha had made very clear with her actions that she still wants Milind. He should have got the idea by her speech during his b'day party and her outburst that day. I think she beleives in her mind that if Prachi is not there Milind will go back to her, which is not the case.

I can understand to an extend, Milind cannot tell Prachi that he loves her as he is not sure about her feelings towards him. But he should understand Ayesha. Afterall they are childhood friends. He should make it clear what he feels for Ayesha. This attitude will create more problems for him in the future.

This is exactly like in Kasamh se where Pia will go on rambling about Jai and Bani not loving eachother and they do not care to make it clear to her.

Atleast Prachi is not leading Neev on like this.

Shan



To a certain degree I do agree with your post, I can see where the point came from.

However I think Ryka's right:

Originally posted by: Ryka

Milind is NOT leading Ayesha on. Ayesha knows for a fact that Milind has moved on... and is NEVER coming back... and still she goes abt doing idiotic things. I believe Milind telling her wont have any effect on her idiotic behaviour... because he has spoken to her before.

Milind has told her categorically that he is divorcing Prachi NOT to get back with her but to set Prachi free and give her all the happiness.
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IF she is committing a sin of separating two souls hopelessly in love... then she doesnt deserve any sympathy😡[/quote]
Yup. Don't they say something about kicked by a horse for those who stand in loves' way?

Exactly. Stop doing that, Milind!


Eewww... I truly hope that won't happen😆





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Posted: 18 years ago
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Edited by lvsgm - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ryka


The truth is the same thing... it doesnt matter how u realise it, by hearing it or seeing it... what matters is realising it. If Ayesha thinks that Milind loves her... then I will buy arguement that Milind is leading her on... But Ayesha knows herself that Milind Loves Prachi and has moved on.... No one can blame Milind for leading her on... because every gesture of him only goes to prove he loves Prachi more than himself, more than he ever did or could ever love Ayesha and Ayesha knows that too... she is a bad loser... cant see the happiness of that one man she claims to love. What Prachi did with Neev is what Milind does with Ayesha aswell... it is just that Neev was more dignified in accepting the truth when he saw and realised Michi's love and Ayesha is being vampish about it. The difference is in not how Milind and Prachi are dealing with their Past... but how their Past chooses to influence their lives... Neev is dignified abt it, Ayesha isnt!

On a different note... No matter how much Ayesha would have suffered, she has no bloody right to ruin the happiness of others who havent done anything for her but genuinely loved her. IF she is committing a sin of separating two souls hopelessly in love... then she doesnt deserve any sympathy😡 I am completely ok if Ayesha has false hopes of Milind coming back to her.... Her punishment will be that she will fall flat on her face everytime she tries to get close to Milind... She can keep running behind a Mirage that never existed and never will! She deserves no compassion, sympathy or forgiveness atleast from those two people whose Life, Love, Marriage, Turst & Happiness she so ruthlessly is playing around with SECOND time in a row😡.

Well put Ryka.. 👏👏 Your post made me think again. You have put some very valid points here.

Its just that I feel Prachi is more forthright to Neev than Milind is with Ayesha. May be the guilt for fake ONS has to do a major part in this. But still why should he just go on rambling abt "there is nothing between me and Prachi" in front of Ayesha.

Shan

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Do you remember the night of the fake ONS? Milind clearly says to Ayesha - main Prachise koi pyar vyar nahi karta, pyar karta hoon ton tujhse - I don't remember the exact words. I think he is using Ayesha right now, to create distance between him and Prachi - and creating a real monster-witch in the process..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: gawker

Do you remember the night of the fake ONS? Milind clearly says to Ayesha - main Prachise koi pyar vyar nahi karta, pyar karta hoon ton tujhse - I don't remember the exact words. I think he is using Ayesha right now, to create distance between him and Prachi - and creating a real monster-witch in the process..

True - how did we forget this?

