Milind’s attitude towards Ayesha

I feel that Milind is leading Ayesha on. Why can't he tell her there is no love left between them. Ayesha had made very clear with her actions that she still wants Milind. He should have got the idea by her speech during his b'day party and her outburst that day. I think she beleives in her mind that if Prachi is not there Milind will go back to her, which is not the case.

I can understand to an extend, Milind cannot tell Prachi that he loves her as he is not sure about her feelings towards him. But he should understand Ayesha. Afterall they are childhood friends. He should make it clear what he feels for Ayesha. This attitude will create more problems for him in the future.

This is exactly like in Kasamh se where Pia will go on rambling about Jai and Bani not loving eachother and they do not care to make it clear to her.

Atleast Prachi is not leading Neev on like this.

Shan

Shan..you said it perfectly..I have the same feeling too..but on the other hand he still thinks that he slept with her..there is a sense of guilt ......
'n may be that's why he is not able to clearly tell her that she is not part of his life anymore!

Shan that was brilliantly put.. i was wondering the same thing as well for many days now.. i agree he does feel a sense of guilt regarding the pretend ONS.. but still he doesn't have to turn a blind eye to all her crazy antics.. i mean he knew that Ayesha purposely stranded Prachi on the side of the road and yet he keeps quite.. not only that but when Ayesha taunts him about it he doesn't retaliate instead he gives this stupid line of there is no relation between us..?!

My point is he doesn't have to tell Ayesha about how deeply he feels for Prachi.. but telling her stuff like they have no relationship just encourages Ayesha into thinking that Milind still has feelings for her..!

I know he is feeling guilty regarding the ONS, but he should make it clear that there is nothing left between them.
I know considering Ayesha's charcter even if he says this she will still hunt Prachi. But then atleast he is not leading her on. Everytime he says 'there is no relation between me and Prachi', Ayesha will go on thinking that Milind still has feeling for her.

Ayesha was overconfident abt Milind's love for her, I think it is high time Milind show some sense and tell her that he has moved on.

s i too think so he is misleading her,iam glad that prachi doesnot letting neev that she still loves him because she knows that now she is married to millind &she has to be with him only for lifetime 😳 😳

Milind is NOT leading Ayesha on. Ayesha knows for a fact that Milind has moved on... and is NEVER coming back... and still she goes abt doing idiotic things. I believe Milind telling her wont have any effect on her idiotic behaviour... because he has spoken to her before.

Ayesha was the 1st one to sense Michi as a couple... she felt something when she saw Milind lead Prachi away in the Turkey after she lashed out on Prachi... she was freaking out at the thought of Milind hosting a party for Prachi... and whenever she saw them together she knew she could lose out on him... seeing that jealous reaction Milind planned to get married to Prachi for Revenge.

And from marriage Milind has always chosen Prachi over Ayesha... putting down Ayesha if required... be in fighting for Prachi's honour during the hotel scam or gifting the house to Prachi. He might have had his own intensions... but one of them for sure was for the regard he held for Prachi. And he made it obvious. And have u heard Ayesha address Prachi in a conversation with Milind? It is always "TERI Pyari Patni'. 'TERI Prachi' Now which girl who claims to be in love can call someone else her man's woman? No one can say it... even if one knows that is the truth... but this girl continously talks like that.... so she KNOWS!

And she knows Milind so well that she knows that he loves Prachi. He ran to get Prachi back and Ayesha went upto and told him 'Phir jaag uta pyar na Prachi keliye' Which was absolutely right! And didnt she recite an entire poem about how this person who was never away from her is so far away, everything is the same but the emotions have changed... the Man who existed in past doesnt exist anymore. What more do u want her to realise? And Milind ignored her even when she was staring at him from such proximity. This was the same guy who for years used to stand in the corner and stare at her... now he cant tolerate her sight nor her voice... and Ayesha KNOWS it, didnt she cry over it? She probably knows more than Michi themselves on how much they love eachother... What is that you want Milind to tell her when she knows everything? Ironically it is the magnitude of Love that Michi have for eachother that she is using to separate them... She doesnt tell Milind or Prachi that she loves Milind, but always tells Prachi that Milind isnt happy with her and tells Milind Prachi cant be happy with him. And the two idiots are ready to live apart if their love's happiness is in someone else.

Milind has told her categorically that he is divorcing Prachi NOT to get back with her but to set Prachi free and give her all the happiness.

And who can forget the I Day party when he snubbed Ayesha royally and defeated her intensions of getting him change the shirt? For all these years Milind- Ayesha have celebrated Janamastami together... this year did Milind even glance at Ayesha? He is in his own world and Ayesha doesnt feature in it at all. Whaever interaction he cares to have with Ayesha is because has known her all his life... else it really wont make a difference to him if he never got to see her or heard from her.

