Milind's double standards

Guys, i can't really understand milind's behavious in today's episode.... he also loved A since childhood, dreams of her, goes and put medicine on her wounds, says to her "tughe dukhta hai to mughe dukhta hai", eats food from her hand and what not.... never says sorry to P for this behaviour..... and always tells P that he married her to take revenge from A... so what 's his problem now?

in the heat of moment if N said he loved P, so what? what's the big deal? and after P's so many apologies, he is not even ready to listen to her😡....

i hate this stupid mentality in ekta's serials where wives r supposed to be sati savitri while hubbys r allowed to do anything.... damn you Milind...... u left ur wife when she needed u the most......

very good piont.....

but sweety you forgot the basic rule in live/ekta world.....

man are allowed to do everything amd a woman has her boundaries.....

so yes milind was behaving like a man, who saw his private property in the hands off another man.....
and he was jalouse and hurt today.....

the guy is discovering more everyday so soon he will know that he loves his wifey.....

^ Actually, I do agree

What I don't understand is why was Milind so shocked to hear Neev's confession? Weren't they both aware of each other's pasts?

Prachi has never even glanced at Neev after her marriage. On the other hand, Milind only got married to incite Ayesha, and often insulted and misunderstood Prachi. Not once did she take him to task, and instead silently withstood his taunts.

I understand that the dance, followed by Neev's passionate confession must have shocked him to his very soul. HOwever, it's only fair that he let Prachi explain herself....if he truly understood her, he would realize that there was a solid reason behind Prachi's presence at the party.

Oh well, Mi, don't lose your loving wife because of some silly misunderstanding...instead, please clarify your doubts with Prachi or at the very least, hope Ekta clears his mind soon...Sukriti - where are you? Save your Bhaiya's marriage - you are our beacon of hope...keep Michi's fans satisfied 😆

Well you know , you certainly have a very valid and strong point there, but then I guess I do have to say this...

If one looked at it from Milind's point of view... the day at the temple in the rain where he confessed his wrong doing was a way of being completely honest with her... he was... and for him... it was the most honest and truth ful he did... to himself and to her... it was redemption of himself... although unintentional...

It was from then on... the man had truly in every way accepted her as his wife...

If one would care to notice... Milind never said... he would leave Prachi... he married her in all knowing... and conscious and the thought of leaving her or her leaving him never crossed his mind. It was like she was a part of his life... albeit how his feeling swere towards her were a diff aspect, but he always called her his wife.....

The man ... even in his anger and pain... opened up to her... jus days after their marriage confessing in anger... what irked and angered him... and let his tears of pain show.... the pain that tore his heart every waking moment ....

There was a craving for her attention , that he lost with Ayesha when she walked away and all that he ever wanted was a family.. a gharonda that Prachi was beginning to be apart of for him and when he realized she was going away , it was yet another blow... a blow that shook his very faith... in the institution of marriage...

He had never insulted the institution of marraige.. he married Prachi to make Ayesha jealous... and in his anger treated Prachi badly , but he did so , coz he always believed she was his wife... no matter how silly that sounds... he felt... he had a right to talk , to be angry , to vent... to jus be himself with her... and what more can we need as proof that Milind has been his true self , good or bad with Prachi... ! It is acceptance in its purest form...

And his tears today were a silent confession of the pain that tore his heart... of his surrender to the relation ship M and P shared... and he had already conveyed in his silence... his acceptance of her and it was he he felt who had not understood her silence and it pained him... for he felt ... he let his heart make him believe things that weren't true...

Milind is a man now pained at the deception of his heart that made him believe things he thinks are not true ... unaware of the truth itself!

I rest my case...

Originally posted by: krangara

^ Actually, I do agree

What I don't understand is why was Milind so shocked to hear Neev's confession? Weren't they both aware of each other's pasts?

Prachi has never even glanced at Neev after her marriage. On the other hand, Milind only got married to incite Ayesha, and often insulted and misunderstood Prachi. Not once did she take him to task, and instead silently withstood his taunts.

