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Posted: 18 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Ryka

Kyun uske peeche pade ho tum log... He alone is enough to cause misery to Prachi and Himself along with all of us.

One minute... when has Milind been all chivalrous and gentlemanish to expect this from him? And by the way he reacted to Sukruti he seemed to think that Prachi was home....dont ask me why he thought like that. He has a stupid logic of setting Prachi free for her happiness... there is nothing we can do abt the guy acting like a jerk, because his actions are NOT because he doesnt want to admit that he loves Prachi...but because he thinks Prachi doesnt love him. And for him it was Prachi's decision to move away from him... his visible concern for her would have defeated his purpose. having said that I wont deny he needs a whack to get him back to his senses for not realising his wife loves him and no one else😡

He is always very protective abt Prachi in his own stupid way....he has proved that beyond doubt when he helped Prachi in turkey and when he landed up from no where in time to save his wife from jail and the way he fought Ayesha for prachi's honour.

As far him going for his dad, he had to... he went missing and for heaven sake the man was ill, so the concern was natural.

oke ryka .... why I am not surprised top see you defending milind....

and yep he was surprised to know prachi left.... agreed .... but he sat down and listened to the rambling off his beloved ayesha ..... not even taking time to go looking for his wifey.....

yes his action her stupid , and that is why we are complaining and trassing this lovely guy......

and yaar let us have some fun.... this chance we have to take.... never gone know if we get another......

ohh your wrong about his dad.... he was fine and better.... he didn't wanted to come home cause off surkirty...... so milind should had been more concern about wifey......

but our hopes are now on papa mishra and his dhanda wacking milind.....

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Posted: 18 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: shali

oke ryka .... why I am not surprised top see you defending milind....

and yep he was surprised to know prachi left.... agreed .... but he sat down and listened to the rambling off his beloved ayesha ..... not even taking time to go looking for his wifey.....

yes his action her stupid , and that is why we are complaining and trassing this lovely guy......

and yaar let us have some fun.... this chance we have to take.... never gone know if we get another......

ohh your wrong about his dad.... he was fine and better.... he didn't wanted to come home cause off surkirty...... so milind should had been more concern about wifey......

but our hopes are now on papa mishra and his dhanda wacking milind.....



That is exactly my point na... going and searching for Prachi will defeat the purpose of what he has set out to do... free Prachi from the bond of their marriage so that she is happy with Neev. One place he sets her free the next moment he is acting all protective? What is the funda? If he had to do that, he would have stopped her from leaving in the 1st place. He never wanted her to go, after the 30 days of notice, if ever the divorce had come through he would have left the house. He never would have wanted Prachi to leave the house... she did...it was a decision she took to leave the house, HOW can he stop her when he is the one setting her free?

It is not that Milind doesnt realise he loves her, he does. He is putting up an act because the world out doesnt know abt it and now he isnt a position to accept it ever(so he thinks😡) thus the 'I dont Miss, Prachi' attitude. Whatever Milind is doing is for Prachi's happiness and she is doing for his happiness. Both are idiots of the highest order... Milind might just be a step ahead. I am not defending his actions, because I would galdly be the 1st one to knock him a hammer for his stupidity. I am defending Milind's intentions which isnt and can never be against Prachi's interest, her safety or happiness.

Regarding his father, I will disagree... You may be fit enough to be discharged from a hospital, that surely doesnt mean u have recovered completely. The actual process of recovery for a paralysed patient and heart patient is after they are discharged from constant medical care. Milind has to be concerned as an emergency because how will his father support himself coming out of the hospital? what abt his food and more importantly his medicines? And at that age & state any over stress could be fatal. Did u see he needed help for walking? Prachi came holding his hand and later Milnd held his hand too while walking... that is how unwell Mishraji is.

Have all the fun bashing up Milind for his actions, he deserves it and more😡 I am just defending his intentions which came under fire😳.
Edited by Ryka - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#33
^^ Agree with you Ryka, its Milind's intentions that are to be defended at all, if misunderstood , and regarding his actions... oh well... he needs certainly more than a lil knock on his head!

Btw, I do feel that Milind is one the responsible for Ayesha to be misguided into believing that he is gonna be with her ... although Milind does cut her off , he isnt doing it strong enough although he does realize Ayesha is living with a misguided emotion... and Milind certainly dosent a hoot abt ONS at the moment... for him Ayesha is as good as the past that has been forgotten...