The truth is the same thing... it doesnt matter how u realise it, by hearing it or seeing it... what matters is realising it. If Ayesha thinks that Milind loves her... then I will buy arguement that Milind is leading her on... But Ayesha knows herself that Milind Loves Prachi and has moved on.... No one can blame Milind for leading her on... because every gesture of him only goes to prove he loves Prachi more than himself, more than he ever did or could ever love Ayesha and Ayesha knows that too... she is a bad loser... cant see the happiness of that one man she claims to love. What Prachi did with Neev is what Milind does with Ayesha aswell... it is just that Neev was more dignified in accepting the truth when he saw and realised Michi's love and Ayesha is being vampish about it. The difference is in not how Milind and Prachi are dealing with their Past... but how their Past chooses to influence their lives... Neev is dignified abt it, Ayesha isnt!


On a different note... No matter how much Ayesha would have suffered, she has no bloody right to ruin the happiness of others who havent done anything for her but genuinely loved her. IF she is committing a sin of separating two souls hopelessly in love... then she doesnt deserve any sympathy😡 I am completely ok if Ayesha has false hopes of Milind coming back to her.... Her punishment will be that she will fall flat on her face everytime she tries to get close to Milind... She can keep running behind a Mirage that never existed and never will! She deserves no compassion, sympathy or forgiveness atleast from those two people whose Life, Love, Marriage, Turst & Happiness she so ruthlessly is playing around with SECOND time in a row😡.

👏 Mast...:D

But I believe Milind should categorically state that he loves Prachi just once in Ayesha's face, which will definitely wake her up.

Until now, Ryka is right, Ayesha is well-aware of MiChi's growing love, and therefore leaves no stones unturned to taunt Prachi. However, he hasn't spoken those thoughts out loud, which is encouraging Ayesha to harbor more obsessive feelings.

Instead of denying his continuing attraction towards Prachi in front of Ayesha (like under the tree in the previous episode, before Baba came in), he should just admit his love with a , "Dekh Ayesha...Bhale Hi Prachi Neev Ki Hona Chahe, Main Prachi se pyaar karne laga hoon aur hameshaa karta rahoonga" That would serve her right! 😡

Unfortunately, Milind is not being absolutely clear, which, according to Ayesha's twisted mind, implies that he is still worth a shot. 😭

Shan darling....wonderful post dear 😃and I did agree with all your points...until...I read Ryka dears post...😆😆

She brought to mind the scene...in which Milland clearly states to Ayesha...that she is not a part of his life at all....that he si divorcing Prachi so that she can liv ehappily with her love Neev...adn has nothing to do with him and her coming back together.

Even after the fake ONS....he was like it was a mistake...other then feeling guilty for something he did not do...he felt no love for Ayesha at all. None whatsoever....

Thus...hes not leading her on at all...he did not even want to dance with her on his birthday...but was forced by Ayesha...yes here he should have been more assertive in his rejection of her...but maybe was not as he id not want to insult her after he beleived he took undue advantage of her ...the fake ONS.

The only wrong I find with Milli is that he keeps trying to convinece himself that hes not in love with Prachi...by always harping it in front of Ayesha....thats what he is doing wrong...😡

Oh, and sometimes Milind's dialogues leave a lot of room for interpretation

For e.g., when Prachi returned with Baba, Ayesha got mad and jealous, and started whining about how she will be left alone because Chi is back...Mi replied with a, "Vo Is Ghar Me Wapas Aayi Hai, Meri Zindagi Me Nahin" or something similar

Actually, he was just extremely sad that she was back only for his dad, and his outburst was a way to console himself. But Ayesha took it to mean that since Mi seemed stubborn about not including PRachi in HIS life ('MERI zindagi me wapas nahin aayi hai'), he will accept HER very soon

THerefore, although Milind is not delibrately leading her on, his words can get quite misleading. The only way to keep Ayesha off his track is to be firm about his love for Prachi...words spoken out loud have a much higher impact at times.

or may be milind know ayesha very well and he is quite thinking ayesha may do further harm to prachi if he confesses that he loves prachi .....ayesha can go to any extend to harm prachi once she hear milind confession of love towards prachi...... or we can think milind was so irritated by ayesha presence and dont want to share how he feels about prachi as one can share their dil ka mamla only to close ones and milind not even think ayesha as friend now for him she is just a person who lives in shah mansion.

on the whole ayesha lost it...

one thing mam went with milind in the car hope she again wont seduce milind and this sobber teady bear this time may think it is prachi and have anather night with her.....