Mi keeps sending out mixed signals Duffer, please make it clear to Ayesha at least, if not Prachi, that you love your wife 😭

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think Miland was quite clear regarding his seperation with Prachi in only one conversation with Ayesha. Ayesha was in misunderstanding that he is divorcing Prachi to be with Bhootni, he told Ayesha clearly that he is divorcing Prachi so she can be reunited with Neev, not because he wants to stay with her, but I guess that went in Ayesha's ear and went out of the other...😕

But yes he should be more clearer in ALL instances, conversations with Ayesha.

Edited by $weet Ema - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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My 2 cents -

Milind IS leading Ayesha on... deliberately or not, consciously or not... dosent matter... the fact remains he is...and he will be held responsible and holding him responsible will be justified coz Ayesha's actions and reactions are revolving around his reactions to her... or rather the absence of them... his denial towards his feelings for Prachi...and his acceptance f the love he had for Ayesha...

I had this bit posted in another thread , but felt it was connecting to this topic as well and posting it here too!

At the risk of being misunderstood and misinterpreted, I go on here to put forth my opinion and stand point...

My apologies to anyone who directly or indirectly feels offended... none is intended however...

I believe that with the viewers connecting to the characters at a level, beyond the fact that they are jus characters, we tend to bias our viewpoints, which are but natural and in no way can be held against one...

But yet, I beg to differ and see it different…

Ayesha, a pivotal character in the story, has been shown as an ex-love who feels jilted in love, which jus only leads the viewers to treat her as a negative character, and not choose to look beyond than what we are expected to see…

Sad, that we chose to be lead by the creative team to believe that to feel jilted and sad , on losing something is to be negative , and not attempt to look beyond and deeper into the character…

Please bear in mind, this is not a rampant Ayesha's defense post, but rather as I perceive it , a objective view of what is transpiring now, considering Ayesha's integral role in the sequence of events….

Ayesha and Milind have grown up together, seen each other through the thick and thin, and one can safely say, they are predictable enough for each other, to react and respond to each other's reactions…

A deeper connection, a step beyond their close friendship might have only been natural… but if one were to look at Ayesha… and her support system; Milind has been an integral part, even if one may argue, that he wasn't the only one…

Milind has been always aware of Ayesha's rationale behind her actions, her anger, and her bitterness…which was only evident during the episode of him snatching the shah house from her back, to give it to his darling wife…

The man did play on her weakness to suit to his advantage… and someone who has had a undeniable knowledge of how she would react and her rationale for her actions, could have done what he did…

The very reason, Milind married, was coz he was playing on Ayesha's jealousy… and to vent his own anger at what had been done unto him by her, and to get back to her, by hurting her where it pricked the most … his importance in her life…

The man has been aware of how Ayesha felt towards him, reacted to him, and more so, saw in him… and the importance of him in her life… and that cannot be denied…no matter what…

The supposed ONS, that transpired, only made Milind cringe in guilt for the fact that he had not given the support to Ayesha, that she was looking for, instead, took advantage of her presence …

The aftermath of the birthday party, saw Milind rushing to Ayesha, with concern about her behavior…the very gesture of rushing to her, could not make it any clearer than it has , that Milind stands by her today too as a good buddy… as someone who has seen her , through her tuff times, shared his own pain, and her pain …

It was certainly a very empathic moment between the two when Ayesha poured out her heart to Him, momentarily forgetting her vengeance and angst at his marriage to Prachi, but for the simple fact that she was losing out on his support on her life… The only constant thing in her life, until… things took a turn on a different tangent…

No denying that, Ayesha is responsible for the mess that she is in, but when it comes to her relation with Milind, there is no denying that he is the support factor for her, in her life…

With an ailing, demented, jilted in love woman for a Mum, who she had to mother, when she needed that support herself and to grow far beyond her age, losing out on childhood innocence, Ayesha has walked a tuff path. She wasn't even blessed with a family as was Milind… who eventually, she regarded as family… her complete support system…

And Milind was aware of this more than anything else, about his importance in her life… and that's undeniable…

One would only expect Milind to stand by her as a friend and let her know that all is over between them, and that he would stand by her as a friend… coz he does know Ayesha is still holding on to the past …

But much to add to turmoil to Ayesha's troubled psyche at the moment, he choses to keep quiet and only utter that he dosent have anything to do with Prachi… which only adds fuel to assumptions of Ayesha, that she is still important in his life, coz he didnt deny her presence..!