What he feels for her is pure friendship and his intention of talking to her was the same... teh concern was something as a friend coz he is one fella who has seen Ayesha right thru all her probs from childhood... and he is aware that no one could understand her better..

Hope they show Milind to be a very very dignified character in the way he handles Ayesha and his friendship with her! Keeping fingers crossed!
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Posted: 18 years ago
#34
ryka....

I do understand and realiz his good intentions.... dear.... it just I disagree with his action........
there for all the masti around him....
and yes we will keep on bashing him....

sar....
yes agreed he needs to be very clear to ayesha's... at time moment he is only leading her on.... without realizing it.....
but even then the Q .. remains if ayesha is willing to understand...


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Arre.....Ayesha is never going to understand....If it was really love she would have....but it is more of arrogance and adamancy and that's the reason she is not letting him go...She will hold on to him till he puts her down hard...!!!Which i think Milind is has not done so far!

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Posted: 18 years ago
#36
Agree with u sareeta! Was going to write a post abt his current attitude towards Ayesha but decided against it as u've said it all.
He's going thru a conflicting phase....when Neeve called her "nasur' M didn't even bat an eyelid. But when she goes all sobby sobby and possesive on him he looks clueless and almost happy to go along with her.
Ur right..he's concerned and thinks only he can understand her and no one else. He's probably guilty coz he doesn't care for her that way anymore and when she goes on abt how he's hers now...I guess he doesn't know what to say or do except deny his feelings for Prachi. Duffer!!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pippa

Agree with u sareeta! Was going to write a post abt his current attitude towards Ayesha but decided against it as u've said it all.
He's going thru a conflicting phase....when Neeve called her "nasur' M didn't even bat an eyelid. But when she goes all sobby sobby and possesive on him he looks clueless and almost happy to go along with her.
Ur right..he's concerned and thinks only he can understand her and no one else. He's probably guilty coz he doesn't care for her that way anymore and when she goes on abt how he's hers now...I guess he doesn't know what to say or do except deny his feelings for Prachi. Duffer!!!



^^ Pippa Ji, On the point highlighted above in your comment, I beg to differ ...
He is guilty as u said , a tad bit, coz he is seeing the effect on her.. but not to the extent of whithering in guilt.. but to atleast be a good support .. knowing she never turned to anyone else...

I dont think he is confused as to what to say or what to do, but as a friend, listens to her , coz he does realize she needs to let it out... and blurting out his denial abt Prachi adds fuel to the fire in Ayesha's heart... coz , all the while while she ranted on, he was quiet , jus waiting to add abt his stupid denial!
I think he is a true sense being a friend for Ayesha, that Ayesha is mistaking for dormant emotions of love... Sad!

I have this dirty sticky feeling that Ayesha and Milind's relation will turn out like the one between Fardeen and Urmila in the movie Pyaar tune kya Kiya.. where urmila's character Jia assumed a lot... coz he didnt deny anything , nor did he accept... !

I hope I am proved wrong...!
Edited by sareeta - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#38

Ayee ray Ayee ray 🤔Anju (doesnt rhyme i guess 😆), After that dhamkay dhar entry( well atleast according to me😆) , let me get to the pt😆

After reading all your valuable points, I agree with all of you a little bit 😃.

A few of you defending the "Cave Man" Milind😳. Yes for the first time he is behaving like a gentleman😳, why becoz he feels that prachi doesnot love him😭. *Sigh* Love is a weird emotion, when one feels it, ppl worry about the other person not loving them rather than their own emotion for the other person. Similarly as my dear sisters pointed out, that Milind is behaving like an idiot or jerk or whatever you call him, because he is in love and he wants to give his Love(prachi) the worlds happiness, that according to him is Neev.

It is hard for him to communicate (🤔 which is imp i guess) with prachi becoz he is scared if prachi really tells him that she doesnot love him. Well he might sound all practical and harsh, but like meli said he is like a coconut " hard at the outside and soft in the inside "😛. It is one thing to go talk about the fact that she doesnot love him, or loves neev, but its another thing to hear it from the horse mouth ( sorry thats just a phrase). he is really scared, upar say he has this notion of being really unlucky, that everybody who he loves leaves him or he doesnot get them. So that makes him feel even more depressed.

On the whole he is right now a soul who is in love and who wants his love to be happy. That was a big essay, i hope i made some sense

Reg

Anju

P.S: I have shocked and amazed myself by supporting milind 😆, i am sure krishna ben will have a heart attack😆

Edited by red_chile - 18 years ago

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