I understand that the dance, followed by Neev's passionate confession must have shocked him to his very soul. HOwever, it's only fair that he let Prachi explain herself....if he truly understood her, he would realize that there was a solid reason behind Prachi's presence at the party.

Oh well, Mi, don't lose your loving wife because of some silly misunderstanding...instead, please clarify your doubts with Prachi or at the very least, hope Ekta clears his mind soon...Sukriti - where are you? Save your Bhaiya's marriage - you are our beacon of hope...keep Michi's fans satisfied 😆

I agree totally!

[quote]Milind is a man now pained at the deception of his heart that made him believe things he thinks are not true ... unaware of the truth itself! [/quote]

Well, that makes sense..still, he shouldn't have pushed her away 😭

I agree....I mean since the day MP got married..Prachi did not even look back at neev..but Miland and Ayesha have that scenes togather...and He is all blaming Prachi when she wasn't the who said anything to Neev..I don't understand after everything that happened I accepted Miland to trust Prachi..and It all comes down to the point why is it right for Miland to be close to Ayesha and if Prachi even talks to neev its wrong...is that just because she is the wife??....Well I really think that is wrong....

Originally posted by: sareeta

Well you know , you certainly have a very valid and strong point there, but then I guess I do have to say this...

If one looked at it from Milind's point of view... the day at the temple in the rain where he confessed his wrong doing was a way of being completely honest with her... he was... and for him... it was the most honest and truth ful he did... to himself and to her... it was redemption of himself... although unintentional...

It was from then on... the man had truly in every way accepted her as his wife...

If one would care to notice... Milind never said... he would leave Prachi... he married her in all knowing... and conscious and the thought of leaving her or her leaving him never crossed his mind. It was like she was a part of his life... albeit how his feeling swere towards her were a diff aspect, but he always called her his wife.....

The man ... even in his anger and pain... opened up to her... jus days after their marriage confessing in anger... what irked and angered him... and let his tears of pain show.... the pain that tore his heart every waking moment ....

There was a craving for her attention , that he lost with Ayesha when she walked away and all that he ever wanted was a family.. a gharonda that Prachi was beginning to be apart of for him and when he realized she was going away , it was yet another blow... a blow that shook his very faith... in the institution of marriage...

He had never insulted the institution of marraige.. he married Prachi to make Ayesha jealous... and in his anger treated Prachi badly , but he did so , coz he always believed she was his wife... no matter how silly that sounds... he felt... he had a right to talk , to be angry , to vent... to jus be himself with her... and what more can we need as proof that Milind has been his true self , good or bad with Prachi... ! It is acceptance in its purest form...

And his tears today were a silent confession of the pain that tore his heart... of his surrender to the relation ship M and P shared... and he had already conveyed in his silence... his acceptance of her and it was he he felt who had not understood her silence and it pained him... for he felt ... he let his heart make him believe things that weren't true...

Milind is a man now pained at the deception of his heart that made him believe things he thinks are not true ... unaware of the truth itself!

I rest my case...

Sareeta darling,

Beautifully put dear👏 and couldn't have done it any better myself😃 and completley agree with you.👏

Love

Krishna

@kubare - Thank you Krishna! Am so glad you see the point in the argument.... I was beginning to feel like a solitary soldier! 😆

I guess we could interpret Milind's behavior in two ways:

a. Sareeta's explanation: Milind is sad, not because he suspected Prachi of cheating on him (although he does still believe that they got to the hilltop TOGETHER, which is not true 😭 ), but because he could not understand Prachi's feelings towards Neev. He has wrongly concluded that Prachi's silent, downcast glances implied that she still pined for her first love, when, in actuality, those only reflected her growing desire for him - her husband - and her affection for his sister

b. He truly believes that Prachi has lied and cheated to him all along; that she wanted him to go on the business tour only to spend some quality time with Neev at the party. If this is true, he is being a plain jerk, who has no right to accuse Pracih of such misdemeanor when he was the one who wronged her during the first few months of their wedding