I see that Milind treats Ayesha as a frined, and pours out his heart to her… even his denials to her, but the same way he should even let it out the he dosent see Ayesha as a life companion anymore…. Knowing she is building her hopes… by the minute, what with her screaming her lungs out screaming he is hers all the time, in his face….

One may argue that Milind is lost in his own god forsaken sad saga of love, to give Ayesha any importance, but the man, will find only himself to blame … at a later point when things out of hand…

Not accepting a relation is way different from denying it on the face, which always gives a tone of finality…

Silence may be golden, but misinterpreted the most!

Ayesha will be justified if at a later point she turns to Milind " Tune kabhi inkaar bhi nahin kiya ki tu mujhse pyaar karta hai" because Milind has only done that… Kept mum… for his own pathetic sake…

Ayesha has been given every reason by Milind to be believe that what she was thinking was right… even when he said.." Maine tujhse pyaar kiya hai .." Mere aur prachi ke beech mein kuch nahin hai.." …

The man had umpteen chances after the so called ONS to clear his stand and apologize to her but didn't, instead he sulked given his sad assumptions abt his saga of love…and chose to ignore the ONS faade and not clear the stand that Ayesha was wrong in her thinking…

Milind may not be leading her on deliberately, but the fact of the matter is … "HE IS "… Period… Keeping mum and ignoring things don't solve matters…it jus worsens them…

If Milind indeed treats Ayesha as a friend and intends to be one to her, he certainly isn't behaving as one… certainly not… well actually , as a selfish friend to vent his own god damn denials abt his love to her…

If there is anyone who can bring Ayesha out of her turmoil, it would be Milind, by letting her know , she has not lost his support, but only that he has a life with prachi too... and he has accepted too...

Ayesha's actions have always been revolved or based on Milind's actions.. or words and he has been the only one person, she has paid heed to ... and he being aware can only respect that and stand by her... instead of staying mum...

If anyone can make Ayesha realize... it will have to be Milind, coz Ayesha would only be willing to listen to the one person she considers family... the one support in her life,... she has held on to ... in her life...for her own dear life... for her own troubled...sake..!

Neev spoke to Prachi, knowing she was the quieter kinds, who possibly might not have voiced out her thoughts in front of MIlind and cleared her stand, but was only surprised to know she had ... and then chose not to interfere...

Well surprising Milind didnt even come close to being as good as a friend as what Neev is to Prachi!

Milind stands guilty as charged in my eyes!

I rest my case …

Edited by sareeta - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: shananubis

I feel that Milind is leading Ayesha on. yehh i think so too. Why can't he tell her there is no love left between them. i know.. wait i think that he's scared.. scared that if prachi leaves him he'll have no one.. Ayesha had made very clear with her actions that she still wants Milind. yehh she DEFINETLY did.. He should have got the idea by her speech during his b'day party Hmm.. who knows. and her outburst that day. I think she beleives in her mind that if Prachi is not there Milind will go back to her, which is not the case. yehh that is soo not d case.. miland wont go back to ayesha fr quite a while.

I can understand to an extend, Milind cannot tell Prachi that he loves her as he is not sure about her feelings towards him. yehh this is sooo true. but at least he can give her some hints right? 😕 But he should understand Ayesha. Afterall they are childhood friends. He should make it clear what he feels for Ayesha. like i said B4 he's probably scared. This attitude will create more problems for him in the future. yehh love triangle b/w prachi-miland-ayesha.. though it's already a triangle. LOL 😆

Atleast Prachi is not leading Neev on like this. thank god. i will kill her if she let neev on like that.. and he was still crying fr her.. like seriously i will kill her.

Shan

awww.. d baby in ur siggnature is chooo cuteee..

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